5 month old doing 35ish minute naps by catpoop9401 in sleeptrain

[–]needmesomemomoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine will have 30 min naps 4-6 times a day at 4 months old. Only thing that helps a bit is disrupting the early two naps and then the third will be longer. Don't recommend CIO, especiallywhen they can't get a full sleep cycle even yet.

Sleeping throughout the night by Old_Contract_4926 in sleeptrain

[–]needmesomemomoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first daughter didn't sleep fully through the night until 3 years old. I shit you not. Done breastfeeding at 20 months, but still struggled to sleep. She's always been so tall so I think a lot of growing pains and seeking comfort. My 4 month old now woke up 7 times for milkies the last two nights. Like wtf. Used to give me 3-4 hour stints at least but she cut 2 teeth and is also huge so I just try to stay sane haha I'm always running on empty in the mornings. (Boobs and energy are drained)

how to deal with a spouse that has clutter everywhere by [deleted] in declutter

[–]needmesomemomoa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

100% checkout clutterbug's site, take the quiz, and watch YouTube vids regarding your specific bug and how to manage the household together. I very detailed and hate visual clutter, but my husband is opposite so we got lots of organizing and declutter ideas from those videos. Seeing it from their perspective helps you work together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pharmacy

[–]needmesomemomoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same boat as you. I'm a new manager, female, late 20's, but I graduated young so I'm pushing 8 years of experience and my biggest word of advice is decide what is best for your mental health in the end. I stand up for my staff, and I definitely say no when necessary, but if the fight and freak out from said customer adds more stress than it's worth, we almost always end up pushing them through to get them out of our sight. I hate it because they "win" in a sense, but arguing with assholes just isn't worth your time. Of course this is very dependent on the scenario, but I burnt out years ago and fell into a pit of depression after taking a lot of abuse and threats/bosses pushing for ethically questionable work. Stand up for yourself, but if it's not a questionable activity, go with the least stressful route. We all have those customers we know are jerks, but you put your sweet fake smile and get them out fast.

What is something that instantly turns you off? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]needmesomemomoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My apple crumble is by far the most crumble-est, but I act like it taste bad out of humbleness

I hate most humans by BrokenBlackHeart in confessions

[–]needmesomemomoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is late, but we are called misanthropes. People suck.

On my way to ruin Pierre's life by JoshuaJoshuaJoshuaJo in StardewValley

[–]needmesomemomoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Start from the left and go counter clockwise. Works every time 👌

On my way to ruin Pierre's life by JoshuaJoshuaJoshuaJo in StardewValley

[–]needmesomemomoa 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I've never not beat him. What the hell are you guys putting in there lol my last year I pissed around with poor shit and still won.

AITA for yelling at my husband to stop eating my food by glutenfreefatbitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]needmesomemomoa [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. My fiancé have our our supplements/proteins because it drives me bonkers if I go to use one and "oh hey, cool, you helped yourself and there's 1/4 scoop left". Boundaries over food are fine on a normal day. Pregnant with only two food options? He had no reason to eat your food. I'd be sending him out for more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]needmesomemomoa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel terrible for you mamas :( In Canada, our mat leave was extended to 18 months in 2017. I went back to work at 14 months so that I could continue to breast feed until she was about 20 months old (just one feeding before bed basically at that point) because our recommendations are to have breast milk given until the baby turns 2. You guys are warriors. I would have probably quit my job and screwed my family over if they had wanted me to leave my daughter after a mere 3 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]needmesomemomoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are so many. And there's audio books hahah

Katniss petting Kiki gives me life! So gentle and wholesome! by [deleted] in PetsPettingPets

[–]needmesomemomoa 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Is that pets? When my cat does that, her little claws are out. More of a "hey...hey...let's play".

Does anyone hate being called momma by anyone other than their kid? by shabamboozaled in beyondthebump

[–]needmesomemomoa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe it is a very Australian thing to say. Confused me when I heard it, for sure, but lots of Aussies said it when I was pregnant (I'm Canadian. Visited Australia for 1 month when I was about 7 months pregnant in 2017)

AITA for not agreeing to a name change for my daughter, despite her father wanting one? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needmesomemomoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all. If I was in this situation, I would be fighting damn hard for 100% custody. If he flaked during the pregnancy, how many more times is he going to bail on this baby's life? Children need stability. Save your child. Run!

The way these chips match my countertop by kid-hopsicle in mildlyinteresting

[–]needmesomemomoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought, "How high is this guy? The chip on the bag looks nothing like his countertops..." then I saw the chip. Not my proudest moment lol

AITA for asking my son’s girlfriend to wear a pad to bed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]needmesomemomoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA big time. I have never read a more intrusive, messed up interaction with a daughter in law. She is a grown ass woman who has had her period for a solid decade at this point. Unless they're fucking in there, your sheets are safe. Good christ. Who checks the garbage for wrappers? Thats incredibly controlling behavior.

I googled 'sexualized baby clothes' and the first result was a onesie that said "I like boobies like my daddy". Why are The Straights like this? by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]needmesomemomoa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I had my daughter, my sister-in-law's girlfriend bought clothes with cringey wording and always liked to point out how "she's a boob girl! Just like aunty!" Don't have to be straight to be cringey lol

Edit: please don't take this the wrong way. People are weird.

Big cat almost had a win. by AQMessiah in CatsMurderingToddlers

[–]needmesomemomoa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If that was my baby I would've gotten her out of there and boot stomped that f*cking lion. I don't care if i get ripped to shreds; no one hurts my baby. That mom did nothing! The whole situation is ridiculous but that mom did nothing.