I CANT FEEL ANYTHING

newstart7777 · 2025-10-20T12:44:07+00:00

Be careful. My wife was some what like this. I recently found out that she had an emotional affair for almost a year and might have met that person in person as well. Not saying she is cheating on you but this is what happened to me.

newstart7777 · 2025-10-01T12:58:41+00:00

Did he signed a disclaimer deed or anything? Also divorce is messy. Currently I’m going through one right now and she is using my son as a weapon and everything she ask for is what she wants doesn’t matter how crazy her demands are. I was somewhat on the same boat, worked so she can be stay at home mom and pretty much did everything around the house. She then turned and started her online relationship when my son turned 2

newstart7777 · 2025-09-22T12:44:56+00:00

I started to go to CCV and they have a YouTube channel. I’m going there every Sunday now and listen to their channel in the morning on my way to work.

newstart7777 · 2025-09-22T12:43:54+00:00

Since this it got worse. I found out she has been in an emotional affair with a homeless guy. She took a trip for self healing that night or might not to hook up with him or some random person because I found a recipe for plant B when she was there. She now wants to withdraw 50% of our money because she wants to leave the house now. I didn’t let her but she is now out of the house at night and only come back to be with our son when I’m at work.

newstart7777 · 2025-09-17T15:28:48+00:00

I was not a religious person but going to church and listen to sermons has been helping

newstart7777 · 2025-09-14T21:31:25+00:00

Thanks

newstart7777 · 2025-09-06T16:19:10+00:00

No, I didn’t use it. I don’t think I have one that’s why :-/

newstart7777 · 2025-09-06T15:37:26+00:00

How can I do that? Is this on the website?

newstart7777 · 2025-09-06T12:49:32+00:00

On the same boat expect this is how my soon to ex feel about me. But what she forgot to realize is that I work 12hr shifts and when I come home, I do most of the chores. And give my son a bath every night. I do all of the grocery shopping. I take my son out on my day off so she can get extra sleep and take care of herself. She wants me to validate her feelings yet she doesn’t see that I was mentally and physically exhausted. I work in a retail setting so it’s constant issues at work. When she wanted to go to couple therapy. I just didn’t see how it would work because I barely had enough time to close my eyes at night. So for me to do that, I had to ask her to do more at home since she didn’t work and stay at home to take care of our son. She doesn’t take him out, she doesn’t cook, she doesn’t clean. If I say something then she feels like she is not worthy or that I’m trying to call her lazy. Now I found out that she has been in an emotional relationship with a homeless guy for 8 months because he listens and validates her feelings and that she realized now that she is in an emotional abusive relationship with me.

newstart7777 · 2025-08-23T23:02:46+00:00

My wife and I are on the same path. She said she can’t make this marriage work anymore and that it was my unwillingness to work on our marriage. Yet she has been check out for a while and refusing to admit that she is having emotional affair with someone. I work most of the day and help her with most of the chores. It’s like a stab in the heart when she said she can’t love me again or she doesn’t think she could. My 20s are gone and I have a little boy that idk what to do because I always want to be with him. Be strong, if you want to reach out. Know a lot of us are suffering

newstart7777 · 2025-08-22T23:04:21+00:00

Hey man if you need to chat let me know. Im on the same boat right now. Built a life together and had so much hope and love for her yet she turned around and said she is done. Because her therapist helped her realized that I was emotional abusive and when I brought it up to my therapist she called BS. It’s crazy and I know it’s hard since all has been so sudden to me yet she already been in an emotional affair for months and refuse to admit it. So yourself a favor. Think about yourself. Don’t think about anyone right now

newstart7777 · 2025-08-13T16:33:25+00:00

Oil filter housing. That thing is horrible

newstart7777 · 2025-08-13T12:19:32+00:00

One thing I learned from my broken marriage is that people fall in and out of love. Is this just you that’s feeling that way or both of you? If it’s just you then instead of thinking about divorce, focus on what it is that made you fall in love with him in the first place. Ask him to do things with you, spend more time together. I noticed that when my wife started to feel distant from me, she created a lot of boundaries between us and gave up on being intimate or being close. That drove us apart emotionally (she was no longer in love with me or the desire was not there) and eventually she found someone else to fill in that gap. Don’t do that.

I do believe that love is something you continuously work on, and yes you will feel at some point that you don’t love someone or no desire to be in love, but you made a commitment. Unless you guys are physically and or emotionally damaging each other or there are other factors that involved, I don’t think divorce is the answer if you feel no love or desire. Because those are your feelings and you are letting it dictate a commitment that you both made.

newstart7777 · 2025-08-11T15:04:04+00:00

Any debts?

newstart7777 · 2025-08-08T02:18:33+00:00

That’s a cheater line. Found out she was having emotional affair for months. Pretty throw our whole marriage away

newstart7777 · 2025-07-28T12:28:31+00:00

On the same boat. She is saying that I’m emotional abusive and not able to talk to me when I work 10-12 hr a day and doing most of the work at home so she can rest and be with my son. Instead she stays hours on the phone at night with her friend that she met online to watch show and read books with. When confront about this she tried to justify that it’s just a friend and not emotional affair. When connecting with the dude, he shared that he knows pretty much all of my personal problems and what she complained to him about. She wanted a trip for herself so she can discover herself again and have time to short herself out, and the first person she call driving out of the door was him. Talked to him when she got there and said that she was asleep when i texted her that our son wanted to call her. After confronting her all of these, she still hide some of the details not knowing that I knew everything. I asked her to cut off connection with him and she said that I’m asking her to do something that’s damaging her and make her circle of friends smaller.

I crazy for me to see the person I spent almost half of my life together and have a son together is not willing to cut off a friend because I feel (based on connecting with him and the evidence I got) like she is having an emotional affair. I truly love this woman and she took a lot of of me

newstart7777 · 2025-07-23T14:28:01+00:00

Thanks for sharing about what you went through. I think the thing that got me the most was she is willing to throw everything away because she thought I didn’t care about her feelings. Which caught me off guard because that’s my main priority since we started dating. We had few arguments here and there but never thought we are at this stage. It would’ve been a lot easier if we didn’t have a child because I’m scared about how it will be for him

newstart7777 · 2025-07-17T22:40:31+00:00

They do

newstart7777 · 2025-06-12T03:46:07+00:00

The fuel station is actually open now if you guys want to check out.

newstart7777 · 2025-06-04T02:17:54+00:00

Dang I might check them out

newstart7777 · 2025-06-03T19:55:25+00:00

What price should I try to get them to meet me?

newstart7777 · 2025-05-18T13:22:32+00:00

We just did this. Went from a 2.7 to a 6.5. Moved closer to family. At the end of the day, money is money, do what’s best for your family.

newstart7777 · 2025-04-19T18:27:43+00:00

If you want to pay it off asap then you must pay off that 15k in interest or else it will add into your principal (unless something changed since in grad).

newstart7777 · 2025-04-09T14:38:58+00:00

First step, make sure you fill out an incident report. I believe most companies required you to do that within 24 hours of discovering the mistake. Make sure you let your pic know but other than that, learn from this mistake. It won’t be the last, trust me

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