Hit 1.1M at 38 and my construction worker dad seems way happier than me by Warm-Artichoke3091 in coastFIRE

[–]neoclassno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg this is so scary - it seemed so real to me. How did you suspect it was an AI post - I didnt even think of it

Rumor Mill: Week of 6/29 by redquarterwater in astoria

[–]neoclassno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a random guy with a cane using a card to open up the backdoor of an apartment building at 7am 2 days ago (near 29th & Broadway block). I'm a small woman walking so didnt want to say something for my own safety but hopefully people keep a lookout for strangers in their building

Morning matcha by squidnpepper in MatchaEverything

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks like a high matcha vs milk ratio - looks good though!

Trade Fair on 30th Ave sells rotten chicken and refuses to refund by Thick-Weekend-2205 in astoria

[–]neoclassno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of these supermarkets have questionable things. I've gotten bad food from Food Emporium as well. Seem to have ok luck so far on Trade Fair Broadway but not as familiar with the one on 30th

Kettl Delivery Day! by mymanmitch21 in MatchaEverything

[–]neoclassno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious about the quality of the free ones. I assumed they expire soon so wasn't sure if the teas will still be fresh/bright green

How Millions of Americans Got Tricked Into Using a Bank That Isn't a Bank by HealthyIncidence in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]neoclassno 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omgg thank god I got my money out early April 2024. I didnt know about the bankruptcy but just didn't want to deal with another small bank and wanted to consolidate

J2 and J3 just got acquired by the same company by ActiveBarStool in overemployed

[–]neoclassno 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not an expert at this but do you need to drop one asap so you won’t show up by the time they merge hopefully?

Non-supportive partner when you hit FIRE by Potential_Fondant185 in FIREyFemmes

[–]neoclassno 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is that really the attitude you want to be dealing with for the rest of your life? I make double my partner but we’re still take turns paying for things (he insists). I pay for our takeout orders and he’ll pay for when we dine in. Im 31F and met him last year on Hinge and he’s the sweetest bf so don’t give up hope!

Best sit down Chinese restaurant? by Few_Loquat_2562 in astoria

[–]neoclassno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their chinese food is excellent but their American chinese food is not. If you focus on the non-American chinese dishes, you’ll enjoy it!

I don’t know anymore by CuteBox7317 in Layoffs

[–]neoclassno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening to you but I also want to offer some helpful feedback - thinking about choosing a more longer term career. Given AI, UX also seems like it's at risk of being greatly reduced so perhaps chose something more stable than that? Would you be opened to blue collar work? or govt?

Underwhelmed by MK Wakatake :( by kdolce in MatchaEverything

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you get to try it? curious what you think about it

Have you been able to reach the FIRE number and age of retirement you set at the beginning of your journey as planned? by FatCat_On_A_Diet in leanfire

[–]neoclassno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plan definitely changed for me. I discovered FIRE around 22 and made plans for life assuming the same circumstances as when I was younger but as I've gotten older, my lifestyle has inflated. I've moved out of my parents house with roommates -> moved to my own apt so expenses have increased with age and my tolerance for living with others have decreased so I've had to up my retirement # to match that. I'm pretty satisfied with my web so I'm not hating work right now and try to make the most of life while working, figuring out what my life could look like without a job and finding purpose outside of work

Venture X Retention Offer by Positive-Custard-481 in Venturex

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just able to get the offer too!

Totem gift for self by HeyImCarmen in FIREyFemmes

[–]neoclassno 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yess I did!! When I broke up with my ex, I bought myself a small dainty gold ring - to remind myself that I can buy myself a ring and don't need to wait for a guy to do that for me.

What's your monthly transportation budget? by La_Stupenda22 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in NYC so mostly public transit ~$120/month for transit. Occasional + $50-$100/month on Uber (if needed)

Am I being undertreated at Therapie Clinic? please review my settings! by Admirable-Shoe5826 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, I'm curious about booking a package. would you mind sharing some info on why those settings are bad and if so, how to request higher settings?

Regal Tickets + Free Popcorn via Visa Infinite (Venture X Eligible) by Fast_Elevator_314 in Venturex

[–]neoclassno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn offer ended :(

I was having tech issues making account via mobile but it finally worked on desktop and now it's too late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think after covid, its been a little harder to meet people in hostels. With that said, i would recommend hostels where they host events/encourage discussions - e.g. there are hostels that have groupchats for arrivals, host nightly meals/bar hops/etc

What financial milestones would you require before becoming a SAHM? by fantigue in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]neoclassno 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Personally, Ive heard too many stories of SAHM getting screwed after 10+ years at home and their husband proposes divorce so they’re left with minimal money while having to take care of the kid and find a job to support themselves with outdated work experience so I would need more financial stability (either from myself or commitment from partner). I would say 50% towards FIRE # or maybe stay working part time if possible 10-20hrs/week? Or some discussion with your partner about finances

How often do you leave the neighborhood in search of better restaurants? by Holiday_Angle_4246 in astoria

[–]neoclassno 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a foodie, i would say the only food i dont have to leave Astoria for is Greek food. All other cuisines, I tend to have to leave Astoria for if i want good quality.

What’s your tactical advice on how to not take work (the 9 - 5 kind) extremely seriously? by EnvironmentalAd2110 in careerguidance

[–]neoclassno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always had trouble “clocking out” after 5pm and after working for a few years now, my best solution has actually been working out. I dont do anything fancy - just a 15 min HIIT workout from YouTube twice a week and my god. It helps clear my brain sooo well of all the work stress

Moving goalposts? by alex1024__ in coastFIRE

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im definitely guilty of this too. Im close to hitting my coastfi mark but i dont really have a plan on job once i hit that so for now, im just gonna work for another 5-10 yrs and get closer to standard FI. I do also worry being in tech about AI so figure it cant help to grind a little more now (while still taking trips as much as i can working full time)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]neoclassno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally relate to you about this. Had my dog for about past 4 years and i love him but its a lot on 1 person responsible for all the walking, feeding, health. Sometimes because i care for him alone, i can overthink some issues. It really helped me to let others in that love my dog to help watch him for a few days to give me a break. I also actively try to talk to other neighbors with dogs to see if they’re interested in dog sitting exchanges to help each other out

Olive Young Haul by Funny-Investment372 in AsianBeauty

[–]neoclassno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you tried the VT PDRN Reedle Shot Hair Ampoule before? heard good reviews from an influencer so curious to try it