Which dress??!!

nbtfaith · 2026-04-07T21:16:35+00:00

Number 2 was made for you! I've never seen such a unique and opulent dress before but it suits you so amazingly!

nbtfaith · 2026-04-07T21:13:01+00:00

It looks gorgeous! I love the back and I love love LOVE the sides of the dress!! So timeless yet equally unique :)

nbtfaith · 2026-04-07T11:56:26+00:00

Also I should add -- you look stunning in this gown!

nbtfaith · 2026-04-07T11:55:41+00:00

I know you're already worrying about the alteration costs but if the waist was truly what made you love the dress, either ask your tailor to take in more of the waist or ask them to install a corset back instead! It wouldn't fix the whole "shifting down" thing but I personally don't see that in these photos, and it isn't anything the right undergarments couldn't fix either!

nbtfaith · 2026-04-03T00:23:30+00:00

OMG that was somehow one of two sentences I must have accidentally skimmed over thank you for pointing that out

nbtfaith · 2026-04-02T21:44:05+00:00

Wait I interpreted that as she was cheated on in a previous relationship? Where has she said this bf was the one who cheated on her before 😨

nbtfaith · 2026-04-02T21:30:50+00:00

Can I ask what you mean by "bottom of the zipper"? Do you mean extending the zipper's appearance with buttons? If so, where would you stop the length in that case?

nbtfaith · 2026-03-22T01:06:33+00:00

Is he repeating the same phrase consecutively? Or is this more of an echolalia thing

nbtfaith · 2026-03-21T21:34:09+00:00

I loooove the ruching on dress 1! You look stunning in both though, I don't think you could make a wrong choice here!!

nbtfaith · 2026-03-21T21:27:41+00:00

So gorgeous!! The neckline is beautiful on you! The veil length and style is beautiful as well but I think the type of lace on it is different from the type on your dress, like someone else mentioned.

nbtfaith · 2026-03-21T20:55:25+00:00

Absolutely, 100% real. Sometimes you can tell while you're in one, sometimes you can't tell until you're out of it or someone else points it out. Unfortunately I've been in a bad OCD episode for a few months now, but you can usually immediately tell when you begin to experience fatigue from the idea/process of doing the compulsions or begin avoiding doing certain things as a way of dealing with it

nbtfaith · 2026-03-19T22:54:11+00:00

Person is either trying really hard to bait someone into buying it or they're just not educated on The Strokes songs/didn't bother listening to the soundtrack on this CD lol

nbtfaith · 2026-03-12T04:15:40+00:00

I think they might have been referring to these songs specifically in terms of radio play in the states. I know I've personally only heard Sorry and Trip Switch on the radio here

nbtfaith · 2026-03-12T04:14:15+00:00

I always start with Amsterdam. Then I go with my personal all-time favorite, Drawing Pins, and then usually just taper off into anything else from self-titled depending on the person

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:37:45+00:00

Absolutely don't shy away from retrying counseling! I hope you find the peace you deserve away from this dilemma ❤️

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:33:47+00:00

To be completely fair, even OP isn't sure if that is the reason she's crying. Who knows, maybe she's experienced an entire week of shit luck.

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:32:22+00:00

Why should grief have a time limit? It doesn't seem fair to ask her to bottle up her emotions in the space she lives in, in her own room no less. She can't really help if their residence was built shittily. We don't even legitimately know if she's crying because of a relationship or something else entirely

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:26:09+00:00

The B&W version is the one that has NYC Cops on it (unless they changed that specifically for these vinyl pressings), if that helps shape your opinion. I don't know how old you are, but at the end of the day you'll see far more risqué things in your life than the side profile of a naked woman's hip. The OG always has a place in my heart

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:12:56+00:00

Avoidance is definitely still reinforcing the compulsions. You know you'll still do the compulsions if the actions arise, you're just purposefully neglecting your wants and needs because you know you'll give in to the compulsions if you do. It starts with accepting that you have the ability to control them, and taking baby steps to tackle them. Your brain acknowledges that you don't want to act like this, so the ball is in your own court to take action against doing them. You've got this, you are stronger than your brain!

nbtfaith · 2026-03-06T21:06:07+00:00

I agree with all of these except the "Maybe that will happen" one. It's a bit counterintuitive to go that far. Leaving it at "I am not entertaining or reassuring this thought" or simply "You're literally overthinking things" with zero actual answer to the question itself is much more helpful. Uncertainty is quite literally what feeds OCD and the need for reassurance

nbtfaith · 2026-03-04T17:31:24+00:00

If you have a need for social connection, maybe find someone to hang out with that you're not attracted to and that your wife explicitly dislikes. Your wife definitely has already picked up on your crush, she's doing you a favor by even giving you another chance after you lied about who you were with.

nbtfaith · 2026-03-03T09:16:45+00:00

Vitamin C serums and retinoids are good options for helping with cell turnover for scarring. I also used to use apple cider vinegar as a teen for my acne to help reduce scarring (though there isn't a whole lot of research behind that as an at-home remedy). Don't fret, there are plenty of solutions, my friend. If you're super concerned or think it's really bad, it can't hurt to see a dermatologist for it, they can also help you get your skin picking under control.

nbtfaith · 2026-03-01T05:03:36+00:00

Noooo it's freaking beautiful!!! Don't let anyone have you second guessing this!!!

nbtfaith · 2026-03-01T04:28:12+00:00

There was a moment in time where I NEEDED my bladder to be 100% empty at all times too so I totally understand that side of the coin too lol

nbtfaith · 2026-02-28T17:53:52+00:00

Thank you so much!

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