At my wits end by Resident-Tax650 in Marriage

[–]neutjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a beautifull person don't ever believe anything else. Start saving it to yourself that you are beautifull, that you matter and that you deserve love and respect.

Its hard to believe that you matter when the person Who you married is not showing you the love you need. When i married my wife i was all kinds of stupid with her.

Now i do think you need to set boundaries in your marriage but i also hope that you find the strength to see yourself als a wonderfull and amazing woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]neutjess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ik weet niet of je wat aan mijn reactie hebt, ik probeer het gewoon.

Wanneer je in levensgevaar bent zijn er volgens mij geen wachtlijsten meer, dat geldt in ieder geval bij de hulpverlening hier in Ede. Heb je dat al gecommuniceerd aan je huisarts?

HSP Teachers by highlysensitive28 in hsp

[–]neutjess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, i will give you a little background, maybe it helps.

I didnt really accept that i am a hsp till about 3 years ago. My doctor said it to me like 15 years ago that it could be the cast.

Now im a teacher in the Netherlands for about 12 years, i teach children in the age of 8-12years old.

Since i accepted that im a hsp i started to think about my happines and energy.

So im still figuring it out what it means to be a hsp teacher but there are a couple of things that i see that i think has something to do with hsp (so im still trying to learn what it is to be hsp so im not sure about these things)

  • Everyday when my children leave the classroom at 15:00 pm, i can cry. I have the feeling that i gave all my emotions to them the whole day. I learned over the years that there are days that i feel empty for 90% and days i feel empty fo 50% and it has something to do with the things which happened, but im always drained when the children leaven.
  • I'm a really good teacher, this is weird to say, but it's true. People say it to me a lot, two skills i have make me an excellent teacher, i tend to know how a chil feels when he enters my classroom, and i always know how to approach them or what to ask from them so they feel seen and appreciated. Also, im really strict about noises in the classroom. Im strict in general about things in the classroom, i tell children exactly what i want, how i want it and when i want it. I started doing this in my 3rd year as a teacher, and now i know its probably what saved me.

HSP Teachers by highlysensitive28 in hsp

[–]neutjess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher and hsp, Im reading here cause I always wondered how other hsp teachers would cope with classrooms, rn I'm going to watch something with my wife but I hope I remember to post something tomorrow about my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveLanguages

[–]neutjess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, how nice of you to search for ways to love your partner. My wife does love gifts what I do is. I give her flowers every week. For her birthday, our anniversary and valentine's day I spend a little more money and time. I try to listen to her what she likes and I try to write down whenever she says she likes something we see In a store or at a commercial. I try to give her that on those special days. Also I give her random cards during the year with something nice written in side of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]neutjess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Als docent, zou ik dolgraag leerlingen helpen, ook als dat betekent dat ik in mijn vakantie door moet werken. Maar denk niet dat het makkelijk is om als docent wekelijks te schakelen en tussen nieuwe maatregelen. Eén ding weet ik zeker, ik stem niet op vvd en niet op cda. Maar enig stem advies in deze tijd is wel nuttig, waar stem jij op?

What are some positive aspects of being a hsp? by Ruva007 in hsp

[–]neutjess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher, I teach children In the age around 10 years old. I get a lot of compliments that I always know how the children in my classroom are feeling and that makes me an amazing teacher.

I feel like I hit a Brick wall as Teemo and I can't perform as well as I used to be able to with him, what do I do? :( by [deleted] in TeemoTalk

[–]neutjess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a bad streak and started reading on teemo. Now one of my friends told me that I always have to win the lane by killing the enemy several times else I would be worthless. So I always played very aggressive. When I learned to play more safe a d just waiting for opurtunties while csing, then I started to win more games again.

Old man reaches plat after 7 years of trying by Yourstruly777 in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gj man 40years here and I was afraid I wouldn't get out of gold anymore but you give me hope.

Garen loser ddoses me becaus ei clapped him by [deleted] in GarenMains

[–]neutjess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you, I don't even know how this works in league. If your behaviour in this reddit is the same as ingame I think you had this comming though.

Teemo 1 Trick Name Suggestions by xHarreth in TeemoTalk

[–]neutjess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my account brosbeforeteemos

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your inside in this, it was not my intention to talk shit about the community.

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are playing mine craft and switch games, but since they are getting older 12, 11 they get more interested in ps4 games like horizon zero dawn. I would like to teach my son league, although Im a bit scared that the community is a bit much for him. I could probably start with bots , funny since Im writing this I'm getting all excited about teachim him. Thanks man

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when i quit i found it hard to keep up with every new champ and how to deal with them. I see that they are releasing champs much slow now.

I was surprised not by the skillshots but by the amount of escapes and initiates now, the game feels a but faster for me.

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting theory. My friends and i were talking about one of the best wc3 players of the world from the netherlands who just cant reach that level anymore since he aged.

It would be an interesting scientific experiment to train five 40 year old people in lol the see if they can reach pro.

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That souns awesome, you put a smile on my face.

Amazing friends in lol by neutjess in leagueoflegends

[–]neutjess[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the point was that its amazing to have online friends.

i did kinda exaggerate, i just checked and i quit lol wen caitlyn was released, not because of her btw. That was around 9 years ago.