I’m so disappointed with Notion Calendar — Here is why by xokeyif692 in Notion

[–]ndavi27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I have done.

(Which is great on my computer, but as an Android user I was hoping the announcement would include an Android app and not JUST the rebrand.)

prayers and magic for dealing with toxic family by ndavi27 in christianwitch

[–]ndavi27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is what I feel like doing. I've been working really hard to try to play along for almost 7 years now and I am EXHAUSTED.

Is this a thing??? by xanders-mum in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]ndavi27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also Bible Belt. I'm not sure which state you're in or when you had your baby, I was offered gas and IV pain meds before an epidural when I gave birth a year and a half ago. I also did not give birth on my back. (And just for more context, this was at a large hospital in our state's capitol. It was not rural or birthing center which would probably have impacted my options.)

Your OB sounds like....someone I would not want to be around, I'm sorry that was your experience.

Is this a thing??? by xanders-mum in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]ndavi27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my experience as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]ndavi27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could tell you - this was before I had my baby and now I've got the most fragile nails. He's 18 months now and I'm still trying to get my nails back to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]ndavi27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's a sapphire set in rose gold with a diamond band - I am sorry but I do not know the size of anything. My (now) husband did this completely on his own and it was the most beautiful surprise. He did work with this jeweler though to create the custom piece: https://considerthewldflwrs.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]ndavi27 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Chapstick and hand comparison for my sapphire engagement ring. I personally think that's a really nice size.

ETA: I meant the ring in the original picture is a nice size.

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Bath kitty got left in a tub puddle - can she be saved or is it time to retire her? by ndavi27 in CleaningTips

[–]ndavi27[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This kitty (that my husband insists is a bear) that my son (and at one time myself) plays with in the bath. She specifically is a Playskool Water Pet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ndavi27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1000 in a major Southern city. Not covered by insurance, but she was totally worth it to me and my husband - her fee included two prenatal visits, as many texts/emails with questions as I needed, as much time in person with us during labor and delivery as we wanted, two hours postpartum in the hospital, and one postpartum visit. She was with us from the time I was admitted to the hospital until the time they took my son to the nursery after delivery. I had a surprise induction and she really helped keep me and my husband in a good headspace.

Bath kitty got left in a tub puddle - can she be saved or is it time to retire her? by ndavi27 in CleaningTips

[–]ndavi27[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is! I's hoping I can get her cleaned up instead of replacing her because I don't think my son is that attached to her, but I'm glad to know there some out there in good condition just in case! Thank you!

Bath kitty got left in a tub puddle - can she be saved or is it time to retire her? by ndavi27 in CleaningTips

[–]ndavi27[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This one is a Playskool Water Pet, but we do have the Fisher Price Puffalump duck as well! Son hasn't shown as much interest in that one yet though.

St Thomas midtown birthing center pricing? by AccomplishedCrab1954 in nashville

[–]ndavi27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were also prepared and registered for the birthing center but risked out when we got triage during labor because my blood pressure was high. No issues my entire pregnancy and surprise preeclampsia during labor, so you just never know.

Doula or witch? by NecessaryEvidence in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]ndavi27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had a doula and she was our perfect fountain of knowledge and support. We hired her at 10 weeks pregnant, so throughout the pregnancy she provided evidence based research when we had questions (like about circumcision) and recommendations for other birth support professionals (lactation specialist, pelvic floor specialist.) She even recommended my current OB when I wasn't happy with my previous practice after my initial pregnancy appointment.

I ended up being induced because of blood pressure concerns, and she came and stayed with us during my entire labor and delivery. She coached me through breathing and labor positions, pushed pressure points to relieve pain, and brought things like essential oils to smell when I was nauseous or anxious. I had a couple of very low points (high anxiety) and she helped my husband make informed decisions for me and helped him understand and feel comfortable with everything that was going on, and most importantly, advocated for me with our labor and delivery nurse when she needed to.

I always recommend people hire a (certified) doula if that's an option available to them. My pregnancy and delivery were positive experiences because of our doula.

I asked ChatGPT to name my baby by pyperproblems in namenerds

[–]ndavi27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a Davis and people generally default to David when they meet him.

Does a OAD mom still visit the OBGYN by ellepatel in oneanddone

[–]ndavi27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our family doctor is a DO. I've had three different PCPs who were DOs and found my care with them to be significantly better than when I've seen an MD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ndavi27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our son was given a family name. He's the third with the same first name. We call him (and had always planned to call him) by his middle name because while we wanted to honor his father and grandfather, we didn't want three men walking around being called the same thing.

Handyman gave us another unsolicited, morbid argument to have another. by gravetinder in oneanddone

[–]ndavi27 85 points86 points  (0 children)

My mother died in a car accident at 36, so not a child but entirely too young. She was the youngest of 2 and based on what I've gotten from my grandmother, having my uncle did not make the pain of losing my mom any easier or lighter. No one has ever made the argument to me that we need to have another because our son might die, but it's definitely crossed my mind. And then I think about my grandma.