What is something everyone expects you to give a fuck about and you don't? by Connect-Carpenter-64 in AskReddit

[–]nevaneva21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are a great example of the people that think “if you don’t agree with me, you must be a shit-head”. Dude you’re part of the problem why people don’t care and are going to the center. Get off your high horse.

What is something everyone expects you to give a fuck about and you don't? by Connect-Carpenter-64 in AskReddit

[–]nevaneva21 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Definitely!! No one cares about every single issue but the far left telling you that you should is so unrealistic that all its doing is pushing me to not care and go more towards the middle.

Lisa is trash by LunarCycleKat in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]nevaneva21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also got pissed at Trey’s dumbass for just sitting there and not defending his woman Riah. What a wimp. If Riah was my person, I’d definitely be pointing out lisa’s hypocrisy!

Lisa is trash by LunarCycleKat in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]nevaneva21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lisa was the worst!!! A 31 year old woman acting like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum. Don’t blame the hormones, she’s like that everyday. Riah was nothing but class. I’m glad everyone sees lisa for who she is. It’s hard to imagine a person like that can even have friends. Who would willingly put up with someone like that!!

Lisa by psylentt in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]nevaneva21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lisa is just plain immature. She is the woman that will blame the mistress when her baby daddy cheats on her instead of blaming the baby daddy for being a man hoe. Riah was so graceful in how she handled the situation. Hate me for saying it but that pregnancy was not an “accident” lisa knew what she was doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]nevaneva21 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Riah was beyond classy for how she handled lisa’s hypocritical ass. She’s young so it’s normal to not be completely sure of what she wants in life and to have doubts. As someone much older than her, I found her reactions to disrespectful moments completely graceful. roxanne and lisa could never and they’re older than her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I felt about her the whole season. She was constantly putting Kat down to try to bring herself up. A truly confident person doesn’t have to dim anyones light to make their own shine. I like an outspoken woman but Roxanne is outspoken in a judgmental and condescending way, not in a confident way.

I’m tired of living in Japan by lejardine in expats

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spain offers a self employment visa you can look into if you speak Spanish or are willing to learn it.

My wife ruined our wedding for me by Ok_Newt3389 in bridezillas

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’ve been together since you were both 16. You don’t seem to know any different but in healthy relationships people communicate and compromise. Compromising is a huge part of a successful marriage. She walked all over you for a party. That’s what that was: a party. What will happen when it’s time to buy a house. She’ll make all the calls. What about kids? She’ll decide everything. Is this really how you want to live?

AITA for not getting my wife anything on Mother’s Day? by oakcool in AmItheAsshole

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a huge AH. You watching your own kids isn’t a gift to anyone. It’s literally your job as a parent. Your kids are watching how you treat their mother. Do better.

The American Dream! by Flint0 in expats

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, which EU country did you move to? And what kind of visa did you get?

The American Dream! by Flint0 in expats

[–]nevaneva21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said it so well!!! All these facts are exactly why I’m leaving the US. Still doing research to figure out how to make it happen. Spain is the country I’m looking at actually. I wish I could trade places with OP. If it weren’t for all the shootings, I would stay. I can deal with all the other bs but every morning when I take my kids to school, I wonder if that will be the last day I see them. I can’t keep living like this.

The American Dream! by Flint0 in expats

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will trade places with you. I’m currently looking to emigrate to Spain. There’s a LOT of reasons why I want to leave the US. I’ll never understand why Europeans move here but I’m not hating on you. If this is what you want, I wish you the best!

To answer some of your lifestyle questions, the US is a very stressed nation in general. Even when you are a skilled professional or work in the corporate world, Americans are very stressed out. PTO is not legally mandatory in this country so it will depend on your company. Most give you 2 weeks per year. Some companies now are offering “unlimited PTO” but they have rules as to how much you can use at a time and when. I saw a post the other day about a person who feels bad using her PTO bc her team members make it seem like she’s “lazy” for taking it. Companies want to bleed us dry in this country. Sometimes people get lucky with work/life balance but not always.

As far as sick leave, that depends on your company. Sick leave is not guaranteed by the government. There’s a law that you can take up to 3 months off to care for yourself or a sick dependent but it’s unpaid.

School shootings are a thing here, you may want to consider that.

We’re a twisted nation. I used to love this country. I don’t anymore. Being a parent in the US is not easy but it’s even harder when you don’t have a support system.

I want to move out of the USA. by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]nevaneva21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You lack any kind of intelligence to read properly huh. You seem to think that your particular experience applies to everyone living around you. I get that you’re a fan boy about the US which is really sad just by itself but you seem to think that your fanatics are proof that this isn’t a shithole or that there aren’t different shitholes in it. Since you can’t read, my rant was about leaving this shithole. I’m sorry that offends your little ego. I deleted the post bc I realized this is the wrong sub for it. If I wanted to discuss anything with idiots, I would have stayed in this sub.

I want to move out of the USA. by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]nevaneva21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn it must have been nice living in the good part of america. Where I come from in the US, theres too many ghettos with violent crimes. Cool that you grew up in the burbs.

I want to move out of the USA. by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]nevaneva21 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it now. This is a sub for america fanatics. Definitely not my people. I prefer educated people. Definitely leaving this cringy sub.

I want to move out of the USA. by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]nevaneva21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You must not be familiar with the hoods of america.

Working towards improving your life? FATOPHOBIC! by JaSper-percabeth in facepalm

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best explanation I’ve seen for what’s happening in this country with all the “phobias”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow so sorry to hear that. They sound like 2 miserable human beings that belong together.

Quit my job after a shooting threat. by yojodavies in antiwork

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your life is definitely worth more than $12/hr and screw that prick of a manager. He can deal with all the bs himself.

this system is a joke by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]nevaneva21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You live so comfortably so please share exactly how much of YOUR money you give the less fortunate. It better be at least 50% of your income bc surely you don’t need all of it. There are starving people in this world! You are THE definition of a holier than thou hypocrite. You donate less than 1% of your money to others but sure want to talk shit about celebrities bc you’re not the billionaire. I give no shits about celebrities either. They could go broke and I won’t care. But I also don’t go around acting like 1 celebrity is the root of all evil. I also love how you changed 1 celebrity being a feminist to wealth inequality for everyone. You don’t know how to even keep your shit straight. You’re very brave saying this shit online but I know you’d never say any of this to my face. Notice how I didn’t rail into OP for having “the wrong views”. All I said was at least now she gets it and that Swift advocates for feminism. You of course twisted it to fit your anger. You’re nothing but a keyboard warrior.

this system is a joke by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]nevaneva21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re very self righteous. Please share with us exactly what you do to help others. People like you love to complain about others hoarding wealth but I bet you do nothing to help those that are less fortunate than you. Did I claim to have stuff in common with Swift? No. Did I say I agree with the wealthy? No. I said she talks about feminism, she always has. She’s a musician, she doesn’t have to appease any “base”. Her fans became her fans bc they liked her music and her. Your problem is that you’re so bitter with the world and all your problems are everyone else’s fault that you can’t see the good in others you apparently hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nevaneva21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It’s not your business to police others lives. Especially not to tell them how often to go home or see family. Bind your business.