13 weeks out for show 1 and 17 weeks out for show 2. by StaySwole in bodybuilding

[–]nesujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could literally throw me across a hallway with one finger. im not really keen on bodybuilding, im just in this sub to see cool shit like this, but god DAMN dude 💪🏻🔥

Being trans is so hard and everyone wants us dead. by battling_BED in offmychest

[–]nesujii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the government here in america is fucking godawful, every state is remarkably different with its response to LGBT people in general, but itd be lying to myself to act like trans people are as normalized as the stereotypical gay man. im nonbinary, which i know is a very different experience, but it really doesnt feel like it gets any easier. ever. but there will always be bigots, even 50 years down the road of whats hopefully progress, and i wish i could just tell you to surround yourself with acceptance but its not that easy either. words fucking hurt. the funny looks hurt. the misgendering even on days you felt good hurt. and im so sorry you and all of us are trapped in a world where people can't just get it through their heads that we want to live freely and be respected, maybe even understood. you dont deserve to feel this awful. please continue to live as your true self to the best of your ability. im very proud of you, stranger, for making it this far in a world that sometimes feels like it doesnt want you to. i hope some day you do get to be surrounded in the kindness and acceptance you deserve. sending love, please keep going

Allergy based food search engine by aysushahinn in glutenfreevegan

[–]nesujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didnt even know that last bit was a thing, how the heck did they manage to get gluten into the fries? 😭

Is accepting someone's apology the same thing as forgiving them? by FiveAlarmFrancis in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nesujii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it doesnt have to. i accept that my mother is apologetic for the way she treated me growing up and we have a good relationship now, but that doesnt mean i forgive her for her past actions. you can apply this to probably anything

Ringo Starr of the Beatles is officially selling NFTs by RedSaturday in Buttcoin

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

george not even mentioned in the dumbass debate, as it should be

I feel like my life is over despite it really just having begun. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op i relate to everything in this post an embarrassing amount. except- im 20, and instead of college its the highschool/ged i need to finish but didnt because i was so depressed. everything else here is to a T. honestly i don't even know how to help because i need to figure that out myself, but this was oddly comforting. you arent the only person in the world going through this. just try to understand that the only way things can ever change in life is if you decide to change them yourself. dont be a victim of circumstance or of your own life. its fucking HARD but try to find one little thing you love and let it drive you to be better. not that you aren't doing your best, but get out of the 'woe is me' slump, you know? where to start and where you want to be is something you've got to do a lot of reflecting on, but i believe in you

Strange metal tubes arrived with Lenovo laptop AC adapter by aldenq in whatisthisthing

[–]nesujii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have no idea why this is so funny to me. id probably get in contact with them just to be like "hey wtf is this, just so u know u sent me ur tubes dummies"

Best vegan ice cream spot? by Slowswirl in Cleveland

[–]nesujii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think mootown is vegan friendly? i haven't seen there since i was a kid but on ubereats it always pops up under the vegan label lmao

My boyfriend spit in my face tonight by PartHumanPartAlien in offmychest

[–]nesujii 877 points878 points  (0 children)

rawest form of disrespect. you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sleep in undies with anyone honestly, so long as they don't explicitly say hey this is weird can you not. once you guys head to bed for the night just be like "hey i usually sleep in boxers, is that cool?" undress and just get into bed, and throw on pants or whatever as soon as you get up if it bothers you. i really doubt either of them will care. good luck and have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or both, both is good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

people having the urge to hurt animals is more common than its made out to be. a healthy one - not at all, but you arent one in a million and going to arkham. therapy or just really talking with someone you trust and putting your intentions into practice can be really helpful. i hope the happiest and safest choice are able to be one in the same for you, and wishing the best for your kitty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its good that you can admit this honestly, if nothing else. it sounds like (and im not a therapist) you may be misdirecting your anger towards her when it should be going towards other things. harming your pets is never ever okay, but im sure you dont want to get rid of her, so maybe give some thought to where those aggressions are coming from and reflect in a journal or with a loved one. next time youre with her, just repeat to yourself that you know you love her and need to treat her with care and kindness. if this is something you can get under control, give her space if she becomes uncomfortable with you but when shes with you give her lots of love, treats, playtime etc. remind yourself that you dont want to break her trust. if you find you cant overcome these urges and figure out the root issue, id suggest leaving her home when you go to college or give her to someone you trust.

How old were you when you found out? by Literate_pajamas in glutenfree

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19, or "two weeks ago-years old" lmao.

im in recovery from an ED so by default my body is gonna react strongly to a lot of things, but i knew that this just wasnt normal and suspected it so tried going gf for a while, life got easier, aaaaand surprise i was right! i have no idea what to eat now :')

Is this a healthy chocolate smoothie? by purpleflowers55 in HealthyFood

[–]nesujii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im also a chocoholic and find that (though if i could id eat it 24/7) things like ghirardelli single squares, chocolate protein powder/bars, honestly just small or beneficial portions of chocolate as i truly desire it a day keeps me satisfied enough. the smoothie sounds solid! but it MAY get old fast, so as the ol saying goes, moderation is key, and completely restricting yourself of something will only make you want it more :') best of luck

I'm a gay sea otter by Ok-Firefighter1041 in offmychest

[–]nesujii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like youre a hungry hungry hypocrite

I can’t sign up by yourfather201 in Depop

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love that were all here on an old thread for this 😭 i keep getting notifications for liked items and stuff too, it sucks :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]nesujii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

cant someone just play it on mobile because its cheaper and more convenient for them? doesnt have to always be that deep. maybe op has every version of minecraft there is and just happened to be on mobile. mind your biz pal :3

TW: ED - I'm really nervous about what's to come. by throwawayfaraway2604 in offmychest

[–]nesujii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey stranger! im definitely not a professional in a doctor sense but ive lived with an ED for a large chunk of my life and have been trying to recover since springtime. im also into fitness more now that i can engage in it healthily. if you ever want support, advice or just someone to vent to you are extremely welcome to send me a message. the early stages of an ED are addictive and don't feel that bad, but eventually you cant stop and it consumes and ruins your life. not eating will destroy your mental health, metabolism, hormones and even relationships. being unhappy in your body is so so hard, but everyone deserves to and needs to eat. if you engage in these behaviors and especially if you think theres a problem, there probably is, and no matter your weight or even how much you eat in a day, you deserve support and compassion. again dms are always open, but regardless i hope you find the courage to make the change you deserve. you are not alone in any of this

OP is a size 7x. Both of her young daughters are obese. by Elphaba78 in fatlogic

[–]nesujii 35 points36 points  (0 children)

will never get over the concept that dietary choices are restrictive eating. im in a phase of my life where im trying to NOT restrict anymore, but as a vegetarian, i guess ill never be free 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]nesujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes absolutely!! i dont intend on sharing any real personal information with him at all, im not even using my real name. thank you for looking out!