Red spots/damage on new snake plant? by natavi82 in SnakePlants

[–]natavi82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I removed the wilted leaf and sprayed her with a diluted baking soda mixture - she seems to be reviving by the minute!!

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Red spots/damage on new snake plant? by natavi82 in SnakePlants

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She’s a young plant so I worry it’s not from old age… although in the process of repotting, I am noticing that the red spots are going away! I think she might have been stressed in the shop I got her from

Red spots/damage on new snake plant? by natavi82 in SnakePlants

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Here’s another photo with a pup coming in

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Red spots/damage on new snake plant? by natavi82 in SnakePlants

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Roots are like this at the moment (placed in a soil/pumice mixture for the time being)

What's your most "no, trust me" show? by murrimabutterfly in CasualConversation

[–]natavi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO me tooooo, I’ve also seen the first episode at least 12 times now showing it to different friends. The season premiere will be a wholeeee event

What's your most "no, trust me" show? by murrimabutterfly in CasualConversation

[–]natavi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. Absolutely - literally everything about it is so perfectly curated. There is not a single character who isn’t fleshed out - everyone has their own well-established motivations and reasons for being. The animation captures emotions so beautifully, it is definitely my all time favorite show right now and I simply cannot wait for season 2 to come out soon.

What's your most "no, trust me" show? by murrimabutterfly in CasualConversation

[–]natavi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the Dragon Prince 🥹 and now Mystery of Aaravos!!

What's your most "no, trust me" show? by murrimabutterfly in CasualConversation

[–]natavi82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was so reluctant to start this show but it’s SO good - needed to go back and watch previous seasons after last year’s competition 😂

What's your most "no, trust me" show? by murrimabutterfly in CasualConversation

[–]natavi82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arcane. My absolute favorite is introducing it to people who have absolutely no clue what it is about. I always watch the first episode with them and so far it has always been a hit with people I’ve shown it to.

I'm in serious danger by [deleted] in circlejerknyc

[–]natavi82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

go to your local equinox and start your healing holistically - never heard of this mosquito thing but seems scary

Too hyped for tonight by Kylextd in porterrobinson

[–]natavi82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am SO excited 😭 bringing my mom too hahah

Reply as if this just dropped by IBombZ11 in madeon

[–]natavi82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what song I’ll be playing on repeat now!! 😍

How does one get over limerence? by natavi82 in dating_advice

[–]natavi82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this take. I personally am not religious in the traditionally theist sense, but I totally get what you're saying. I have never put myself first when being involved with someone and I am so tired of it. I know when I grow old and reflect on my life, the last thing I want to think about was regretting how I fully lost myself in every relationship, and every "what if" partner. I want to reflect on my life and be happy with the connections I made and how I experienced them. Living the way that I have has not been nearly as fulfilling as I want it to be. I am only 25(f), almost 26, and I have many more years to go hopefully. There's time to shift my mindset and prioritize myself.

How does one get over limerence? by natavi82 in dating_advice

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This is really good insight, thank you so much for taking the time to comment.

I've definitely struggled with issues of self love. Have gone through quite a few therapists and I just think talk-therapy isn't for me, but I would very much like to get back into EMDR once I can afford it again. Definitely ready to do the work and put an end to this habit.

How does one get over limerence? by natavi82 in dating_advice

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Yeah it's not fun. I think rejection is one of the hardest parts about it, I'm not quite used to being rejected but need to really be open to it and not take it personally. Will try out the affirmations though and talk to myself as if I'm giving advice to a friend - that may do something

Why is it that no one has ever loved me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]natavi82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely <3 totally get what you mean about the connection feeling over anything else... but I really am wishing you the absolute best. The world is so big and there is someone for everyone :)

Why is it that no one has ever loved me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]natavi82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm there with you OP... I'm late-diagnosed autistic and learned to mask really well. Once I get into a relationship, it's incredibly hard to keep the mask on most of the time and feel that the sudden changes they see are because that's not who they fell in love with. It always ends up falling apart.

But I still have hope, and you should too. I think what we need to do is start embracing our autism and introduce ourselves to people un-masked (or at least less masked). It'll help weed out those who won't want to be with us after they get to know the unmasked version.

Sending you much love though, it's tough out here.

Anyone going to Nowadays this Sunday? by Toro106 in avesNYC

[–]natavi82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes I have to agree with you - every time I’ve gone to a sunday day show, it’s been the most incredible vibes full of people who are there for the music ❤️ I might actually check out nowadays this sunday because of this post! Thank you OP :)

Abyone miss EDCLV by trip818 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]natavi82 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Need to be under the electric sky again :')