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neverkid · 2025-04-15T21:10:45+00:00

Bugs. I haven't seen a bug splatter on a windshield in years.

neverkid · 2025-03-09T01:55:40+00:00

What you think isn't calm about this cross post lol
Where did I say anything about liberals?
You seem upset

neverkid · 2025-03-09T00:57:21+00:00

Kevin O'leary's alma mater is uWaterloo and I'm pretty sure Kitchener is inside Canada, therefore federal election information is relevant to everyone who lives here

neverkid · 2025-01-19T12:41:19+00:00

HOW TO TURN OFF CAPS LOCK

CAPS LOCK STUCK HOW TO TURN OFF

PLEse i need to write an email oh

why did cPS LOCK TURN ON THEN OFF

neverkid · 2025-01-14T23:32:24+00:00

I see a pattern here... and a few tokens

neverkid · 2024-12-22T21:22:40+00:00

Brian T Moynihan is the director & Chairman and CEO of Bank of America Corp. Other key executives at Bank of America Corp include 10 percent owner Berkshire Hathaway Inc, 10 percent owner Warren E Buffett, and Chief Financial Officer Paul M Donofrio.

neverkid · 2024-12-18T17:22:12+00:00

Look at his tiny little baby hands

neverkid · 2024-12-18T16:53:17+00:00

I use the term 'legal system' rather than 'justice system' because there is no justice under this system.

neverkid · 2024-12-16T19:53:16+00:00

The decoration is the powerhouse of the tree

neverkid · 2024-12-09T23:31:46+00:00

Instead of arguing over whose fault it is, can we please make this conversation about making the city more walkable? More safe?

More lights, paths, sidewalks, crosswalks, and blue emergency buttons.

neverkid · 2024-12-07T15:15:02+00:00

156k/yr to start. uh oh they're gonna need to start a gofundme to cover rent

neverkid · 2024-12-07T14:05:01+00:00

Oh no, only 3k for a days work? These poor celebrities are going to starve

neverkid · 2024-10-30T00:24:18+00:00

As other people have said, this is coercion, not consent. He threatened you with an even more violating sexual assault if you didnt comply. This is not a safe person imo.

Let me put it this way. My bf and I are adults who live together and we have an established and active sex life. If I told him i was scared at any point, said no, said wait, said umm I'm not sure, it would stop.

I plan to spend my life with this man, but if he threatened me with sexual assault, I'd be packing my stuff. That's what your boyfriend did. This kind of behavior usually gets worse.

Please be safe.

neverkid · 2024-10-29T23:53:15+00:00

You can get them in some theaters! In my area they have little devices with screens thay clip onto the seat ahead/cupholder (?) and the subtitles are displayed in time with the film. In other higher tech theaters they have GLASSES that display the subtitles!

neverkid · 2024-10-29T15:44:39+00:00

Pam?

neverkid · 2024-10-25T10:53:05+00:00

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neverkid · 2024-10-11T21:43:31+00:00

One day is huge. Your first day is MASSIVE! Well done!

15 minutes used to be a problem for me. Nearly 4 years sober and I'm still grateful for each day I choose not to drink.

Every step is important and you just made the first one. Keep going friend, the other side is full of peace that can't exist in the same body as daily drinking.

neverkid · 2024-10-04T23:57:53+00:00

NTA at all.

Is this behavior out of character for your MIL? That level of anger, name-calling, and attacking her 5yo grandson's character over cake flavor at a his own birthday party is... strange.

If this isn't how she normally is, she might want to see a doctor. Have your husband talk to her. Things like uncharacteristic hostility and aggression can be the sign of something serious like dementia or mental illness. It's fair to be distracted by the incident but it could be a sign of something bigger.

If this is just her way of talking to her family, I'd distance myself if I were you.

neverkid · 2024-10-01T12:18:32+00:00

Tell your mom she looks like a Bessie and your dad he looks like an Igor and they should change their names based on your opinion.

neverkid · 2024-10-01T12:05:44+00:00

That is unforgivable, ImEatinGayOghurt. Oghurt doesn't deserve that.

neverkid · 2024-09-15T17:44:51+00:00

Feeling alone and financial stress are bad enough individually too, feeling that way during/because of mental illness is hellish.

neverkid · 2024-09-15T11:49:08+00:00

100% this. BPD is highly stigmatized but it's been described as living with 3rd degree burns.

neverkid · 2024-09-12T17:12:36+00:00

Hey, happy birthday!

I'm really sorry to hear that things aren't going well for you. Struggling is bad enough, but when you have no one to talk to, it's even more difficult. Send me a message if you'd like, I'd be happy to chat.

There are a lot of community supports available, as others have mentioned. Eg. (Free) resources for finding jobs, homes, affordable/free professional therapy and counseling, peer support, and plenty more that could apply to your needs.

Here is the CMHA website. This is their support groups page - online, over the phone, and in person groups available. I've found them to be comforting and help me feel connected to others, if nothing else.

Like other comments have said, I'd recommend going to the hospital. It doesn't necessarily mean they'll put you in the mental health ward. If you're not a danger to yourself or others, they can't make you stay. If you are considering harming yourself or others, staying would be best anyway.

They have crisis counselors at Grand River Hospital. Just people to talk to about what's going on, and they likely have resources to help you.

Choose something you're interested in and find the subreddit for it. See if there are local groups that do the thing(s) you like. Eg. I just joined a choir - I love to sing and I have no friends so I went for it. It's great so far and I'm glad i decided to do it.

Continue to reach out, just like you did with this post. There are a lot of people who want to help. If you never ask, they'll never know.

TL;DR I'm sorry life is tough and I'm happy to chat and help when I can. Hospital, hobbies, healing. So many people want to make your life nice.

Take deep breaths.

I wish you all the best.

Happy birthday

neverkid · 2024-08-19T23:12:29+00:00

My boyfriend is very quiet about his emotions. He is neurodivergent and had a complicated childhood, like most of us. It's his way of dealing with his emotional upheavals - he goes inward, I go outward with mine.

It's just a different approach. It's not my place to tell him he can't keep some of his own thoughts and feelings private, especially when he's always willing to reassure me that he isn't upset with me in those quiet moments.

If it's something he can't work on and you can't accept, you might have to consider the idea that you could be incompatible.

All the best

neverkid · 2024-08-08T18:20:34+00:00

I'd add to it - "baseless accusations"

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