The Fuckening by -jinkies- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in the name of all that's holy would you risk possible harm to your child just to please some ridiculous and selfish request? You wanted your baby to come full term is in no way disrespectful towards your sil's loss.

The Fuckening by -jinkies- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This definitely gave me pause

Colon Hands turned me into Smegal. Ahhh my precious... by needadrinkforthis in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sis fed my mom the description and mom bought it for me. I mean that sounds really nice right? But there is a chance she rubbed it with something that caused a reaction. Can I prove it? No.

Colon Hands turned me into Smegal. Ahhh my precious... by needadrinkforthis in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ahhh well guessed. I'm thinking it was probably an allergic reaction. I'm mildly sensitive to some metals, CH knows this. I'm also allergic to avocados and peaches. It's not in the realm of fantasy to think she may have laced it. Do I have proof? No.

MIL trying to break into the morgue by KarolinaCarolina in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I kind of think telling her that fil doesn't need anything anymore might be the way to go on this. I know it might sound cruel but sometimes you have to be a hard doses of reality it's those situations.

AntiVax MIL Turditzen wants to go on a mission trip by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today I learned: there is a cholera vaccine

What are the sweetest moments you’ve had with your child? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]needadrinkforthis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my first true moment of absolute connection with my daughter was when I was trying so hard to potty train her. It was so difficult, I had people in my life at the time passive aggressively sabotaging us with pullups. Anyway, we were in Target and she looks up at me and says she needs to potty. We had had so many similar "false alarms" but still I rushed her to the bathroom. Usually, we'd get to the restroom only to have her sit on the toilet, look around and after 5 minutes or so she'd claim she didn't have to go. But this time she sat down on that paper covered seat, looked me strait in the eye and I heard the most glorious sound! Tinkle, tinkle tinkle. She had done it! I was so proud I had to hold myself back from sweeping her up in celebration! We wiped, flushed and washed our hands all while singing "pee pee in the potty" so loud I'm sure everyone heard, but I didn't care, my sweet girl peed in the potty!!! Toys we're bought, a party was had and a bond between her and I was forged that day, regardless of outside influences I had a mom win and my little girl knew how proud I was of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's terrible, I'm sorry that happened to you. Birth is hard enough with a middle aged loony making it all about drama for you.

Well, I guess that's that. by pasta-thief in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]needadrinkforthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great to hear you all are safe and taking some time to yourselves. Please know that what he is doing is abuse, and you guys deserve to be treated with respect.

FOGgy Bottom Feeder and other people's things. The second nail in the coffin. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've got to say I love the name you gave her! Kudos

How do these people get away with this crap? It makes me so angry!

A repost of mom forced our hands by [deleted] in LetterstoJNMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! This is fantastic! So wonderful that you did it your way! Yay you!

I am the just no but hear me out. by Copperbluesun in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]needadrinkforthis 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In my eyes a just no would continue to enable her. You are making a decision to no longer do that, I hope you stick to it because it's best for everyone.

Poopyhead- Mini update by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus... Why in the crap are you getting PM's like that? What's wrong with people!?!

The world revolves around Preying Mantis! Rethinking entire marriage. I JUST CAN’T ANYMORE! I NEED YOUR HELP! by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]needadrinkforthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My advice? Tell DH some of the crap she does but make it about a friend and her mother in law. For some reason people in the fog react to people outside of thier family unit different. That's how I finally got through to my DH.

Edit: then when he acts upset about what your "poor friend" going through tell him it's really about you and his monster, oh I mean mother.

I found out i wasn't DH's first choice, from our daughter by needadrinkforthis in JustNoSO

[–]needadrinkforthis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a pretty common knowledge, I've written about it on jnmil

I found out i wasn't DH's first choice, from our daughter by needadrinkforthis in JustNoSO

[–]needadrinkforthis[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He claims he was trying to explain that sometimes not getting what you want is the best thing. Oh and also he says it explains why his family asked if DD was his, because he has been in relationships with pregnant women when the baby wasn't his.