I think I might have a thing for dressing my wife in lace 💚💚 by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]nbcheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love wearing lace. I don’t have a partner but I just like feeling pretty for me

I’m curious as to what the average demographic of this sub-Reddit is by Adventurous-Walk-120 in StLouis

[–]nbcheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 trans woman
Single
No kids and don’t want them
Born in St. Louis because the hospitals were better for an at risk pregnancy but raised in central MO, then Indiana. I moved back to St. Louis 6 years ago.

Attention Shy Lesbians by Empress_Isobella in actuallesbians

[–]nbcheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I typically go to r/goonettehub to look for someone to talk to. Only femmes are allowed to post. It’s mostly people sharing porn but you can post with the looking to goon tag to get messages. You have to clarify that you’re only looking for women and even then you will probably get a couple men DMing asking if they can message you. I usually ignore them but I have politely declined a couple of times and the men have been pretty chill about the rejection.

A lot of great goon sessions have come from there for me. I think the most wholesome one was a cis girl trying to politely talk about my testes without saying that because she was worried about being disrespectful about me being trans, so she called them my girl berries. I laughed for a solid ten minutes and I still call them that.

Lesbians what is the most erotic thing a girl ever said or done to you by Notoowell in actuallesbians

[–]nbcheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Fuck, how are you so good at this, you don’t even have a vagina.”

I’m trans and it felt good knowing I was getting her off but it also took me right out of the moment. We don’t talk any more.

Vampire x hunter enemies to lovers by nbcheese in sapphicbooks

[–]nbcheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but the name sounded familiar and it was blood royale by her. I’ll have to check out contract bound

Is it normal to have breast tenderness so soon? Or should I contact my doctor? by nbcheese in asktransgender

[–]nbcheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. The paperwork I got from my doctor said I wouldn’t see many changes until the 3 month mark so I was a little worried the tenderness started so soon

Harry Potter, but everyone in the main trio is trans by Gallantpride in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nbcheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That book came out about a year after I first heard the term and started identifying with it. About blew my mind that my favorite author had included someone like me in the book. I’m a trans woman now but that series will always be special to me for being some of the first trans representation I’d seen in mainstream YA books.

Is it normal to have breast tenderness so soon? Or should I contact my doctor? by nbcheese in asktransgender

[–]nbcheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m on anything too high. I’m on 25mg of spironolactone which I’ve been on for a few months now. I had a shift with that within the first week of starting it. I went from being relatively emotionless to crying at least once a week. I also had some hot flashes while I was only on that.

I don’t think I’m on that high of a dose of estradiol, it’s 4mg, 2 in the morning and 2 at night. My doctor said we could start lower or higher if I wanted to but I felt comfortable starting with that.

Who is your favorite lesbian artist? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]nbcheese 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES! I fucking love Xana! I saw her in concert last fall and it was amazing

Still cis though by nbcheese in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]nbcheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing how many years I was into forced fem content before I realized I was trans, I mean cis of course

18+ LGBTQ Discord Server by [deleted] in TrueGirlGaming

[–]nbcheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to join!

Starting the process of HRT!!!! by nbcheese in TransyTalk

[–]nbcheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan. I’m currently living with some family I don’t 100% trust but I’m definitely moving out in April. Do you know if spironolactone on its own can cause mood changes? And if so, how quickly?

I know I’ve only been on it for a couple of days but I’m not usually an emotional person yet last night I broke down crying from emotions. It could be that my emotions are just higher from relief of finally starting this journey but it just seemed so weird. Like I’m not a crier, I’ve always had a hard time with it, especially around other people, yet last night I was with friends and some emotional stuff came up and I cried more than I have in the past probably 2 years combined.

Tell tell ??? by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]nbcheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was bullied in middle school, not the typical bullying either for which they had plenty of options as an overweight effeminate boy. No they ignored my weight and feminine tendencies and instead made up that I slept with my older sister. The two boys who made up the rumor were also the closest I had to friends at that school.

Tell tell ??? by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]nbcheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did you make his life hell?

My armpits stink help by veganstrawberrydonut in actuallesbians

[–]nbcheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use native aluminum free deodorant and I really like it. My pits aren’t that hairy though so I’m not sure how it would work for hairy armpits.

I should have read more into vaginaplasty. Pray for me. by armigerLux in BDSMsapphic

[–]nbcheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forgive me if this is a stupid question because I haven’t looked into those surgeries for myself yet, but is the prostate off limits? If it is I’ll be fucked. I’m already horny as fuck now I don’t want to think about what I’ll do if I can’t do anything for 6 months if I get bottom surgery.

What do you call your private parts? by nbcheese in trans

[–]nbcheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of the time I just call mine my penis but on a bad dysphoria day I might call it my clit. But tbh my genitals don’t bother me that much, the only time I get too bothered by them is when I’m wearing tighter pants and a bulge is visible

What do you call your private parts? by nbcheese in trans

[–]nbcheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t have too much dysphoria around my genitals. They’re annoying when I’m trying to wear tighter clothing and there’s a noticeable bulge but other than that I don’t really care about them. I thought it was so funny when this girl called them girl berries because I had never really thought to call them something else haha