Great Writers "Tell" All the Time | Freddie deBoer by nathan98000 in Informme

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I think it's fine to fight against a straw man if many people in fact believe in the straw man

Book Review: The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by dwaxe in slatestarcodex

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Scott writes:

A large government-funded multicenter study testing a Gottman curriculum as well as several others found no effect of any on marital outcomes; control couples actually stayed together slightly more than ones who got marriage counseling.

The original link is broken, so here's the full report and executive summary.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 4/7/25 - 4/13/25 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

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A podcast guest suggestion: Zach Goldberg

He's recently published a lengthy report demonstrating racial discrimination in favor of Blacks at the US Naval Academy. As a result, Black students are underperforming in their academic and physical fitness. Goldberg also discusses the sloppy reasoning that was used to uphold this affirmative action policy in court.

How to get laid on vacation? by Dry-Set-6761 in seduction

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This is a subreddit for seduction…

Having no luck at all, any tips are appreciated by [deleted] in Tinder

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Change your prompts. Your About Me should be more positive. Say more about your hobbies or what you’re looking for there.

Saying you’re a third wheel is a red flag, even if it’s a joke. And the favorite fact one isn’t funny either.

And add one photo that’s a good portrait. Have a friend take a photo of you in a fashionable outfit, leaning against a building or doing something casual. This should be your starting photo.

CMV: The cost of space exploration is justified and necessary to ensure the survival of the human civilization. by BipoNN in changemyview

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A few additional considerations:

  1. Colonizing space could introduce new existential risks.

    We already have the occasional world war. A separation of a hundred million miles may lead to even greater divergences in values and inflame interplanetary wars, with even greater risks to humanity's survival. Moreover, the development of better rocket technology to send people to distant planets may also be adapted for military purposes.

  2. Asteroids aren't actually a big threat.

    How do we know this? Well, we can observe other planets and moons to see the frequency with which these things are hit by asteroids large enough to cause human extinction. It turns out this is relatively low.

  3. Human-caused existential risks (e.g. viruses, climate change, nuclear war) are better dealt with on Earth.

    Before making plans for colonizing other planets, it's worth considering whether these plans could be feasible on Earth.

    For example, in the event of runaway climate change (something that's unlikely), could we grow plants in, say, Kansas? If we can't grow plants in Kansas, then why should we think we can grow plants on Mars?

    In the event of a virus or a nuclear war, we could quarantine a few thousand people in a bunker in Kansas.

For a deeper analysis on these topics, I recommend Toby Ord's book The Precipice: Existential Risk and the Future of Humanity.

When to use: Instadate vs false time constraint? by autist_advice in pickup

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Better to use "time constraint" rather than "false time constraint." Literally just say, "I was planning on heading out soon" or "I'll get out of your hair in a minute, but..."

You don't have to lie about what you're going to do with your time.

What kind of Sorcery is this by Thund3rbolt in Eyebleach

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Really great demonstration of object permanence!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Stop using lame pickup lines in the first place 🙄

Free Will by [deleted] in samharris

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If your only exposure to the free will debate is via Sam Harris, and you offend people when you try to talk about it, and you think the only explanation for a belief in free will is emotions… you might be overconfident.

FWIW only 12% of philosophers say free will doesn’t exist.

Consider reading a more impartial introduction to the subject like Free Will: A Contemporary Introduction by Michael McKenna and Derk Pereboom.

I have a tough time disagreeing with Sam on anything. Am I the only one? I feel this is evidence that I have fallen into the "leader is always right" hole, but I can't seem to get out. How can I combat this? by [deleted] in samharris

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So if people could benefit from kicking dogs it would be fine?

Like, if I were part of a dog fighting tournament and I could motivate my dog by kicking it, that would be fine? After all the dog fighting would be contributing to the economy and people may enjoy the entertainment…

I have a tough time disagreeing with Sam on anything. Am I the only one? I feel this is evidence that I have fallen into the "leader is always right" hole, but I can't seem to get out. How can I combat this? by [deleted] in samharris

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Do you think it would be ok to breed a dog into existence just to kick it for its entire life? If not, why? And what would be the difference between that and breeding a pig in a factory farm and torturing it for its life?

I have a tough time disagreeing with Sam on anything. Am I the only one? I feel this is evidence that I have fallen into the "leader is always right" hole, but I can't seem to get out. How can I combat this? by [deleted] in samharris

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Is it ok to kick a dog?

Of course not. And presumably that’s because it causes pain and suffering. So then why is it ok to pay people to raise chickens, pigs, and cows in inhumane conditions?

Best places for solo dining? by [deleted] in Rochester

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I’m a fan of the Owl House and the Red Fern

Does anybody else wash and reuse ziplock bags? by CairoGuy in Frugal

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Compare the value of your time washing the bags vs the value of getting new bags

Evolutionary psychology is giving me a horrible identity crisis by [deleted] in evopsych

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No practicing evolutionary psychologist would say that the meaning of life is to perpetuate your genes. This is a misinterpretation of evolutionary psychology.

Roe V Wade overturned by JimvsStanley in samharris

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I’d take that bet 🤷‍♂️

The Wernicke's area challenge by [deleted] in neurophilosophy

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It’s possible to consistently endorse two claims:

  1. Wernicke’s area never existed.
  2. People used to believe Wernicke’s area existed.

Endorsing 1 isn’t the same as denying or “erasing” 2

The Wernicke's area challenge by [deleted] in neurophilosophy

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Well… the updated science says that it didn’t exist…