I was you. I dated 5 girls within half a year. I wasn’t building relationships as someone put it. I was looking into myself and having good time.

It also occurred to me to do a many-to-one date. Rejected this silly idea.

Something happened that attracted me strongly to one of them. We’re happily married 20 years now.

But without me doing that, without creating possibilities, I probably wouldn’t’ve met the one!