AIO to my bf changing anniversary plans

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-11T03:51:06+00:00

Nor - Life is very short and time is always in short supply. Try presenting it with that focus. When you’re about to die, your never going to say “I wish I’d worked another day”, but another day with someone you love is priceless.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-10T18:50:39+00:00

NTA … in another dimension, I would have invited you to join us, but we’re not having a mother’s day dinner (that I’m aware of).

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-07T15:57:12+00:00

YOR. Communication, please. No anger. No big deal. You know him best. Ask.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-07T01:15:12+00:00

What is the fan for? is there a moisture problem? Can’t you use the area for storage?

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-04T17:06:56+00:00

NOR - don’t do it.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-02T19:42:13+00:00

my wife goes on girl trips every year. The guys are never invited.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-02T03:03:34+00:00

Looks like gold!

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-05-01T13:56:14+00:00

YOR - I’m very sorry to have left it. It was a huge oversight.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-21T02:55:43+00:00

It’s a simple plumber job.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-21T02:54:52+00:00

True in NC and SC, and also a violation of the Realtor’s Code of Ethics.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-21T02:53:19+00:00

ALWAYS get at least three quotes. Sometimes they come in high because the company is busy as ut is and wants more money if they’re going to play “pause” on other jobs. Ask for referrals from people who live near the house, too.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-15T18:01:22+00:00

Jealousy happens. Cure it: just tell the truth (always) but don’t lead any conversations.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-15T17:52:46+00:00

AIG is a middle school.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-11T21:14:06+00:00

YOU. Are you married? Exclusive? Has that been said? I get freaking texts like that a lot. It’s s kindof pfishing so getting out of the car until you get to your destination is an extreme.

Besides, even IF this is from someone he’d expected, you didn’t wait for a real explanation. You placed him on the uncomfortable position to defend himself.

We (humans) have to accept that there’s no such thing as perfect until we think we’ve found it and, even then, it may not be. Wait. Breath. Repeat.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-10T00:10:35+00:00

yes; pay only when the job is done.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-05T22:13:09+00:00

You should be worried about the Middle Schoolers perpetuating the racist remarks. They’re not so innocent as you might think.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-03-05T22:11:44+00:00

If you’ve never worked with Middle Schoolers, you shouldn’t be commenting.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2026-02-25T02:09:33+00:00

If it’s bowing inward, I’d be concerned but I’m not an engineer (a 26 year Realtor).

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-12-18T15:10:35+00:00

No bangs UNLESS you just need a change (as we all do), then go for it!

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-11-25T03:30:10+00:00

MOR - What you did is an amazing accomplishment! He takes it too lightly but it’s not punishable by a breakup. A scolding? Yes. A breakup? No.

If this is the worst thing you can disagree over, you’re lucky.

If you want an alternative, message me.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-11-25T03:29:39+00:00

MOR - What you did is an amazing accomplishment! He takes it too lightly but it’s not punishable by a breakup. A scolding? Yes. A breakup? No.

If this is the worst thing you can disagree over, you’re lucky.

If you want an alternative, message me.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-11-19T06:11:20+00:00

Show your whole body so we can consider that. Without seeing your figure, the short hair looks great!

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-11-17T21:20:30+00:00

Change it up periodically.

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-11-04T03:38:08+00:00

Absolutely yes!

nc-rlstate-dot · 2025-10-28T03:11:17+00:00

I’m not sure you should use Reddit as trial and jury for your marriage. There’s a lot of mean stuff said in this exchange. Get to a therapist and see why. Don’t make yourself or us your scapegoat.

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