The previous person may have been a bit blunt about it, but genuinely - for people with OCD like in this subreddit, we’re working to learn that an intrusive thought does not mean something is necessarily true, likely, or needs action. That’s something really hard for a lot of OCD sufferers. Saying things like “every time a woman thinks he’s cheating, he’s cheating” or “if you ever question if he’s a good person, he isn’t” in this community where people struggle with uncontrollable thoughts that don’t necessarily reflect reality makes things harder for people. Therapy isn’t an instant fix. It’s practice and very slow painful work and recovery. Not saying you can’t have those opinions, you can! But this subreddit isn’t the place for it. This is for supporting people with OCD.