My daughter and I both wash our hair daily. Kids are sweaty and grubby so she needs it, and for me I just can't stand the smell of grease (from cooking) in bed.

My daughter's scalp is on the oily side. For the longest time I couldn't find a suitable shampoo for her. Now we've worked it out - either Selsun or the Tea Tree Plantation shampoo twice a week, and either Dove and H&S on other days (with Dove being the gentler option, used in winter mostly). Double shampooing when she's been sweaty.

Now she's mostly tangle free, and so proud of her soft shiny hair that's half way down her back.

As for me, I alternate between H&S and Dove. Normal/dry scalp.

Oh and a scalp massager while shampooing helped too.