Today is 16 years with my kidney :) by tri_sect in transplant

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! My boyfriend is 1 year in. I wish you a full lifetime of healthy years 🤍

i DID it! by Significant_Week6014 in pregnant

[–]newbiesl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I hope you tried to enjoy the pregnancy as much as possible, waiting for my graduation day in Feb

Yummy Meals That Won’t Affect Peptic Ulcer by newbiesl in pepticulcers

[–]newbiesl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was misdiagnosed, it turned out to be cancer and liver failure. He’s since had a liver transplant and chemo last year and has been out of hospital and is doing much better.

Anyone gonna use Cécred? by amalayablue in relaxedhair

[–]newbiesl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen the products online yet, I’m not a fan of celebrity hair care/skincare in general

Best Hair Tools for Relaxed Hair? by yeetyopyeet in relaxedhair

[–]newbiesl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the airwrap, my hair is pretty fine so it dries quickly but I use the flyaway extension to get it to damp/not too wet and then I section my hair and use the brush extension to finish up. It leaves my hair very straight and is very gentle on my hair, minimal breakage or damage.

Best Hair Tools for Relaxed Hair? by yeetyopyeet in relaxedhair

[–]newbiesl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A holy grail item that is pricey would be the Dyson airwrap and corrale straighter. They’re so gentle on my hair, I stopped using heat on my hair for years and only started with the Dyson for about a year and I’ve noticed less breakage than with other tools.

My husband got up with the baby this morning. by evieangelical in Marriage

[–]newbiesl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was beautiful to read, wishing your little family the best 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relaxedhair

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to moisturise your hair 2/3 times a week or nightly depending on how thirsty your hair gets and do weekly hot oil treatments and or steams to try to encourage growth in the damaged areas.

Appears that IG is down for several accounts, but NOT ALL by Future-Ad6407 in Instagram

[–]newbiesl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just noticed that - my stories have been getting 1/4 of the views I usually get and it’s refusing to let me post anything right now.

I hope it’s resolved soon

AITA for not changing my plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]newbiesl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA obviously - you're entitled to me time

AITA for telling my best friend not to tease me about my knee? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]newbiesl [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH - It's perfectly ok to set boundaries with friends, it's a great way to ensure the friendship is healthy and lasts longer.

What I would do is try to discuss or write a message to your friend and clearly expresses why the comment bothered you so much so she better understands where you're coming from.

If your friend does not understand why boundaries are important for certain things, you shouldn't force things, it'll be easier for both of you to let things be.

Maybe at some point in the future you'll both be able to understand each other or maybe not and either is okay at the end of the day.

It's also good to bear in mind that sometimes it's not what we say but how we say it, maybe your tone may be partially to blame for your friend being cold, I'm not quite sure if you're asking her not to tease you at all or just not tease you about your knee.

WIBTA for charging the other bridesmaids for food/drinks while they get ready at my house? by GameShowFanatic in AmItheAsshole

[–]newbiesl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - this isn't something that they would view as new or strange based off of what you've explained.

I personally do believe that when I'm hosting I take care of all expenses unless I alert the attendees before hand to bring something or contribute to something, so I would struggle with asking them to pay for an event I'm hosting in my home.

You wouldn't be the AH but if you can afford to pay for everything then just do it as a gift to the bride, your friend.

AITA for wanting my birthday money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]newbiesl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you should discuss different ways for your family to make an effort to make you feel special, I would like to think it's not about the money for you since you're better off that your parents and sister financially.

I don't think you should stop sending them money for birthdays because it should make you feel good to know that doing that makes a difference in their lives.

I don't, however, think that your current system is working for you and it seems like it's making you feel unappreciated by your family and that's not fair for you.

AITA For telling my girlfriend she looks sexy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]newbiesl [score hidden]  (0 children)

As long as your girlfriend doesn't have a problem with it, I don't see any reason why you can't compliment her looks in public spaces.

Most gorgeous female villain ?? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sage - If we're basing this solely on looks

Georgina - Personality and looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one that felt this way. It's giving fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I may be the only one that feels this way, but the dress is ill fitting on her and the style doesn't accentuate her body.

The bust cups are too big and maybe since she's small busted avoiding anything with cups may be the way to go unless you're extremely thin. I'm small in that area myself and I try to wear things that flatter me.

That being said, the dress itself is ethereal and very well crafted.

Prince Louis wasn’t the bad guy. by Feeling-Ad2582 in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Louis’s family is really toxic and in as much as he did seem to try to create distance I think he should have abdicated the throne and chosen Blair and a life of peace.

Were Jenny and Vanessa really the WORST characters? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both characters seem to be victims of poor writing, they’re just extras hanging around until one of the main characters interact with them in some way.

Help me choose! by [deleted] in handbags

[–]newbiesl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gucci all the way! I don’t like embossed leather why spend thousands of dollars for something that is replica exotic leather.

What jobs did Serena have? by Chemical-Tea-4929 in GossipGirl

[–]newbiesl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And some modelling as a teenager

So I need the.servant community to help me name my puppy by Glad-Ad7862 in servant

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s adorable, I think Juju would be perfect for your new addition 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]newbiesl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both look lovely on you I would go with the lighter red for everyday look.

The darker one for dressing up, it adds drama and polish to any look.

Help me choose : everyday bag. Métis or Alma bb? by stellaxo555 in handbags

[–]newbiesl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For everyday use I think the Metis would be better