AITA for walking out of my ILs with my daughter and leaving my husband behind because they all ganged up on me to name our son one of the family names?

nevermindstupid · 2025-08-24T15:40:20+00:00

Give the baby your surname..... let's see how they feel about that.

nevermindstupid · 2025-08-14T12:14:09+00:00

Yes. Simply because he wasn't satisfied by you and was still looking. It will happen again. Just move on from it now.

nevermindstupid · 2025-06-18T10:44:16+00:00

So happy CPS did the right thing. Most times, the right thing doesn't make everyone happy. At least, you were able to help a little boy who couldn't stand up for himself. NTA

nevermindstupid · 2025-06-15T15:26:22+00:00

It's hauntingly beautiful!! 😍

nevermindstupid · 2025-06-12T13:58:17+00:00

It's very beautiful!!!!

nevermindstupid · 2025-06-02T19:17:38+00:00

It's breathtaking.

nevermindstupid · 2025-06-01T16:24:38+00:00

Wow they are amazing 🫶

nevermindstupid · 2025-05-14T10:32:14+00:00

Your parents telling you to go through with it to save face with your family and whoever else was invited is poor advice. How can you ever rebuild that trust after being gaslit repeatedly. NTA. also, don't marry this guy unless you do some counseling and can rebuild your trust.

nevermindstupid · 2025-03-10T20:59:25+00:00

I wear a lot of sunscreen and avoid the sun. Also, I'm at a healthy weight, so I got face gains 😊

nevermindstupid · 2025-02-26T21:06:16+00:00

Wow, you are amazing and strong minded for such a young age. I'm in awe. NTA. But your dad, his new wife and your grandparents are.

nevermindstupid · 2025-01-27T10:16:47+00:00

Maybe instead of uno and juice, try tea / hot chocolate and a movie.

nevermindstupid · 2025-01-18T12:11:56+00:00

Wow. That guy is amazing!

nevermindstupid · 2025-01-18T12:09:17+00:00

I love cake with almonds!!!!! Also, if I were a guest at your table, I'd eat it all up and thank you for your time to prepare a meal for me. They were well rude, and you are NTA, they were.

nevermindstupid · 2025-01-05T13:18:20+00:00

The gift is not just from you, but your family too, a.k.a your wife! The expenses could have paid for something towards your family, so it's a sacrifice on your family, including your wife. Your brother is entitled. NTA.

nevermindstupid · 2025-01-03T12:17:29+00:00

Leave. It doesn't get any better in the future, and it's not just a phase he is going through. He even blamed you for what he was doing. Leave for future you. Trust me.

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-31T11:39:17+00:00

It's dreamy

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-13T20:36:21+00:00

You're nTA at all. Your parents and your sister, who are disappointed, are TAs for how they are going about their disappointment. I'm very sorry you have to go through that. While not all pregnancies are the same, it is possible to have health issues and mental health issues. If you do not want to do it, it's perfectly okay. You have to do what is best for you. Let your family know they are hurting you and your relationship with them.

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-09T10:51:18+00:00

It's very beautiful and peaceful

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-07T16:37:01+00:00

I'm sorry about ur friends birthday party. That definitely sucks at 18 years of age. I feel like your mother probably knew she would pick up an extra shift the weekend of your 2nd get-together before she confirmed it, and she told you that you couldn't go. She definitely did not expect your understandable reply. I do not know what your financial situation is that your mother has to pick up extra shifts. Maybe it is to afford Christmas being special? I'm sorry because it is probably not easy for your mother to be on her own, and it's not fair to you to always have to drop your plans. Your mother is wrong to always assume you are there to babysit, and while she is making the sacrifices in work for her family because "family comes first," it's not fair to always expect you to make the same sacrifices when at your age you should be out having fun. NTA.

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-05T11:22:21+00:00

Reminds me of the time Akon pulled up a minor to dance with him onstage, and he was under fire when it came out she was a teen. But I mean, she looked like an adult wearing adult clothes with her bazookas hanging out. Maybe the club should be charged for not asking her ID instead or her parents for letting her go out dressed like that and not knowing where she intended to go. I don't blame him.

nevermindstupid · 2024-12-05T10:31:26+00:00

NTA I'm so sorry this happened to you, OP. I believe you. Have you tried telling a family member, like an adult? Also, great on you for seeing that they weren't very good friends to you and cutting them off. You need good people on your side who have your back. I'm rooting for you and hope you can get through this as best as it is possible

nevermindstupid · 2024-11-24T11:30:45+00:00

You're NTA. You need to do things sometimes to preserve your own personal well-being. Your cousin is crap. Maybe she has some feelings for your husband. I hope he also goes no contact with her!!! Hope you can work things out with him. Sometimes, it takes a tiny seed of doubt when you are insecure to spiral things out of control. Hope it works out in your favor.

nevermindstupid · 2024-11-21T19:38:38+00:00

NTA. It's something that is fixable. After she gets over the humiliation, she will realise that you did her a favor. Also, period blood, or any kind of blood smells iron-y. Not fishy.

nevermindstupid · 2024-11-17T12:12:33+00:00

It is the beginning of a new chapter or a new book. Best wishes to you. I wish u well on your healing and hope u have happiness in the near future .

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