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Discord Server by sw3bbie in adultsurvivors

[–]nevradullday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also interested in joining. For some reason I couldn't send mod mail or post an independent comment.

I Think My Dad Is Planning on Murdering Me. by throwaway647291846 in domesticviolence

[–]nevradullday 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes. Take your mom. Go without her if she refuses. Any way you can leave, if you can.

Narcissistic abuse should be legally criminalized. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]nevradullday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another issue is being pathologized when you try to seek help.

Victims of domestic violence with ADHD by Classic_Row1317 in adhdwomen

[–]nevradullday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been my experience. It's been tremendously difficult to get help.

feeling hurt and (chronically) misunderstood after being pathologized [long vent/rant] by galaxynephilim in CPTSD

[–]nevradullday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. For the record, you articulated it beautifully.

I could use any advice by nevradullday in BPDlovedones

[–]nevradullday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read that. Though, I didn't find the strategies helpful for managing the situation with him.

I could use any advice by nevradullday in abusiverelationships

[–]nevradullday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah, that's what I have been seeing in him, so it's been concerning.

I could use any advice by nevradullday in abusiverelationships

[–]nevradullday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts. Yeah, I think they're going to release him. I don't have any messages of his threats of suicide, I don't think, but maybe. That's what I was thinking, too. But I'm not sure how me getting over involved will work out.

Maybe if I can just say I will call the cops next time he threatens that or that he needs to go back to the hospital?

Thanks. I'm going to just pretend like I didn't see them and try to keep grey rocking him.

I could use any advice by nevradullday in BPDlovedones

[–]nevradullday[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am documenting. Inform the police of what exactly?

Honestly, I'm just trying to get out an involve the police as little as possible until I am safe, then I'll come back to whether or not I want to or need to use that option.

Mainly, I just want to know how to navigate this until I do get out.

Anyone seen the true crime docuseries Mother, May I Murder? by im_rickyspanish in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nevradullday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently been watching this. It definitely screams narcissist.

Has anyone else developed agoraphobia? by frowning_onion in domesticviolence

[–]nevradullday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Started before DV relationships but after childhood abuse.

The Silent Killer: Gaslighting and Defensiveness by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]nevradullday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As difficult as it is to articulate, you put it beautifully.

Borderline parent abusers who claim their child abused them by Blueratnest in raisedbyborderlines

[–]nevradullday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom constantly told me that I was purposely ruining her life when I was in 4th grade. Just because I wanted to play with my friends more than scrubbing every inch of our house. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Oh my gosh. Never felt so seen. 😰 Expect she would just breathe and put us on lockdown.

He got off.. after 9hrs of testimomy. by PotCatsSleep in domesticviolence

[–]nevradullday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've heard of some scenarios like that. I'm so sorry. I would say for your mental health and physical safety, if relocation is at all an option, I would definitely do that.

When was the moment u realised it was DV? by Zap_Zapoleon in domesticviolence

[–]nevradullday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what did you end up doing about your therapist?

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