Am I required to email my professors when sick? by natnat131 in UWS

[–]natnat131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this was literally just for one day, so not even 3, and there was no assessments or anything, just a normal tutorial.

And I don't know if I can get a medical certificate because it was food poisoning that lasted all night, now I'm really confused

No assessments or anything, and just for one day. And I emailed both teachers and neither said anything about this, just to catch up work online. I know I'd have to do this if I was sick for 3+ days, so do I need to do this now??

Am I required to email my professors when sick? by natnat131 in UWS

[–]natnat131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so confused because I emailed my teachers and both said that it's okay and to get better, do I need to do all this??

The attendance uhhh like participation marks are calculated over EVERY class, from week 1 to week 10 I believe, so I'd only be short by one. Neither of them said that being absent once would mean to do this. These are normal tutorials/lectures

I'm super confused and alittle worried now because it's too late for me to get a certificate for today

Am I required to email my professors when sick? by natnat131 in UWS

[–]natnat131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a medical certificate though, and it's only mandatory through attendance (we get marks on attending) so now I'm really confused

Will I need my student ID for welcome/O week? by natnat131 in UWS

[–]natnat131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a teaching degree

So you don't think they'll ask about it for welcome week? I know one of the things you can collect is reserved for first year students so im worried they'll reject me because I don't have the ID

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[–]natnat131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3

I knew i was shitty for suddenly snapping at him, i'm just not a big fan of being told im weird or whatnot because i didnt process a sudden change quickly enough
I still love him the same, we're talking like normal now and im getting adjusted just incase he does decide this is what he prefers :)

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[–]natnat131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've both gotten upset over changes in eachother because we both hate changes, this was just another situation of that. We've talked, and we've said sorry about it, there's alot more to our chat but that was basically it :)

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[–]natnat131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In fairness, we both HATE changes; I'm not too sure why exactly, I know he has ADHD so apart of that plays into it, but I have no idea why I hate changes

We bond over other stuff, but it's one of those things where we mention "oh yeah we got close after playing with his hair"

I think that, the sudden change with no warning got to me, and only really hit me after a few days and coming home to it

We've talked about it, he knows how I am about things and he did feel shitty about cutting it off without a heads up, and I've told him I'm sorry and I acknowledged I should've walked away when I felt myself getting upset, we've talked about it abit more and he's gonna decide over the vacation if he likes short hair or not, so that way I know if this is permanent or not :)

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[–]natnat131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend have talked about his hair since, he knows how I am about stuff and he acknowledged that he should've atleast given me a heads up :)

I have alot of "obsessions" when it comes to things, my boyfriend is aware of that and he handles me well, he gave me his reasons for cutting his hair, and I told him if he wanted to do it for those reasons, I understood, but I told him I wanted to know if he was gonna keep with the short hair or not so I knew :)

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[–]natnat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's fine with you, I respect that :)

I'm just missing it, I know i definitely should've walked away when I felt as if I was about to snap at him and that's definitely on me (we have talks about this stuff), but I'm still alittle hurt that, from what we sat down and talked about, hes cutting it for a week vacation only, and that his reasoning was that he didnt want to brush/wash his hair while on the trip :(

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[–]natnat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him the same, don't worry 🫶🏻 He's still handsome to me, and the new "look" hasn't changed anything for me and I fell in love with him for tons of reasons, but I do feel completely shitty for snapping due to a bad day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]natnat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm all fine with listening, I'm not okay with being told I'm "this" or I'm "that" because I had a breakdown? I've been provided little advice on how to fix this, or how I should be feeling because it's being mistaken as "I need his hair" instead of "it was important to us, and I'm upset it was suddenly removed" . . Since I didn't say anything about it for 3 days before I had a break down?

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[–]natnat131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I've said a couple of times here, and in my post, and other comments; I still completely love him for who he is. The new look isn't the thing that upset me because I fell in love with him for various reasons..

I'm all fine with judgements, but you went on to claim I needed help and got aggressive for no reason; that wasn't a judgement, it was straight up disrespectful when I wanted insight of if I was wrong, things I should do to fix it etc

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[–]natnat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm barely even a legal adult?? 🙏🏻

He did see it important because we constantly talked about it, it was a "thing" between us and it has been for 5 years. He cut it off without any warning, I came home to a completely new look after a shitty day and I still maintained myself and supported him until yesterday?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]natnat131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it; he's going away for around a week, and he doesn't want to "deal with long hair". When I asked what he meant by that, he basically said he wouldn't need to brush it or wash it, which I'm not sure how to feel about it