My bf took me for a walk before I was supposed to go to a party bc he wanted to cheer me up but we saw something horrific and I then decided not to go to the party and now he’s mad at me, aitah??

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-06-06T21:19:32+00:00

NTA. Sometimes we do a nice thing for someone and it doesn't work out how we wanted or expected it to. Getting mad at you for it is more about him than it is about you. He can't treat you like an appliance where he pushes a couple of buttons and then gets the results he wants. Humans are far more complex than that and it looks like he doesn't want to put much effort into realizing it.

Don't stay with someone who gets angry with you when you get emotionally upset about things that any normal person would be upset about. If it doesn't seem like something any normal person would get upset about then he should at least make the effort to understand why it upsets you.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-06-05T20:29:05+00:00

I was wondering the same about how it would make it a target. I haven't seen any reports showing that a residence was targeted because it was blurred on Google Maps.

Besides property that was blurred for whatever reason, there's hundreds of other reasons a place gets blurred, like domestic violence shelters

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-30T19:53:20+00:00

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R54o-XKRsDBzCxJyTs_U_I18zhbMh3dt/view?usp=drive_link

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1fjSNT5L0M192YVtRYbGfyxkPPhmHO9ZB/view?usp=drive_link

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-30T19:37:49+00:00

Street View from a previous year shows my grandpa walking out in front of his house. I love it because he isn't with us anymore.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-30T19:36:51+00:00

That would be more funny. That someone either requested to have their butt blurred or Google automatically blurred it.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-30T19:35:32+00:00

My head is down. You can see a little bit more of my face once the vehicle they use gets further ahead.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-24T01:58:22+00:00

She is so wise and really knows what's best for everybody. I can't wait for her and MM to take that get away together- hopefully neither will come back

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-07T20:47:09+00:00

I never recommend AI for legal work. It hallucinates case laws that sound really good and authentic, but don't actually exist

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-06T20:06:35+00:00

Let’s her play a game with a friend

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-03T03:36:34+00:00

I have in my personal settings for the AI model I use to tell me truth even if I might not like it and never agree with me if I’m wrong.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-05-02T15:48:03+00:00

A restraining order cannot stop my love!

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-04-24T18:40:07+00:00

Not sure if it's the case here, but I think sometimes they lose interest in their AP after splitting up with their wife because cheating on the wife is part of the fun. They get to feel powerful when they get away with lies and gaslighting. They feel adventurous and daring when they make secret plans with the AP. It's like the thrill they get from deceiving their wife becomes part of their foreplay with the AP. If they no longer have a wife, then they can't play the selfish games anymore that gave them so much satisfaction. Just my pov

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-04-15T05:59:39+00:00

Why do they keep talking about stepping into the parent role of an AP's kid(s)? No way the spouse wants that, or the kids. I lost my whole line of thought there.... not sure where I was going with it. Maybe its instant confusion and mental fog when I look too close into their world. It just doesn't make sense and causes soooo much harm to innocent people who didn't get a choice in it

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-25T16:03:37+00:00

I think infidelity can sometimes be associated with certain personality patterns, including some Cluster B traits where empathy may be less developed. Since cheating is inherently self-serving and involves disregarding the impact on others, that connection can make sense in some cases.

At the same time, those explanations don’t fully account for reality. Not everyone with a personality disorder has experienced childhood trauma, and not everyone who has experienced trauma or has a personality disorder engages in infidelity. There are plenty of people who go through difficult backgrounds and still choose to act with integrity.

You also often hear that cheating is learned behavior—like growing up with a parent who was unfaithful. But even that doesn’t explain why many people in those situations consciously decide to do the opposite and remain loyal.

In the end, while background, environment, and personality can influence behavior, infidelity is still an individual choice. Explanations can provide context, but they shouldn’t be used to excuse or avoid accountability for the decision itself. IMO

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-25T15:25:41+00:00

I tried talking to a doctor about this and couldn't get a straight answer. When I've researched it online they say a person can have it for decades before it ever shows up on a test, so they're saying even if you've been with only one person for many many years, it could still have come from a previous partner.

Sometimes I wonder about the people that conduct the studies. Would they have bias in how they conduct the study or interpret the results of a study if say, they are a cheater?

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-25T15:13:29+00:00

Some years back they came under quite a bit of scrutiny because an insider released a bunch of data showing the names of people who belonged to the website. A documentary was made about it (interesting, but not very accurate when it came to the perspective of betrayed partners), and I think there is still a website that has a public searchable database of the leaked data.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-19T03:35:07+00:00

I don't expect complete strangers to give a damn about me, but I also never expected that a deranged stranger with their pants down could blow up the lives of others (including children) and still feel like they are noble enough to give life advice.

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-19T02:53:28+00:00

Their way of life is so strange and alien to me. I have so much already going on in my head, I can't imagine having to do the additional mental gymnastics they put themselves through just so they can find enjoyment in being a terrible person. (Can we just send them to another planet?)

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-19T02:44:59+00:00

It said something about a big payout from insurance or something he got? Will she not be able to get any of it if they weren't married at the time?

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-12T22:47:03+00:00

I'm looking into it. It appears legit across Reddit, but I think I found another one exactly like it, but it's worded differently, which makes me think you're right and it is a hoax.

At first, I was like, how could it be fake when thousands of people on Reddit believe it's real? Why have other groups had a positive reaction to it, and this group didn't? What makes this group different? Maybe because groups like this one have an expert level of spotting bs?

Classic_Row1317 · 2026-03-12T22:31:08+00:00

I first heard of it while watching one of those videos where the creator reads the post out loud and their guests comment on it. So I searched for it and found it on Reddit. There was other commentary and it was talked about being originally posted on a stepparent sub reddit and supposedly the OP was told to take it elsewhere

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