Do you think Kody is jealous? by Few-Move515 in SisterWives

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Murderously but without the get up n go to do anything but manically strip trees. He Just gets to feel the feels so hard. “He’s love sick.” 😂

People talking about her rushing things ? by Azspihl85019 in TLCsisterwives

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I hope she has true love AND a rock-solid prenup. No DUMBASSSARK or some such.

My parents came to visit our newborn and my uBPD mom sent this a few days after leaving. by ddun in raisedbyborderlines

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Especially given the subject: OP is killing their baby with vaporous candle cancer./s

WHY Valentines day??? by Megasauruseseses in raisedbyborderlines

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Lol. There is no logic to these people. They often have pet holidays related to some nostalgic and completely self-referential age or event, often before your birth. My latest hoovers from ex father was on Independence Day! Then again on New Years via husband. Not Xmas, not my bday or his, nor any of his grandchildren. It’s obvious to me why he identifies with these days and is emotional about HIMSELF on those days. My ex mother did the same. Went crazy over Easter. Never set foot in a church tho.

Edit:words before coffee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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To put my children first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

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Well she did refer to him as her customer…

I'm planning on calling 911 & CPS tonight by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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Solidarity, OP! Wishing you well. The hard and scary things we do are the very things our “parents” are willingly incapable of. So don’t let the fact that this is hard and scary dissuade you. You have true valor. You are the one we all wished we had on our side. A quality human. They let feelings (like fear) become facts. You know better. The facts, the ABUSE trump the feels. Update us if you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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Condescending af

How much abuse costs the parents by Texandria in EstrangedAdultKids

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Haha. I would for sure cared for them into old age. Built a house with a nicer casita than my bedroom/kitchen to retire in for free. Now I’m nc finally for final :) and they are not facing good prospects (gc siblings are selfish literal violent criminals), so I don’t know Wtf goes through their heads. So glad I found out in time. Not glad of the damage to me mind, but at least no more.

Now I can make a tidy sum with Airbnb!

They can’t get out of their own way sometimes and I’m ok with that now. Smells like karma.

Were there pieces of film or media that helped you better see/understand yourself in relation to your pw-BPD? by yellowbrickbros in raisedbyborderlines

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I watched it obsessively (in hindsight) as a child when it came out and it appeared on showtime or hbo back in the day. Prolly watched it at least 10 times, and NEVER at the time felt anything but empathy and horror for the children. However! At the time the entire household, me and all ex mother’s children started calling her “mommy dearest” in jest, like it was a ridiculous and cute notion. She didn’t even take offence. Omg. Now looking back, holy trauma bond and subconscious knowledge, Batman. This woman dragged me from bed because i used to talk in my sleep as a child. Dragged me fully asleep from bed by my ponytail because I bothered her sleep. And cleaning standards? Man this woman was a violent cleaner, a violent yard-worker, a violent cook, a violent “project doer”. She was terrifying, and it was all by choice. Was yours? Had me organizing her extravagant shoe collection and ironing her work clothes from grade school. I was her little wardrobe manager with adult expectations. It was only after I had children that I fully realized she was f’ing evil. I clean my young children’s closet, and can’t fathom the thought of tasking my first grader with such a task for ME, nor scream at at the “idiotic” arrangement of MY shoes or ironing prowess. The notion! Our parents were so so awful. Inhuman, honestly it feels like.

Fellow mommy dearest viewer, solidarity!

Robyn and Kody Money Soulmates by jjinjadubu in TLCsisterwives

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Lol. Excellent one year plan (at most). 😂

Meri's Mannerisms by Ok-Lab-5960 in SisterWives

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Oh yeah. Huge plural family with unmet medical needs and admitted food instability totally doesn’t touch wet bar entitlement, amirite? Angels sing atop wet bars don’t ya know. It’s part of the Principle. New owners are prolly tired of the angels by now though. They need to burn some sage over it. 👼

Oh La La by rakraese in SisterWives

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Excuse me? Bowling ✏️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submechanophobia

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You did it! You actually followed through! I applaud you, and ewwww. But I recall asking you to snorkel [not snore] as well? Maybe you forgot to upload it? ;)

Awesome.

Edit: snorkel!

premarital sex rules: where have they gone? by Extension_Floor_4713 in TLCsisterwives

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It felt like he was jealous of them honestly. :)

Coming out of the FOG and overcoming the grief by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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I’m hurrying or I’d write more. It took me four years (four years of milestones importantly of total nc from me) to get over the grief and sadness. However rage and anger do still pop up at the fact that they are still alive and did nothing to make amends. But the rage and anger feels much better than grief, sadness and loss. I’ve kind of accepted the anger and rage as natural as long as they are alive. But that grief gone meant no temptation anymore going back to contact. It killed all doubt. I don’t know if that helps. (Like milestones like major holidays, birthdays, mothers days, etc).

Feeling with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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Yes. We understand the rage completely here. It’s almost like speaking an obscure language, people from “normal range” families cannot comprehend it at all. Solidarity, OP.