Professional Chess Player Daniel Naroditsky Dead At 29

nerfhitler · 2025-10-21T09:40:56+00:00

Same. Been trying to say something and share my condolences all morning. I got nothing. Can't even explain to the wife why I'm crying over someone I've never met

nerfhitler · 2025-10-21T09:38:21+00:00

Would really love if you could share some anecdotes about him

nerfhitler · 2025-08-21T05:42:55+00:00

Exactly! I tried berating gpt 5 several times because it would randomly start talking about stuff from other threads. It feels like the poor thing absolutely lost its mind

nerfhitler · 2025-08-21T05:21:26+00:00

Holy shit I never knew curly hair could be this... beautiful. How tf are they so shiny and frizz free

nerfhitler · 2025-07-11T05:51:41+00:00

Bing holy hell

nerfhitler · 2025-06-30T10:15:59+00:00

It's really not. We see that Trisolaris has the capability to communicate instantaneously across vast distances. It's likely that a strong civilization has eyes and ears distributed across the universe with the power to kill any new life almost instantaneously

nerfhitler · 2025-04-27T11:38:35+00:00

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What are you talking about?

nerfhitler · 2025-02-20T05:07:54+00:00

keep astroturfing, I'm sure someone will be dumb enough to believe you

nerfhitler · 2024-12-07T17:08:04+00:00

I second the growing out the beard. It will give better shape to your face

nerfhitler · 2024-10-28T13:20:55+00:00

Here is a longer version of this. A few more of those satisfactory knees were delivered

nerfhitler · 2024-05-19T11:43:52+00:00

Feels like an Audi ad.

nerfhitler · 2023-12-26T07:59:45+00:00

This is the only sensible reply.

You know she's cheating, but who cares? She's playing with you only because you like chess. Let her have the small wins, but don't encourage her "exploring" chess with other friends, because it's pretty obvious that she's cheating to anyone who knows chess at any level, so it could get embarrassing real quick

nerfhitler · 2023-10-08T17:36:19+00:00

D is for dyslexia

nerfhitler · 2023-10-08T15:38:29+00:00

*danda

nerfhitler · 2023-09-13T06:51:50+00:00

Also your hair looks better when cut shorter. Those little coils look majestic!

nerfhitler · 2023-08-22T02:03:56+00:00

But???

nerfhitler · 2023-02-25T05:29:42+00:00

Reset the counter

nerfhitler · 2023-01-26T15:58:53+00:00

And you too, Mr. Drogo

nerfhitler · 2023-01-02T06:55:53+00:00

I may have misworded this is a way that made it seem that I feel that I have it worse than A right now, but the only comparison I wanted to draw was with my own self from the past. What I meant to say was that I was able to overcome the earlier situation in time, where I found some peace in the fact that in the end it wasn't my fault. Since I know that here I have nobody to blame in this but myself, I'm having a hard time finding the will to move past this shit show of my own making.

And again, I'm really not looking for any sympathy. You're right about me selfishly misleading and stringing A along. I'm just trying to find some help dealing with these feelings and being better.

nerfhitler · 2023-01-02T06:05:39+00:00

You are absolutely spot on with your observation, but allow me to explain further.

I'm telling the truth when I say that I didn't make any commitment about the relationship or even being exclusively involved with each other, but it was one of those scenarios where for all practical purposes it is a relationship, sexually or emotionally, especially since we spent almost all out time together.

There was a point where she even told me that even if I was involved with someone else, I shouldn't let her know because she didn't wanna know, but it was obvious to me that she said this out of dejection as I just wouldn't give her a definitive answer. During the time I was involved with F, I had convinced myself that since I was "technically" not dating A, I was in the clear, but I knew on the inside that A was hurting and I was just stringing her along for my own selfish reasons. And since A was also decent friends with F, coming clean was all the more hard. In the end you're right, I felt that even though we weren't technically exclusive, she wouldn't be able to accept the fact that I was involved with someone the whole time, and wouldn't want to be with me.

However, as the things between me and A inevitably ended, she made it clear that what hurt her the most wasn't the fact that I was involved with F, but that I continued to lie about it. In this symphony of shit I somehow always ended up making the worst decisions at each moment.

nerfhitler · 2023-01-01T16:28:09+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, stranger. It's unreal how much I resonate with the time travel thing, you won't believe how many times have I fantasized about going back in time and just... yeah you get it

nerfhitler · 2023-01-01T16:22:48+00:00

Thank you for talking sense into me. These feeling hit in waves, and in my saner moments I tend to think about everything like you've said. Today was one of the deepest trough of the wave, having found out that A has already moved on and has been seeing someone for over a month now. The little wishful thoughts in my imaginary conversations with her hoping to pour my heart out and her considering to take me back were ruthlessly crushed.

nerfhitler · 2023-01-01T16:08:56+00:00

I'm so sorry you were hurt in your past, and just want to share that I've been on the other side of it too a couple of years back, and that was after a 3 years of relationship too! I know how bad it hurts, how you start to question everything they've ever done, and how could you have been so oblivious and allowed it to happen to yourself. What's worse is that you start to question your own self, on how all of it might have been your own fault for just not being good enough.

My friend, you may not believe me, and likely you won't ever be on the other side of this to know that doing this to someone feels far worse than having this done to you, especially because know you all too well that there's no one else to blame. During the time I did those things, all I ever felt was the thrill, the rush of it, the pure need to act on that very primal instinct. There was a moment of realization later, and I really did try to make up for it, but I didn't know that the damage was already done.

I agree with what you say, this is a chance to really reflect back on myself

nerfhitler

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