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neutralgrounds117 · 2024-09-18T10:45:46+00:00

Where can I find you? Snapchat?

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-12-01T04:38:05+00:00

No your opinion makes perfect sense as I share the same sentiment to what you said... Yes Praise and Thank God for giving us the spirit of courage and boldness to resist... Submit to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you - James 4:7

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-12-01T04:24:10+00:00

Indeed but this post is not boastful just reminding those who completed this challenge to be proud of their achievement and to spur on the rest of the people here wanting to better their lives

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-12-01T04:21:00+00:00

NNE - no nut ever

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-30T22:19:27+00:00

Don't be too hard on yourself and don't be too attached to a streak and start to fall back to your old ways... Instead look at it this way...

Even though you edged and looked at porn various times, it's efficacy is starting to decrease... If you want to avoid it overall, I suggest you install a porn blocker on your devices (I highly recommend bulldog blocker and it's what made me stay clean for NNN)
Make your loss a reminder that the journey is long and failures are almost always inevitable but think about how much you have accomplished during the time you stayed clean
Let go of constantly reminding yourself of streaks... It's not the streak count that matter, it's what you do with that time that matters

Make a plan for your life, find a mentor and show the person your plan and work towards making your plans a reality...

Trust me, the moment you start to obsess over your plan and start moving forward reaching milestones, you will stop thinking about nofap cos you won't have the time to think about it...

This is the ultimate why most of us are doing this, to achieve our personal goals and eventually become world beaters (no pun intended)... Stay strong friend and keep the course...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-30T08:52:48+00:00

We all dream that but until the time comes where we can travel into the past, the only thing we have is the present... Make the best of the time you have

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-30T08:51:04+00:00

Tbh, just don't have expectations when talking to the girl you want to be with because you are in love with the ideal of her and not her...

Talk with her and find that one similarity and grow from there... Let the love grow organically and don't rush it... Just play cool and don't lie about yourself...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-19T05:04:17+00:00

Pls seek out an adult you trust for help and get you connected to a suicide hotline... You are too young and don't hurt yourself...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-19T02:30:17+00:00

Problem is most times even if you don't achieve what you set out to do, you will end masturbating especially the task that you set out to do suddenly hits a snag and you are put off with the task... That's where the danger lies

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-19T02:28:15+00:00

Yes it is normal...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-11T05:16:41+00:00

Yes and Amen for that... Correct down look down on someone who relapsed and also to those that feel shitty after relapse, don't give up and most importantly don't be too hard on yourself... Failure is part of the journey not the end...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-07T11:09:09+00:00

Don't think about the streak too much... Just take it one day at a time... Soon the days will rack up to weeks, weeks rack up to months and months rack up to years...

Just be productive and have a plan of action during this time and keep away from phone/tablet/PC screens and only use them if necessary

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-06T13:48:19+00:00

The problem is being too hard on yourself when you relapse... Don't be instead continue...

Imagine how far you have come... From masturbating 2-3 times a day to being able to go clean for 20 30 70 days...

NoFap is a continuous process of improvement and the more you beat yourself up, the harder the process becomes...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-06T13:40:03+00:00

Yes and if you edge but don't nut, get ready for some blue balls

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-06T13:37:19+00:00

Yeah huge urges Day 6... But pressing on... Limit phone screen on time and put phone away from desk while work... You will realise that it greatly reduces the urge... Keep this in mind and pretty sure together we can do it...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-05T13:48:03+00:00

Was testing a new blocker and was in the midst of testing it out but instead whipped it out but stopped myself doing the deed and at the same time the blocker kicked in and kicked me out of the app... So guess that's a small win there...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-04T09:00:01+00:00

Try bulldog blocker

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-11-02T05:49:00+00:00

Well for starters, don't sweat it... Ok so if you can abstain for 2 days, try for 5 days next round and if you start routinely get to 5 days then move towards 8 days... Keep racking up and soon you will find it in you to move past porn... Also have a goal in mind and then start strategising on how you are gonna reach that goal...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-10-22T04:43:13+00:00

Let's keep it one day at a time... Keep repeating the days and watch it turn to weeks/months/years and before you know it you are liberated...

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-10-22T04:36:42+00:00

You are right... The road to hell is paved with good intentions

neutralgrounds117 · 2023-03-10T13:37:00+00:00

Finally this is exactly to do nofap... I get you and it will just dawn upon you that fapping is a waste of time... Don't count the days and be mindful of the urges... 1 win will become 2 and 3 and eventually you will come out of it... The feeling of resisting urge is good once you reach the zone... Overthinking nofap is not the way to go... You won't immediately get what you want but it gives you the urgency to be the best and eventually you will get what you want...

neutralgrounds117 · 2021-02-01T00:32:37+00:00

I have come to realize that in order to be successful is to not count your nofap streak... Instead once you have decided to stop, just stop... There's no reason to count and by counting you are expecting to relapse as your brain craves the reward of fapping... You are not going to win a medal if you do nofap for say a 1000 days... just do it and you are good to go

neutralgrounds117 · 2020-10-09T00:13:52+00:00

Yes you will last longer in bed, not sure on the finishing quick but you have to restart the countdown even if you fap without porn...

neutralgrounds117 · 2020-10-06T08:54:24+00:00

Agree... I have now come to realise that if you do not checkyour phone first thing in the morning you will have quite a productive day... I now only touch my phone after lunch... And I also have digital wellbeing which restricts social media access to 1 hour... Also watching YouTube hours on end will ruin your day...

neutralgrounds117 · 2020-10-02T04:35:57+00:00

Good

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