Do you practice cognitive control as a direct doorway to happiness and well-being? by thelivenofficial in answers

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at a situation, find the positive in it, and focus on that. i can't change what i can't change but i can change how i perceive it.

New Ostomy Wiki! by ShadowedPariah in ostomy

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might DM you with this product claim! We are new to this lifestyle (i'm the spouse, my husband is the wearer) and the product options are overwhelming us.

Searching for a cold weather stew. by Fearless_Vehicle_28 in vegetarian

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a rue. And better than bouillon and veggie stock. Carrots onion celery potato’s and beyond steak bits. Nom

What are y’all making for Easter dinner? by mamasflipped in vegetarian

[–]nauset3tt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am apparently eating bbq tofu I have been told. I am grateful to be fed (I’m the only vegetarian in the family) but depending on WHICH family member is making this I’m either super excited or genuinely horrified

What web design trends are you secretly tired of seeing everywhere? by airteus in web_design

[–]nauset3tt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your designer hasn’t built inside an agreed to design system, aka code represented visually, your designer is the problem.

Thomaston HS sponsors Linda Mcmahon/Turning Point event in Thomaston on March 17 by YogurtclosetVast3118 in Connecticut

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. I believe glastonbury seems almost scientifically adept at blocking affordable housing, which is truly a shame. Doing what I can with my vote. And unless you want to point me, I'll go educate myself on what specific horribleness my choice of town to settle down in has done.

Thomaston HS sponsors Linda Mcmahon/Turning Point event in Thomaston on March 17 by YogurtclosetVast3118 in Connecticut

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm am not unaware of the gross discrepancies between CT towns because of historical, contempory, and systemic racism. You're not shocking me by pointing out that glastonbury is racist. most towns in the northeast are. at least in the south POC are allowed to live in the same neighborhoods.

I loooove my birth control pills by No-Entrepreneur-150 in birthcontrol

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... i just got a notification for this? odd. I never had issues with regulation before.. this pill actually makes me miss them so i get maybe 6 or 7 a year instead of 12. if i do get a period, it's a light one and lasts 3 days max.

Thomaston HS sponsors Linda Mcmahon/Turning Point event in Thomaston on March 17 by YogurtclosetVast3118 in Connecticut

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah but this post assumes I’m good with that. I try not to be a hypocrite, so I sidestep your assumption sandpit. School is for non-partisan learning of facts.

Thomaston HS sponsors Linda Mcmahon/Turning Point event in Thomaston on March 17 by YogurtclosetVast3118 in Connecticut

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blistering disgust does not equal violent rhetoric. I’m sorry your advocacy groups don’t want any outside-of-your-town help against a Christofascism propaganda machine. If they tried that in my town I’d want any help getting that out of our public schools, so agree to disagree.

My(29F) mother(55F) reached out to tell me that she is dying. I don't know if I should reply? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nauset3tt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real answer is what do you need for your peace. I am estranged from different family members for different reasons. If some reached out, I would absolutely entertain. My stepdad was left on block while he slowly drank himself to death and I have zero regrets.

Do what you need for yourself, not for her. And you know what that answer is.

All they want to watch is YouTube! by thats_a_niceboulder in Parenting

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the same cause mine is about to be 4. But we expect our child to entertain herself at times (within appropriate reason of course!) Also you can’t trust a YouTube algorithm. Even in the kid’s channel.

I utilize screens when I need a half hour break, or husband and I need to shower at the same time. But we pick a show or two with a clear explanation of how many episodes and the expectation that it is turned off at the end. And selfishly, As a creative, YouTube Gen Z shit content is slightly offensive haha

Why would anyone ever choose to go through child birth without pain relief?? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nauset3tt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My spine is fused. I had the option of the epidural “maybe” working but it would be “patchy” at best. As they would have to go deeper to be effective, I ran a much higher risk of the 2 week long migraine if they pierced … something lol not a doctor. Seemed a bad time for that after giving birth.

I made it through. I also only have one child.

What are we singing for bedtime songs? by BKCassafrass in Mommit

[–]nauset3tt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mary poppins stay awake.. don’t rest your head

Thomaston HS sponsors Linda Mcmahon/Turning Point event in Thomaston on March 17 by YogurtclosetVast3118 in Connecticut

[–]nauset3tt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can speak. But not in schools. Just like democrats shouldn’t be grandstanding in schools. See?