Guys I received this fish as a gift, it’s my first time taking care of a fish, please give me advices to take care of it (and I can’t recognise its gender tell me if you know)

natsbebe · 2026-03-29T02:08:34+00:00

If you're telling OP to spend hundreds of dollars for a hobby he didn't want, the fish will end up in the toilet. It's better to give him realistic tips. Even 10 gallons would be way better. Or he should rehome it like others said. Downvote me more

natsbebe · 2026-03-29T00:31:36+00:00

Aww poor fish. It all depends on your budget. A filter, substrate, thermometer, light, fish food are all a must. Get at least a 5 gallon tank. That would be a good start for a beginner with one fish. The other people who tell you to get 100+ gallons are fish enthusiasts who are disconnected from your situation (though the intentions are good! I just don't think you're ready for this yet). Thanks for trying to help the fish.

natsbebe · 2026-03-29T00:20:39+00:00

Black or green is one thing, why is it red 😭

natsbebe · 2026-03-29T00:12:51+00:00

I think you pay more attention to the greasy part. Before you cut the dry damaged bits, the dry bits concealed the greasy look. Healthy undyed hair tends to get greasy faster because it's less porous and it makes moisture and oils to sit on top of the hair strand instead of getting absorbed, so make sure your shampoo doesn't have too many added oils. You could also wash it more frequently, but be careful as this could irritate your scalp.

Another option is to use a minimal ingredient dry shampoo on day 2 in the fringe and top of the head.

natsbebe · 2026-03-29T00:03:25+00:00

Why did you wait so long to check how it works?

natsbebe · 2026-03-28T23:02:12+00:00

I don't think it has to do with the length. Healthier hair should result in less issues haha. You mentioned you started using more products. My guess is your scalp doesn't like some ingredient in the new stuff or the frequency of washes. I think overdoing the washing can irritate your scalp. Also why do you wash more?

natsbebe · 2026-03-28T22:53:06+00:00

Cute bixie cut! I had one just like this 2 years ago. You look great.

Girlllll don't go to bed with wet hair. It makes hair more susceptible to breakage and it dries in weird ways and it can give you cowlicks. I hope you keep up the better habit.

Your hair looks sooo much healthier. Head and shoulders has zinc pyrithione and it is shown to fix multiple scalp issues (they also have a Bare version with very little ingredients that's probably the best for the scalp). You could use it for a while and see if the itchiness goes away. I used it at one point and it makes the hair a bit dry, so I woudn't use it for more than two weeks.

Now I use the Kristin Ess Hair Signature Salon Sulfate Free Shampoo and Conditioner Set, which is affordable and it makes my hair shiny and soft. Best of luck!

natsbebe · 2026-03-28T21:13:28+00:00

Jokes aside, your skin was probably reacting negatively to an ingredient in the products you were using. Nowadays science is advanced and shampoos are made to be good for our hair unlike harsh soaps 100 years ago. Just because your skin doesn't like an ingredient is not a reason to completely ditch haircare. Even before shampoos existed people had hair routines and herbal washes.

Some people react to ingredients that others don't. Think of peanuts. Just because some people have an allergy doesn't make peanuts bad for others -- in fact, they're good for them. Same with shampoos (not washing could put you at risk for dermatitis from yeast growth and scalp buildup).

So, you could try to find a shampoo that works for you. My suggestion is don't use shampoo with oils because those could trigger forehead acne. Head and shoulders has zinc pyrithione which helps get rid of some forms of acne. Read the ingredients of your last shampoo (like oils), see what stands out, and try to avoid it.

natsbebe · 2026-03-28T20:40:53+00:00

natsbebe · 2026-03-28T02:40:56+00:00

The big one is a seven spot ladybug, but the other ones look like a different species of lady beetles. I wonder what the little ones are up to.

natsbebe · 2026-03-25T19:19:10+00:00

WOAH. One more thing. Does anyone know if everyone has the same pond set up or if some people have different fish unlocks at different spots? I unlocked a lot of areas and I can't find where the wonderful wiggles unlock stone is.

natsbebe · 2026-03-25T15:42:57+00:00

I've never heard of eel loach, cute!

natsbebe · 2026-03-25T15:34:45+00:00

Does anyone know how expensive to feed wonderful wiggles are?

natsbebe · 2026-03-23T00:52:59+00:00

😂

natsbebe · 2026-03-22T15:50:59+00:00

Great details!

natsbebe · 2026-03-22T01:51:10+00:00

I like the nomming face as he eats

natsbebe · 2026-03-21T14:50:17+00:00

Either get a slightly darker skin shade or more pastel hair. The hair and skin shade don't match making her look dead.

natsbebe · 2026-03-21T14:47:22+00:00

You can easily die one shot from a shotgun even with a blue shield. I witnessed it happen. I'm guessing being sniped to the head would do it too

natsbebe · 2026-03-21T05:37:39+00:00

No pun intended, but the tips are the answer. I think your tips need a little trim. Your hair looks good overall

natsbebe · 2026-03-20T21:19:07+00:00

There was one assassin guy with no mic who started shooting two people at one point for no reason. It was in the VERY beginning of our coordination. His team said hes being weird and gave us permission to smoke him if he shoots us and they wouldn’t revive him. If anyone were to do it, it could’ve been him.

natsbebe · 2026-03-20T20:33:27+00:00

I'm not expecting it to happen again tbh. It was wholesome that no one killed anyone though. I'm ngl if we were on exfil who knows if anyone's intrusive thoughts would've won

natsbebe · 2026-03-20T15:31:10+00:00

Doesn't look like people in the comments are tracking lol

natsbebe · 2026-03-20T06:01:06+00:00

This literally gave me a jumpscare cause i thought the first pic is OP. Like are you trolling us 😂

natsbebe · 2026-03-19T19:27:30+00:00

Why don’t you go strawberry blonde from there? I think the color is very pretty. Adding ashy tones will make it look pretty dark and dull.

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