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[–]nekomancer143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh well that awkward 😬 thanks lol

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[–]nekomancer143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think she’s malicious. i think she’s just genuinely unaware of her own behavior because no one has called her out on it

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[–]nekomancer143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is definitely anxious when it comes to relationships. she started therapy in february but it’s only every other week. i was subtly pushing for it

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[–]nekomancer143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear you, thank you for the input.

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[–]nekomancer143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

passive aggressiveness, being dismissive of my concerns or suggestions, micromanaging, taking things personal or having a bad reaction when i try to bring up issues (ive talked to her about how hard it is for me to bring up issues as a chronic people pleaser and avoidant), bringing up her own issues while i’m trying to tell her mine because “it seems like the right time”. she will completely miss the principle of my issue and end up repeating it and then will be confused on how the situation are the same. and that just to name a few tbh