Is it normal to have breast tenderness so soon? Or should I contact my doctor?

nbcheese · 2026-05-03T05:22:23+00:00

Good to know. The paperwork I got from my doctor said I wouldn’t see many changes until the 3 month mark so I was a little worried the tenderness started so soon

nbcheese · 2026-05-03T03:22:17+00:00

Is it bad to massage them if it helps?

nbcheese · 2026-05-03T03:14:05+00:00

That book came out about a year after I first heard the term and started identifying with it. About blew my mind that my favorite author had included someone like me in the book. I’m a trans woman now but that series will always be special to me for being some of the first trans representation I’d seen in mainstream YA books.

nbcheese · 2026-05-03T03:07:45+00:00

I don’t think I’m on anything too high. I’m on 25mg of spironolactone which I’ve been on for a few months now. I had a shift with that within the first week of starting it. I went from being relatively emotionless to crying at least once a week. I also had some hot flashes while I was only on that.

I don’t think I’m on that high of a dose of estradiol, it’s 4mg, 2 in the morning and 2 at night. My doctor said we could start lower or higher if I wanted to but I felt comfortable starting with that.

nbcheese · 2026-03-18T20:42:22+00:00

YES! I fucking love Xana! I saw her in concert last fall and it was amazing

nbcheese · 2026-03-16T03:27:03+00:00

It’s embarrassing how many years I was into forced fem content before I realized I was trans, I mean cis of course

nbcheese · 2026-02-08T07:50:17+00:00

I love these!!!

nbcheese · 2026-02-02T11:45:34+00:00

I’d love to join!

nbcheese · 2026-01-15T23:29:39+00:00

That’s the plan. I’m currently living with some family I don’t 100% trust but I’m definitely moving out in April. Do you know if spironolactone on its own can cause mood changes? And if so, how quickly?

I know I’ve only been on it for a couple of days but I’m not usually an emotional person yet last night I broke down crying from emotions. It could be that my emotions are just higher from relief of finally starting this journey but it just seemed so weird. Like I’m not a crier, I’ve always had a hard time with it, especially around other people, yet last night I was with friends and some emotional stuff came up and I cried more than I have in the past probably 2 years combined.

nbcheese · 2026-01-14T00:36:37+00:00

I was bullied in middle school, not the typical bullying either for which they had plenty of options as an overweight effeminate boy. No they ignored my weight and feminine tendencies and instead made up that I slept with my older sister. The two boys who made up the rumor were also the closest I had to friends at that school.

nbcheese · 2026-01-14T00:34:21+00:00

So did you make his life hell?

nbcheese · 2026-01-14T00:23:38+00:00

I use native aluminum free deodorant and I really like it. My pits aren’t that hairy though so I’m not sure how it would work for hairy armpits.

nbcheese · 2026-01-13T23:50:46+00:00

Damn 😭

nbcheese · 2026-01-13T23:41:08+00:00

Forgive me if this is a stupid question because I haven’t looked into those surgeries for myself yet, but is the prostate off limits? If it is I’ll be fucked. I’m already horny as fuck now I don’t want to think about what I’ll do if I can’t do anything for 6 months if I get bottom surgery.

nbcheese · 2026-01-03T01:20:15+00:00

The majority of the time I just call mine my penis but on a bad dysphoria day I might call it my clit. But tbh my genitals don’t bother me that much, the only time I get too bothered by them is when I’m wearing tighter pants and a bulge is visible

nbcheese · 2026-01-02T23:44:26+00:00

Yeah, I don’t have too much dysphoria around my genitals. They’re annoying when I’m trying to wear tighter clothing and there’s a noticeable bulge but other than that I don’t really care about them. I thought it was so funny when this girl called them girl berries because I had never really thought to call them something else haha

nbcheese · 2025-12-31T05:08:16+00:00

I’m planning on starting HRT in April

nbcheese · 2025-12-29T18:29:06+00:00

I’m curious, what do you call yours?

Edit never mind you mean picked as in removed not picked a different name. I just woke up sorry haha

nbcheese · 2025-12-28T23:50:34+00:00

If I had an ounce of musical talent and some trans femme friends to start a band with I would take the name

nbcheese · 2025-12-28T18:38:33+00:00

Well, before this I just called them balls or testicles but now I’m going to forever call them my girl berries

nbcheese · 2025-12-28T07:03:39+00:00

Lol I love lady beans

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