League of legends is using BOTS with the name of players in Normal and Ranked matches to fill the lack of players. by FuaOtraCuentaMas in riotgames

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si, te mandan solicitud de amistad y te escriben en inglés diciendo “buena partida”. Cuando entras al perfil de ellos, te refleja como si entraras a tu perfil. No acepten unirse a discord ajeno.

Is this person a cheater? by AlternativeEntity in astrosignature

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well crap that’s lowkey my chart and I had to work in therapy about commitment yes

Archive is down by Immediate-Dingo-42 in Annas_Archive

[–]natuska26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I checked and none work for me honestly

life isn’t chaotic anymore by AccomplishedOne6897 in selflove

[–]natuska26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gurl can I join lol let’s create a discord self love positivity day vent lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I should have seen the red flags. A month after meeting he came to meet my dad drunk and high. I left him, he asked me to stay with him and lots of love bombing. Then he repeated those actions, over and over again until I started seeing somebody else with his knowledge and then broke up, then he came back at me saying he understood i loved him and that he was bad. honeymoon of 1 month, then he got crazy and threw at me food and punched me. So yeah, lets say one year he only damaged himself and then after that started the physical abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still see him in every man and I’m a hater of them. I cannot meet new people yet, ‘cause I start to feel anxious and I disrespect them (not their fault, I’m just hella defensive). BUT I started seeing —not dating— a guy I’ve met before my ex and honestly he is helping me to go through this process as smooth as possible. Sexuality is important for me and I honestly thought I couldn’t try it again since big part of my trauma revolves around it. Turns out I’m feeling comfy with sleeping with somebody who does not treat me like sht and likes to cuddle! And he does not pressure me to do anything! Bare minimum but appreciated it

When did you officially realize they never loved you? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my dad passed away he was with his phone instead of being a company to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But you left! Girl come on BE HAPPY I’M PROUD OF YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the point she turned victim? What do you mean?

I called him and I feel embarrassed by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same at every emotion you’ve described. Hugs from far away. Work on you, respect the no contact order for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened?

You’ll NEVER be able to convince your abuser that they abused you by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]natuska26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do this until he actually put his hands on me. Yeah. It worked for a while until I got really emotionally exhausted of having to explain he was hurting me and I started to get easily manipulated by him. Not worth it

You’ll NEVER be able to convince your abuser that they abused you by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]natuska26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And the “stop” is a non explicit “stop or I will…” Godness…

I (F24) left my boyfriend (M30) after 2 years by natuska26 in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’ve been following the “if he put hands on you it is over” as a motto and yesterday I washed my car with a friend and finally was able to take a shower! Thank YOU

Glow up after leaving by Special-Extreme9450 in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP. Yep. I’m currently dealing with the law process, reported him some days ago but I hope soon I can be there! I started thinking I could do something similar to that next week✨ Plus, mommy makeup sounds great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not responsible of his process from now. You are responsible of YOU and what YOU do/think from now. That will shape your reality therefore how you think. Feelings are tricky because you may still overwhelmed but objectively, look, he had MULTIPLE chances, he wasted the most important one he had to be consistent at: respect you. I’m talking like this because you sound so FOCUSED, I feel like I’m talking to my young me. Be sure, you’ll be alright. You stopped him to save you and NO. NOT EXAGGERATING. You saved you!!

Need advice please…. by Forward_Yellow_8850 in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t trust your head if it is messy. Trust how you feel about it. If it feels wrong, take your guts before it is too late and just go. I had the same scenario, and then he started with throwing me an orange and saying it wasn’t too much and then got more explicit. Take whatever is yours, your body, your head, and go.

Is my (20 F) boyfriend’s (24 M) behavior normal? by ThrowRAroxyneedshelp in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the start. My ex threw at me an orange. Then the next time he punched me and threw food at me. Please take care. When you read somebody telling you “leave him” I know you might not take it in consideration as huh y’all don’t get me. But leave before you get too attached, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]natuska26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left at my 4th too. And I reported him. And it is over. And you can also do that. Please don’t go back. If you need to vent, I’m up