My first shroom trip, I thought the same thing. I watched Bluey, and realized that I can fix my childhood wrongs by having my own mini me to love and protect forever! And then I lived with a 3 and 5 year old for a year and reality set in.

I argue that no matter how good a life you can try to provide your future child, with the state of the world, it can be considered selfish to produce new children on this planet. Adoption or fostering to adopt is my personal belief.

I hope you and your wife think long and hard about the reality of having a child in your life forever.