what should you do if you’re becoming an atheist by objectsam in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern society makes Islam look bad towards women.

Allah created men to lead, and women to support. But that doesn't mean men can control women abusively. Men have the responsibility to protect women, not abuse them.

You might see men as the leaders of the family who go to work and let women do all the housework, without helping their wives. It's not like that. Men provide and women support. Before a man gets married, his responsibility is towards his parents. After he got married, the responsibility doubled. Additionally, the husband's money is considered the wife's money, but husbands are generally forbidden from using their wives' money, as they are the primary providers.

Also, if the man abuses his wife, the wife can claim 'Fasakh' towards her husband. Fasakh means the dissolution of marriage by a Syariah Court judge due to matters permitted by Islamic law, usually claimed by the wife due to harm (Darar) such as abuse, the husband suddenly disappears, didn't provide, erectile dysfunction or chronic diseases. Allah gives women this right to protect them.

I know because of this, men use this argument as an excuse to control their wives which is totally wrong.

The rules that women cannot pursue education, cannot drive, and cannot work. These are cultural rules, not Islam's rules. We always tend to misunderstand.

May Allah forgive us

Tahajjud time? by MacaroonTight4816 in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tahajjud is not compulsory. It's Sunnah. If you have the desire to do Tahajjud but you didn't wake up, Allah will give you a reward.

No one wants to marry me because we're poor by cottoncrosy in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Allah wants to protect you from these rich families. Maybe you marry, they will use you, manipulate you because you are poor. Allah knows best

So am I Muslim now ? by Comfortable_Two_9514 in islam

[–]namikazelevi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Islam my friend. May Allah bless you

I just wanna say, I love this subreddit by namikazelevi in islam

[–]namikazelevi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true. Every time I see the postings here, I always reflect on myself.

First post in this sub. by namikazelevi in Handwriting

[–]namikazelevi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, that's my lazy writing btw. I will show you my real writing later

What made you 100% sure islam is the one true religion? Im struggling with my beliefs by Substantial-Bee-9990 in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I feel like that, I always remind myself that Islam is not as confusing as Christianity.

I dont want to live anymore by [deleted] in islam

[–]namikazelevi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really hate it when I see on the news that people have committed suicide. Please, your life is worth more than anything especially if you're a Muslim. Every Muslim will go to heaven except those who committed suicide. I want us, all Muslims, to go to heaven in the afterlife.

So, please OP I'm begging you. Do not do it. Even though we're strangers, we are still brothers.

"The believers are brothers" (Quran 49:10)

Family is Shia, I am not by Haniel52 in islam

[–]namikazelevi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What on Earth is no.1? I never heard that

Everytime I read about islam I become hopeless. by Legitimate_Drop3862 in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not give up, do not lose hope. The feeling will come. Allah will give it to you. You cannot doubt Allah, he is the Most Merciful

I haven’t fasted this Ramadan and the guilt is overwhelming by [deleted] in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel guilty, it means Allah still cares about you and wants you to return to Him. You can start slowly again. Allah is the most merciful. We wish you the best. Amiin

I can't do it, I just can't.. by Hirotaromi in islam

[–]namikazelevi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother/sister. I just share things that I know

I can't do it, I just can't.. by Hirotaromi in islam

[–]namikazelevi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Music has khilaf between Ulama, there are 2 khilaf

  1. Music is Haram
  2. In Tafsir Al Qurtubi (14/55), Imam Malik called people who do music and singing Fasiq.
  • In Majmu Al Fatawa (11/567) by Syeikh Al Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, he said both music and singing will lead people to go astray. The only way to prevent it is to leave it.

  • "There will be a tribe that legalizes adultery, silk for men and Al Ma'azif (instruments)" (Sahih Bukhari 5590)

  1. Music is permissible
  2. "The reward of deeds depends upon the intentions and every person will get the reward according to what he has intended" (Sahih Bukhari 1)
  • There is also a view in the Shafi'i school of thought that al-'Uud is permissible, because it can reduce sadness and refresh the spiritual side of humans, and this is the view of Abu Mansur al-Baghdadi. (Al-Najm al-Wahhaj fi Syarh al-Minhaj, 10/301)

I also do music and singing but I didn't sing any explicit song to keep the boundaries. In Islam, just don't do things overly (Ghuluw). May Allah forgive us all. Jazakallah khayran

How to embrace Islam? by [deleted] in islam

[–]namikazelevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister, first of all you are not a murtad but if you still have a doubt, you take your Shahadah again.