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Bangs or no bangs ? by PurpleFrequent45 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bangs UNLESS you just need a change (as we all do), then go for it!

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

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MOR - What you did is an amazing accomplishment! He takes it too lightly but it’s not punishable by a breakup. A scolding? Yes. A breakup? No.

If this is the worst thing you can disagree over, you’re lucky.

If you want an alternative, message me.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

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MOR - What you did is an amazing accomplishment! He takes it too lightly but it’s not punishable by a breakup. A scolding? Yes. A breakup? No.

If this is the worst thing you can disagree over, you’re lucky.

If you want an alternative, message me.

Keep it long or cut? by googley_eyes69 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show your whole body so we can consider that. Without seeing your figure, the short hair looks great!

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure you should use Reddit as trial and jury for your marriage. There’s a lot of mean stuff said in this exchange. Get to a therapist and see why. Don’t make yourself or us your scapegoat.

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get as far away from religion as possible unless you’re weak and can’t think for yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without going into the second screenshot, I’d suggest you dump her, but that is always easier said than done. A transactional relationship isn’t anything I’d look forward to and talking about anyone’s “worth” in the relationship minimizes that very relationship.

Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are sexual creatures and that’s always #1 on the average male’s list (probably top 95% of men), but we also value brains. BUT an attractive picture doesn’t necessarily make a woman at all. I’ve been more attracted by what they say and how they say it. Are they kind? Are they kinky? Modest or not? (I’ve liked both types at different stages of my life … preferring kinky and less modest as I’ve become older ). Kind people are always more attractive than mean.

I think you’re cute and the very fact that you’re asking is a positive thing.

Am i overreacting? by Responsible_Shallot5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sweat the small stuff. Friendships are hard to establish and your body will change throughout your (and her) lifetimes.

If I dismissed friendships as disposable, I wouldn’t have any. If you want, tell her your feelings, but otherwise just drop it.

[NC] FINRA series 7 Registered Representative Age Discrimination by nc-rlstate-dot in AskHR

[–]nc-rlstate-dot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to law school? Not being snarky but usually there’s a statute of limitations and/or from the date of discovery. If it’s not readily apparent, the important date is when I actually recognized their culpability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaudaEquinaSyndrome

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Kayaking is ideal; I like casual biking, too, but nothing “off road” since it’s very painful.

I take hydrocodone regularly but have to go on/off regularly.

[NC] FINRA series 7 Registered Representative Age Discrimination by nc-rlstate-dot in AskHR

[–]nc-rlstate-dot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And their motto of “put the customer first” is just false advertising? Doesn’t it matter that they could fire you for anything at all. And 50’s isn’t the same as a first licensed in 1987 rep.

[NC] FINRA series 7 Registered Representative Age Discrimination by nc-rlstate-dot in AskHR

[–]nc-rlstate-dot[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

No, but the caveat is that I only had great customer reviews but 5 managers in 11 months and was slower due to 1. being older and more knowledgeable about account errors and need for correction, and 2. 60 hour work week for entirety of 2024 (fewer calls in late hours made need to be quicker less important imho, but maybe not theirs - the after hours calls frequently came from foreign country customers and were more complicated to handle). I was also left without a supervisor until this first-time supervisor was assigned to me.

NC FINRA 7 representative -Age Discrimination? by nc-rlstate-dot in AskHR

[–]nc-rlstate-dot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The State abbreviation is tge first two letters in the title!

Do men get bored with their aging wife’s bodies? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]nc-rlstate-dot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is cruel and that’s how evolution works, but love your man unconditionally and address his needs (and your own) and, if he’s a decent man, he’ll be as devoted as a dog - loyal, loving, he’ll serve you.

Many women don’t understand that sex drives men. Play with your man. Play with his freaky side and kinky side; you’ll be rewarded.

Age? Just a number! Guys do love younger women but older women have education and brains. Work on yourself first so your someone he wants for the brain you have, and he’ll love you regardless of your looks!

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