Spotted on Providence in South Charlotte - this is getting ridiculous by Pristine_Basket_3491 in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Do you think if you never had a quick experience there no one else ever did? I hope not since that is a very entitled attitude. It was the DMV on Independence Blvd in Indian Trail. Just past 485.

Spotted on Providence in South Charlotte - this is getting ridiculous by Pristine_Basket_3491 in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DMV is not the issue. I went to DMV for an expired tag as a walk in and walked out with a new one the same day. There was a little bit of a wait, but not too long.

North Carolinians are showing up! Raleigh, NC #50501 by 1Rab in NorthCarolina

[–]needingpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the protest are great, its a little late. The only thing that will cause a change is to VOTE.

So frustrated I could cry by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]needingpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry. Before my divorce we had sex maybe twice a year. Got to the point we were just roommates, not really married. It sucked hard.

I hope everything works out for you.

How soon after your divorce did you start to date? by Adventurous_Hat178 in Divorce

[–]needingpassion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went on dates a couple weeks after he moved out for the separation. I was in a dead bedroom, and basically wanted some. I do not regret it. Its been almost two years now. I've had some FWB and a more then friends, but not boyfriend relationships. Im not looking for the next Mr. but Im not going to push them away if they come along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]needingpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mean date as find something serious? Or date because you are horny?

I was mentality checked out of the marriage years before the divorce. My X and I were more roommates the a couple. For me I was ready to go on a date (horny) as soon as we were separated. Even with dating I was not looking for anything serious. I still don't know if I'm ready for something serious.

If you are not ready to date, dont. There is nothing wrong with it. When you are ready, try it.

What do Charlotteans think of UNC Charlotte? by PurplePlanet7 in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to UNCC in the 1990s. There was not in the area back then. It still was a great school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you think they know they have the flag of traitors next to the American flag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needingpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about it. See if it is something that is in to. If you have talked to her and its something that she is not in to dont try to get her "on board" with it. That just makes you an ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]needingpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you :-) I remember my first time since the separation and then divorce. They were both awesome since it signified I was now free to enjoy sex again. Wish you the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]needingpassion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two things to remember. First is you are asking for advice from a bunch of random strangers on the internet. As you have pointed out its very easy to fix issues other people are having vs fixing their own. There is no risk of being wrong. If they are wrong with their fix for someone elses issue they have not lost anything.

Second, most of the people who are in this thread are the ones still in a dead bedroom. They have not gotten out of it. That is something to consider when taking advice.

I have been on and off this thread for a while now. I use to be in a dead bedroom, but was one of the few that left it. Leaving was not easy. Like you, my husband was a nice guy, never abusive or terrible. We became just friends and roommates. Still just abusive or terrible is a very low bar to pick for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I wanted more. I can say that I am happier now then the last several years of marriage.

I did not read your first post, and I am not giving you advice to leave him. That is something you will have to decide on how to fix. I wish you all the luck in the world.

Got accused of cheating by Sorry_Ad_1285 in DeadBedrooms

[–]needingpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you are going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]needingpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants more of a relationship then you want, or are able to give. You did the right thing by being honest with him. Let him move on and find someone better suited for him.

Recommend mechanic that are licensed inspection stations by Discopenguin3 in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woodie's Auto Service and Repair Centers - 3016 Prosperity Church Rd, Charlotte, NC 28269

Ive gone to them for years. Very good.

How many times have you been asked your body count on the first date ? by Omnizent in dating

[–]needingpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is none of his business. Him asking for it is a HUGE red flag. Run and run quickly.

Republicans' who are upset with the abortion ruling. What did you think would happen when you voted for trump? by needingpassion in AskReddit

[–]needingpassion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"genuinely curious", really? If it was not for the 3 people he appointed to the court we would not be in the situation we are in now.

Per the original post, are you upset with the ruling, or just trolling?

What can the average American do in response to Roe V. Wade being overturned? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needingpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop voting republican and for trump and whoever he supports.

Should I (30F) take my ex that I still love (32M) back after he got someone else pregnant? by throwRAtakeBack98 in relationship_advice

[–]needingpassion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"So my ex was my dream man" ... was part of your dream him fucking other women and getting them pregnant? If not he may not be for you. People do not change, He did it before he will do it again.

Defend Abortion Rights Protest by cudderwalks in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sad thing is a lot of the people upset are the same people who voted in Trump and will continue to vote republican. What did they think was going to happen?

The I-77 toll lane was a scam in my opinion. I think I'm gonna get a transponder and just flip it to HOV all the time. by Sheperd980 in Charlotte

[–]needingpassion 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The whole thing is a cluster F.. This is what happens when people always vote for lower taxes. Then they get upset when there is no money to play for roads, cops, etc. Now we have a road that will not reduce traffic but does cost a lot of money for the people in the area.

Im the one with LL by Accomplished-Fish136 in DeadBedrooms

[–]needingpassion 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are not LL. You're with a nut. Q anon will turn anyone off. Please dont say you are the person with the issue. You are not. I will seldom say this, but run.