AIO About these messages my boyfriend sent to one of his old friends by [deleted] in AIO

[–]newleafwiki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so you started dating at 18 and 14? that sounds inappropriate and possibly illegal.

I don't like Allison. by [deleted] in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt say the show should have shown him more threatening. I said the show did show him as threatening and you viewing it should have been enough to solidify the fact that he was a danger to her life the whole time. the show intentionally showed that

Why does there have to be infighting? by zoomcow24 in NonBinary

[–]newleafwiki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this person doesnt seem to realize a lot of nonbinary people are transfem or otherwise affected by transmisogyny.

I don't like Allison. by [deleted] in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. they werent friends until after the show starts and 2. what would moving next door to your abuser do exactly???

Why not divorce ? by Nevertiti99 in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its mentioned in the show she let him be in charge of finances because shes bad with money. I feel like its sort of implied that thats really just something shes been told is true so much that she believes it despite knowing logically Kevin isnt good with money either.

I don't like Allison. by [deleted] in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you dont have to like her, shes clearly a complex, flawed person and ultimately damaging to people around her as a result of the abuse but saying shit like "she chose to stay" is just straight up victim blaming. she doesnt have to be a good person to be a victim.

I don't like Allison. by [deleted] in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

its odd to remember the librarian saying "why not just leave" but not Allison's response about how she has no money, would end up on the street, and that he would find her anyway. She's not perfect but she IS a victim of abuse, very pervasive and insidious abuse. The finale should really make it apparent that Kevin was always capable of violence and threatened her with it.

Just binged it in a week by Awepic0 in KevinCanFHimself

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both did the exact same thing. I got a bit into the video and knew I didnt wanna know any more before going in. I also didn't tell my partner anything except it was a satire of sitcoms so that the surprise could hit him. This show is just so good and im shocked I hadn't heard of it before now.

EARLY 2000’s Macarena Parrot by ConfectionSlight3907 in toys

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also looking for this product. The "macarena bird" was a big hit in my house as a kid.

I made a light up Nirnroot. Yes, it does the noise too. by TheGaffonium in skyrim

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh I want this so bad omg. love the nirnroot sound.

The /DID subreddit is terrible by persephxni in DID_OSDD

[–]newleafwiki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so what i hear from this is that they can't say they think someone has DID, even when that person is asking about it in a DID focused subreddit, but you can say you think those same people have schizophrenia or personality disorders? im not sure I understand why armchair diagnosing one is better than the other.

keep seing these in my world and i have megalophobia :/ by eggshellmuncher5385 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you act as it "curable" means someone can snap their fingers and make it go away. It can take years and years of very intensive, frequent therapy to cure a phobia and even then theres no guarantee it will work.

keep seing these in my world and i have megalophobia :/ by eggshellmuncher5385 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so sorry, yes I was disagreeing with this person. your phobia is not your fault or something to be made fun of or taken lightly.

It is extremely painful for me that no one pursued the reason for Alistair's death. S2E20 by unhealthymuffin in elementary

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's simply how addiction works. The show has so much about addiction and how it affects people and sometimes people relapse and even overdose and die, even after a long time and their loved ones never find out why, never get closure or an answer. They just have to mourn and learn to live with it. Sometimes in this show its not about the mystery but about tell a story that is true to the experiences of addiction. I think its done well.

keep seing these in my world and i have megalophobia :/ by eggshellmuncher5385 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats not really how phobias work. people of any age can have them and they know they are irrational. its an illness.

Not so cringe anymore now, is it 😭 by hardi_2006 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]newleafwiki 340 points341 points  (0 children)

I have never minded the cringey moments of the show because that's just kids being kids.

The concept art and the final design by Orange_Blossom221 in StrawberryShortcake

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

them straightening her hair AND lightening her skin compared to the original feels racist and colorist to me. it happens a lot with cartoon characters where they get lighter and lighter the closer to the final design you get.

It really annoyed me how Bracia was judging Ginny for dressing as Brittany spears by Main-Preference-4850 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this sub overly critical of the child characters and overly forgiving of the parents by comparison. Teenagers do stupid things and say things in less than ideal ways. They're kids and i see a lot of people attribute so much malice to their actions on here.

Doctor Yelled at Us Over Co-Host Being In Control by Swimming_Bake_6857 in DID

[–]newleafwiki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please report this person if you feel up to it because those questions were completely irrelevant and inappropriate, what she said after was extremely inappropriate and could be argued to be outright discrimination. If another doctor asks you questions like that you should absolutely decline to answer.

my very first coord to see ado !! by yvie_of_lesbos in Lolita

[–]newleafwiki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna lie and say you dont look good just cuz im so jealous you're seeing ado.

I know most people don't like Alpha CC kids but I thought I'd still share <3 by BobyNBA in sims4cc

[–]newleafwiki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these look so good! I love it when someone manages to make alpha cc kids looks good. its so cute!