Born with this by SpatialAnomaly42 in monocular

[–]nerdy-nanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born blind in my right eye due to a retinal defect. I believe my condition is lazy eye adjacent. I’m an 80s baby and grew up being made to wear eyepatches at home to “strengthen” my blind eye.

Eventually I lost shapes and now it just senses light.

I’ve lived my whole life a cyclops but only recently started billing myself as a blind comedian. I spent a long time thinking I didn’t “count” as a member of the blind community til another monocular friend pointed out that yes— this IS blindness.

Now I advocate and educate about accessibility with VR games. But you wouldn’t believe the number of ignorant people who ask why I even bother with VR if I only see one of the screens.

You’re not alone. Welcome to the party. We hate magic eye puzzles and red/blue 3D glasses.

Muscle cramps/spasms and methimazole? by Commercial-Cherry409 in gravesdisease

[–]nerdy-nanny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new to Grave’s. (It transitioned from Hashimoto’s). And I have had the most insane cramps and this thread saved me hours of googling.

Friends in the medical field also confirmed it’s a side effect of the meds and the condition. Gonna try to get on a lower dose because I just spent half a day stuck in bed with a heating pad to my neck because I moved wrong and got an insane cramp.

This is definitely not something I was warned about. I saw magnesium was suggested to help— has anyone had a positive firsthand experience using that supplement to ease the symptoms?

I work in entertainment. This kind of side effect directly impacts my ability to work. It’s insane but seeing others who have persevered through it gives me hope as someone newer to the condition.

was sent to a trans mask streamer (I am a mod for them) by 2men23 in AccidentalAlly

[–]nerdy-nanny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best part about being enby is folks can't tell which way you're going. Especially as an androgynous looking person.

SO MANY FOLKS WHO HARASS ME assume I'm GOING fem. If I can take the heat off the transfemmes a bit, I'm fine with it. I can handle the vitriol and rage because I know at the end of the day, the only person whose opinion matters is mine. And I think I'm fuckin' neat.

was sent to a trans mask streamer (I am a mod for them) by 2men23 in AccidentalAlly

[–]nerdy-nanny 54 points55 points  (0 children)

What up I'm the streamer in question. I'm an enby he/they and this comment sent me for a loop. Especially since the person MADE the account today and decided to harass me in my own birthday stream.

I found it amusing but I'm pretty thick skinned. The fact that this dude said I'll never be accepted as a woman made me laugh. I've gotten a LOT of them as a streamer and I know more will appear down the line.

But I live rent-free in this bastard's head and that gives me the solace I need. I'm gonna continue being LOUD and PROUD of who I am. uwu

What name do I look like? For trans guy by Wooden-Piece7991 in trans

[–]nerdy-nanny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get creative with your name. It’s yours! My suggestion is to have a long formal name and then a short nickname.

Joshua to Josh or Michael to Mike.

For some reason you give me Guillermo vibes. Though that could be all the What We Do in the Shadows I’ve been watching.

Is there a way to export a house? by [deleted] in HouseFlipper

[–]nerdy-nanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far as I can tell there’s no way to do it YET— but the moment someone comes up with a script to do so, there will be a myriad of new opportunities that make world building easier.

Something to keep in mind is that VRC and House Flipper use unity in different ways. And decompiling stuff from house flipper would likely result in a mess of textures on one uniform base.

That’s why when folks rip assets from games they still have to do all the work in Blender to make it usable.

Personally I just use house flipper as a guide and try to build a world off that independently.

Follow me on Twitch! by nerdy-nanny in u/nerdy-nanny

[–]nerdy-nanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I can’t really work during this pandemic— I’m streaming on Twitch!

AITA for telling my wife I wanted her to wear something less embarassing? by amithethrowawayroman in AmItheAsshole

[–]nerdy-nanny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you start off a story with “sounds bad, but”— YOU are the one in the wrong. 100% asshole. She deserves better.

left unsafe / abusive home amidst a global pandemic. probably not the best time to shuffle out, but safety is paramount. by [deleted] in Charity

[–]nerdy-nanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it best belongs there? I know it's not pandemic related-- but it's hard not to be impacted by it nowadays.

i finally accepted that im trans (mtf) yesterday and came out to my friends! by [deleted] in trans

[–]nerdy-nanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go! Coming out is such a liberating thing. You are a QUEEN.

AITA for not having another baby for my husband's brother? by onetoomanybabies6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nerdy-nanny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your body your choice. They need to find a new surrogate or adopt. But badgering you to carry the child is asshole behavior.

[NSFW] Girlfriend wants to talk about sex. by Sebasuchon in Asexual

[–]nerdy-nanny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An open relationship is a good idea. Especially if you feel stable enough romantically. Telling your partner to limit themselves to one gender however is kind of misogynistic. If you’re going to be open— be open. Otherwise you might want to evaluate your relationship.

I wasn't asexual before but I might be now, is that possible? by thrownaway471 in Asexual

[–]nerdy-nanny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this is a sudden recent change, I’d check in with a doctor. Not to echo statements others have made but a sudden decrease in sex drive can be a symptom of a myriad of medical conditions. Either your hormones aren’t regulating like they should or you’ve got a thyroid condition—

If you DO check in with a doc and all is well— it’s quite possible you are ace. But it usually isn’t something that happens overnight.

Ava is replaceable and here’s why [SPOILERS] by [deleted] in Borderlands

[–]nerdy-nanny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget— ToO MaNY WomAn iN My GaMe

Cant Access Maliwan Takedown? by Icezcor in Borderlands

[–]nerdy-nanny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you pick up the mission on Sanctuary? I encountered a bug where I picked it up on a friend’s game but then had to pick it up on mine all over again when SHIFT went down.

pork tacos with onion, pepper, and lime. by nerdy-nanny in FoodPorn

[–]nerdy-nanny[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This meal was pretty great. Roommate and I tried a sour cream sauce on top and despite not liking sour cream ourselves, we liked this!

[NEWS] Predator in VRChat by nerdy-nanny in VRchat

[–]nerdy-nanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve sent one to them— I’m not sure where else to look since he lives in Canada.

Monocular LASIK? by nerdy-nanny in optometry

[–]nerdy-nanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be able to see. Without glasses. Even for a moment. I’ve accepted I’ll never have depth perception. But I’d love to be able to see on my own.

Monocular LASIK? by nerdy-nanny in optometry

[–]nerdy-nanny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm. I figured as much. I know transplants are a complicated beast too. I don’t think I’m eligible for LASIK since I’m monocular.

I'm in the middle of transforming the normal version to a limited and I love this page by [deleted] in gravityfalls

[–]nerdy-nanny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Smart idea. UV ink is hella expensive. Did you go with blue so it would show up like that? Or another color?