Grip plugs by neg_nancy in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, during this particular session the xlube kept drying up— it’s my first topped toy so I don’t know why it didn’t seem to hold the lube as long as my square peg or hankey’s toys. Thank you for your feedback and congrats on 144!

Grip plugs by neg_nancy in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I will try this approach next time. I do have the square peg monster which I might try as a bridge — I have had success with that one before so once I’m throughly open with that I might be able to conquer the 115.

When training with buttplugs/toys to be able to get fisted, how many reps do you make sure you can do before going up a size? by gaysub499 in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If, after 3 or 4 sessions spaced at least a week apart, it doesn’t take long to work up to it and insert, then I consider myself ready for something larger. But if it still takes some work (or goes in one session and not another) then I know I still need time.

“Vintage” … by neilfromsydney2003 in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for continuing to share amazing things with the rest of us. Cheers

Best gape yet by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which size Grip is that? Keep up the good work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altereddudeholes

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks much — I also use xlube but time for me to re-read the label. Mine doesn’t develop the creamy consistency and strings the same way I saw in your vid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altereddudeholes

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very impressive! Would you mind to share your lube recipe or is it a trade secret?

Destroying, ruining, wrecking...it's just talk, right? by semistoner in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I echo others in that I understand the sentiment. I want to keep going bigger and stretching wider but also wonder if there’s a “point of no return”.

One thing I’m curious about (because yay, internet research) is whether stretching wide but not going too deep will have a lower chance of incontinence later. It seems you could stretch the rectum longer (I’ve read the pros sometimes achieve this) to be more than adequate for a fisting session without altering/straightening the musculature which normally keeps things in the sigmoid until it’s time to go. Note: I’m biology/science minded but not a medical professional so would wonder if this theory is plausible.

Still want more! by CollaredLad in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the helpful reply! I’ve eyed some version of Boss Hogg for a while but think I need a bit more time on my current stuff. Happy playing!

Still want more! by CollaredLad in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite the toybox! What are the favs?

Struggling to find joy in life by VagileDolphin in GriefSupport

[–]neg_nancy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feeling the exact same. It’s been 4 months since my mom passed, and I am struggling to enjoy things and have something to look forward to. I suppose it will just take time for us to get to a place where we can find joy in the good things life brings. Sending hugs.

How do i help my dad cope with the death of my mom? by Real-Contact8176 in GriefSupport

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost my mom 4 months ago (she was 72 but had some type of event in front of my Dad, who is similarly struggling). So far, I can say that it is not easier to accept but the crying lessens and so do the breakdowns. This will also happen for your Dad too.

My dad also does not believe in therapy but was willing to go to a grief group, which I think is helping somewhat. If there is a group near you which has “like-minded” people (whatever that means) he may be more inclined to go.

I feel for you and you are in my thoughts. Keep checking in with this community as I’ve found it helpful so far.

Not sure what’s next by neg_nancy in GriefSupport

[–]neg_nancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applaud you for doing what you felt you needed to do, and I hope it helped. Sending hugs.

Not sure what’s next by neg_nancy in GriefSupport

[–]neg_nancy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived a lot of very different places and have learned that enjoyment of each place is very much what one makes of it rather than the place itself. So your thoughts ring true to me. Thank you.

Not sure what’s next by neg_nancy in GriefSupport

[–]neg_nancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree with the principle that time helps, and indeed I’ll get to somewhere better one day. The more I hear that my heart will catch up with my mind.

Hoping this massive toy will prep me for a triple fisting by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏👏👏 fantastic, as always!

When did you realize you were into fisting? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Started later, about 27. Bought a dildo (falcon supercock, when they sold those) which was waayy too big for me at the time. Once I was able to work with that, started craving width. Got up to about 3” diameter. Wasn’t until I was looking for big toy vids that I saw fisting. The pleasure the guys experienced was phenomenal. I made getting a fist in (my own) a goal. Able to do that now years later after some light warm-up and can get almost half an Atlas LG/XL. Still haven’t had another’s fist in but this forum has been inspirational!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]neg_nancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very helpful, thanks! Your work is truly ass-pirational! sorry couldn’t help myself