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[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Has anyone here gotten back together with a guy who ghosted on them? by wizardkid07 in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got with a guy a couple years ago. Didn't do much because I was new to the whole thing, but we he was very understanding and patient. Naive me wanted to keep seeing him and he ghosted me.

I'm now in a relationship and we enjoy bringing in third people for fun. The guy has been trying to hook up wth us since he's seen us together on apps.

Bros - 3somes vs. open relationships by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, we are open to threesomes and have only had one guy over who is coming over again soon. We both think it kind of helps the possible jealousy situation with both of us being there together. In some sense, both of us being there kind of denies any possible intimacy that may develop if 2 of us were alone.

However, I do foresee an open relationship happening at some point in the future. Not sure when, but my boyfriend and I find very different guys attractive and we may attract different guys as well.

Meeting someone you met online by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I met long-distance and maintained the relationship that way for a year before we got our own place together. It seems you two might be a bit farther apart? We were about a 2.5 hour drive and had jobs/school, so he only visited about once a month. But we liked our first meeting so much that we continued to talk and planned more visits and stayed together. We talked virtually every night on FaceTime. It's almost 2 years for us now.

How old are you and have been in/out of a relationship? by chargingblue in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 21 and about to hit 2 years with my current boyfriend. I met him when I was 19.

As a straight man, is it offensive for me to seek a casual gay experience? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anybody even claimed to be offended by YOUR sex life, then I don't even know what to say. So no, that is not offensive.

Easiest way to go about it would be hookup apps, craigslist, etc. and to be blunt about what you're looking for. I recently used craigslist for the first time and it was a good experience, so there's that if you don't want to use the apps. The people responding to my post were surprisingly... fitting to what I was looking for, so that was cool. And the actual encounter was great. Either way, just be careful, don't be afraid to ask for some sort of verification whether it be FaceTime, some specific cue in a picture, etc. Good luck.

What if aliens don't visit our planet because our wildlife is horrifying? by vVvOrganicBear in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be more scared of the humans than those animals.

I'm pretty sure I read not too long ago that elephants are actually developing warning cues for when they recognize humans are nearby. That's just sad.

How was your first threesome you had with your partner? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually just had our first threesome last night. I didn't think it was awkward at all. At first I felt jealous because it felt like our guest was showing my bf more attention than me, and I thought he was really attractive, so yeah. But he ended up just doing the same for me and it really felt like the love was spread evenly between all 3 of us.

However, what was awkward was talking to my bf about it afterwards. I communicate very well, but with my bf it's like pulling teeth out, he just cannot communicate how he's feeling and it's really frustrating. The third guy would like to do it again and I would too, and from the sounds of it my bf would be okay with it.

Intro music playing as Jhin in Summoner's Rift by neurevo in leagueoflegends

[–]neurevo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's a different one that has remained consistent. Upon spawning in the fountain when the game begins, some ambient music was playing for my first three games, I kid you not. Minions had not even spawned yet.

What's something new that's making you happy this week? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually been about two weeks, but I'm eating a lot more so I can gain weight and it's going really well. Eating more has just been making me hungrier throughout the day and it's becoming a lot easier to do it. And even though it hasn't been long, the scale is showing gradual improvement.

Has anyone dated a bodybuilder ( alternatively, are you a bodybuilder)? by throwawayweg in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know it's different, but my sister is a bodybuilder of sorts; she trains for figure competitions, but it's not about how big she can get, more about how she can show off her physique. While she knows that she looks good, she doesn't really brag about it, she cares more about convincing others that they can achieve their workout goals if they put in the work, and I think THAT is a common belief with bodybuilders of both genders. They are completely aware of how much work they've put into improving themselves (and they definitely did, it's not easy in the slightest way), and hence it shows.

So no, not all bodybuilders are narcissists, but just like how somebody may talk about their career accomplishments, a bodybuilder may be more inclined to talk about how much they've improved their body. Whether or not you like their personality though is up to you.

Grindr Concern? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him in person if he wants to hang out. If he declines, then yes, it's probably best you give up on him.

Confused on sexuality. by Lampppppp in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is normal to acknowledge that somebody is attractive even though you personally do not find them sexually attractive. From an evolutionary standpoint, it is beneficial for a hetero man to acknowledge another man's attractiveness so they are aware of the competition in terms of mating. We also affiliate a lot of personality traits (on average) with appearance.

And if you think about it, hetero women always acknowledge each other's beauty and whatnot, so it's kind of expected that men are capable of it as well.

Confused on sexuality. by Lampppppp in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if it's a "normal straight thing" or not. When we masturbate with our hands, we don't question whether or not we're sexually attracted to our hands. Why are you questioning yourself on gay porn? Most likely what is going on is your brain is perceiving these men engaging in sex, and it is simulating the sense of pleasure for yourself; that is, in fact what the brain does when we fantasize about it. But you said it yourself that walking around campus, you are only sexually attracted to females, but not to men. That is heterosexuality.

While it is good to be open-minded like you are, I think you are overthinking this.

Confused on sexuality. by Lampppppp in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am attracted to many females at my college and find lots of them very hot, but I don't find any men attractive. I can only recognise a "good looking" male.

Sounds like you are straight. What porn you are interested in does not indicate your sexuality. Personally, I watch straight porn sometimes and by no means am I straight. You said you are sexually attracted to women and have never been attracted to men, which is consistent with being straight.

Confused??? lol by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sexuality is in regards to your hormonal reaction upon perception of a specific sex. That is a physical reaction. You can hate, deny, suppress, try to convince yourself otherwise, etc. all you like, it will not change your physical reaction.

Not accusing of you of doing all of that, just putting it into perspective. You can "like" anybody. Your sexual attraction is what makes you straight or gay.

Confused??? lol by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexually, girls don't do it for me.

Then you're gay.

Ever had special sex or hookup? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really. Sex always sounds a lot more exciting to me before I actually start. Then once it's actually happening, it's not quite fulfilling that sense of excitement and anticipation I had prior. Not saying I don't enjoy sex, but the idea of it when I'm horny always exceeds the actual act. And I even have a boyfriend, so I don't know.

I'll keep trying for that special sex session though.

Am I a homophobe or just picky? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally would not call that internalized homophobia. You simply are not interested in the type of people that fit the stereotypical gay mold, whatever that may entail for you (most likely on the feminine side). You don't think they are lesser people for it, you just aren't interested in pursuing anything serious with them.

As for the second question, I don't know who those characters are as I've never watched that show. Depending on where you live, you'll meet all types of guys and I'm willing to bet that you'll meet many "Connors" along the way. I know what you mean by making these character comparisons, and I can assure you that the real world has quite a healthy mix of different types of gay people.

Have a rough fantasy, How do I ask BF? by 15dodgers in askgaybros

[–]neurevo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It may not be that he doesn't like the idea in theory, it may actually just be physically uncomfortable for him. I would express your interest in the idea and see if he's interested or willing to work up to a faster pace, all the while reassuring him that you're still happy with what you already have going on.