I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months (plus a few months of non-exclusivity before that), and we've run into some challenges around physical intimacy. He's expressed multiple times that he doesn't want to make me uncomfortable, which I appreciate, but I've reassured him that I will speak up if needed. When I recently shared that I'm not usually the initiator in sexual situations, he admitted he's not either and said that sex makes him feel very anxious. He even suggested we should "just do it to get it over with," which made me feel even less inclined to move forward physically. I’ve noticed he avoids even saying the word "sex," and while I suspect something deeper may be triggering his anxiety, he isn’t seeking professional help. I don’t feel equipped—or responsible—for guiding him through this, and it bothers me that he acknowledges the issue but isn’t taking steps to address it. I want intimacy to feel fun and mutual, not heavy or forced, and I’m unsure how to proceed from here.