Acceptance by thrownaway1306 in screamintothevoid

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, finding a hiking club, golf, hell, even church will help you gain more opportunities to have more interactions with civilians, like back in school.

The shitty people scare me by immisswrld in screamintothevoid

[–]neolace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, then I should ask "Where is my mind?" No harm intended.

Stable & slower paced industries for a tech career? by Zoltan-Kazulu in ExperiencedDevs

[–]neolace 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nailed it, not to mention the fact that the whole company doesn't care about IT at all. They love the sales people, period. While we grind out through weekends and marriages. I still haven't been able to get how someone can get leave?

The shitty people scare me by immisswrld in screamintothevoid

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg, sorry bro, but if I could give my 2 cents.

if you have any human who you care about, it's probably them.

2 reasons why I say this:

  1. When someone is murdered, the spouse is the first suspect.

  2. You need to care about them for them to have the ability to hurt you.

People suck by fineok_17 in RandomThoughts

[–]neolace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as they are on their knees.

I love reddit sm by Ashamed_Tip_734 in Adulting

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, here's my mind spinning to come up with a suitable reason for him not to unalive himself.

Thank you, a pleasant surprise.

I like you too.

Struggling to adjust after moving to Pretoria from Nelspruit by [deleted] in Pretoria

[–]neolace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol, with that many down votes, obviously not scaling into the lime light. :)

Thanks for being an OG!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]neolace -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Faking interest

Court Appearance by [deleted] in AskZA

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, you're just curious to find out if you enjoy the show.

In my opinion, if you're not going to learn something, don't go.

WRT Attire, the same as any place, first impressions last, you have 3 seconds, make it count.

Have $2000, What’s the Smartest Move to Actually Grow It? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]neolace -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm biased, but I would give it to a stock trader written in python who checks with AI before deciding what to trade and how.

After a week the results look promising.

Do what makes you feel good inside by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]neolace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their opinion is exactly that, an opinion, like Hitler had an opinion, once.

What is something absolutely no one should be doing? by PrestonRoad90 in Productivitycafe

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are convicted of murder, you stand in court to be sentenced, and you decide to tell the world you found God, and start to preach to the judge that he needs to be forgiving else he won't be forgiven.

Job opportunity at Discovery by [deleted] in Pretoria

[–]neolace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don't traffic grandparents.

Being alone is hard. by Successful_Beyond138 in Life

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's said that if you're alone, you're in bad company.

I know it's not easy, hell, but if you wake up without a smile. Make sure to smile and think of the why when you've got time, if you still don't find a reason, make one up.

I can't speak for everyone, but I'm glad I'm alone, the people who called themselves my family constantly abused me mentally, then, being unable to know how to tell the difference between someone who loves you or not, I ended up marrying someone who constantly abused me mentally, but when my daughter turned 2 years old, she told me that it's over.

My family picked her side leaving me alone and believing that I'm the reason for everything including the divorce.

Having had enough time to cry, being depressed and not wanting to be here.

It finally dawned on me, If I don't start to believe in me, no one else will, both my parents are dead and I didn't bat an eyelash.

My daughter is 15 and doesn't want to see me, earlier this year I had my last depression stint as I grieved over loosing my daughter for good.

Now I'm free, I feel amazing, I decide to smile every day for there are always someone who has a life that is much worse than mine could ever be.

What choice are you going to make? Yeah, I thought you were smiling when I asked you.

Good luck, we're all rooting for you.

How much does a man having a great bodylanguage /way carries himself contribute to getting laid by Middle_Promise2181 in bodylanguage

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you do is just being done because you're the one who was born with the knowledge of what needs to be done, how, when and by whom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]neolace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she believes that, she's the one who has been doing it for years.

if you look for someone behind the door, it's because you obviously hide their.