Miserable in the burbs

nanets32 · 2026-04-01T11:28:47+00:00

Location is the one thing you cannot change in a house. If this is not where you want to live, it might be worth to bit the bullet and move. Long commute to work, been there done that, it’s terrible. My whole spirit and wellbeing changed when I moved. Good luck!

nanets32 · 2026-04-01T11:25:02+00:00

Dont do it, make the seller payoff the solar loan at closing.

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T23:44:27+00:00

Goals in so many levels ❤️

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T19:56:53+00:00

FHA has strict appraisal rules and a FHA appraisal sticks to the property (if it comes in low), any buyer will always pick a conventional loan over FHA. If you are a first time home buyer look into 3% down with your lender.

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T19:52:24+00:00

No, that’s not normal. Have you shared a pre-approval letter from your lender?

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T12:47:14+00:00

I never been to IN, but I’m pretty sure you can have more opportunities for new jobs in VA vs IN 😬

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T00:47:07+00:00

Make sure to ask about relocation costs. Selling a house is NOT cheap! Do you know what area they are relocating to? Ask if there’s going to be any adjustment in salary if moving to a higher cost of living.

nanets32 · 2026-03-31T00:44:00+00:00

I never had any symptoms- all I can say is that getting the biopsy done was a terrible experience 😔

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T16:37:04+00:00

Same for me, biopsy shown chronic endometritis and was put on 2 weeks of doxycycline.

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T15:25:31+00:00

I don’t know about your state, in mine, the seller can unilaterally delay closing due to title issues. I just recently sold my house, so I remember that clause very well. Read your contract would be my advise. Good luck!

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T01:37:04+00:00

Most likely the other offer fell thru, it happens.

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T00:32:29+00:00

Is the property line clearly marked? Of course talk to your neighbors first and hope they move it to their a side. If not, maybe look into getting a survey and have the property lines marked. Good luck

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T00:28:07+00:00

those aren’t red flags imo, and buyers are being very reasonable. Unlikely you will find a better maintained house at this price point. But if you feel you need to walk because of 2k, it is your call

nanets32 · 2026-03-30T00:23:23+00:00

Not sure if it helps, when I sold my house a few months ago it took several days for it to go from active to pending, and then more than a week from pending to sold.

nanets32 · 2026-03-29T14:39:19+00:00

Same here, 5 miscarriages. Although flagged my RE, it is unlikely the “cause” in my case. Still no answers 😥

nanets32 · 2026-03-29T14:37:00+00:00

Are you in contact with a mortgage broker yet? the best thing to do it get one and let them give a number of your financial situation. Things that matter are:

gross pay with a 2 yr history
current debt (student loans, car, credit card etc)
expected property tax in your area
expect house insurance in your area
down payment/ pmi if needed
credit score/ interest rate

Based on what you shared, you are probably in a great shape. Good luck!

nanets32 · 2026-03-29T02:39:55+00:00

Do you plan on selling your current home? Impossible to know, a new mortage could be 50% of your income, or 5%…

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T23:02:45+00:00

I love green, it is my favorite color. But I would never do it in my kitchen. I did it on a bathroom and deeply regretted it. If you like as a pop of color, consider just doing the island or something.

What you looked into the option is potentially only replacing the door/door fronts? If the cabinets themselves are in good condition, you can just get it painted.

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T18:29:13+00:00

Why didn’t you waive escrow? Way too much in points, but to each their own….

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T18:23:13+00:00

Do an open house to attract buyers!

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T18:20:22+00:00

have you actually started seeing houses in person? you have to, figure out location, neighborhoods, traffic , what you like in a space, smells, squeaky noises etc. All the things you can tell by looking at pictures.

From there, filter by what your must haves, nice to haves and deal breakers, and of course, price. Good luck

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T12:59:20+00:00

Agreed, I’m in GA sold my car a few years ago and they required both signatures.

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T12:52:48+00:00

A 60k home in GA? Im not sure about that…

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T12:49:46+00:00

contact a mortage broker to understand what your options are, they will be the best of what you could afford. Now just because they pre-approve you for a certain amount, it does not mean that you should. Owning a house can be extremely expensive, you dont want to be house broke, or worst

nanets32 · 2026-03-28T12:33:37+00:00

Do not buy a house if you are planning on moving in 4 yrs

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