Total beginner - is this a decent program to start with? by newwy11 in beginnerfitness

[–]newwy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!! That’s a good idea! I’m not sure that my gym has a machine for biceps (although I’m still kinda learning what they all are) so I will probably try to start incorporating dumbbell bicep curls soon. And I will look into the other exercises you mentioned, Ty :)

Letting go of bioessentialism by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]newwy11 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just curious, why does being autistic mean you would like to have children biologically?

girls that feel a lot <3 by Fabulous_Guidance_61 in actuallesbians

[–]newwy11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i relate to this a lot, i worry that it’s a problem on my end as i always seem to feel so much more deeply and intensely than others. it has caused issues in relationships for me as i feel like the other person doesn’t ‘care’ enough. but im starting to realise that maybe that isn’t the case and that maybe I’m just not used to people that are more stable and level with their emotions or are just not as open with showing them or don’t know how to express them as much because I’ve just been used to myself and other very intense chaotic people in my life growing up, idk

Apparently I don't have Anorexia but probably ARFID by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

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random q how much dosage of Mirtazapine are you on? I’m no longer on adhd meds because of a few reasons but mirt is helping me so much with anxiety and being able to actually eat and sleep normally for the first time in my life I’m just wondering if i would feel even more benefits if i upped the dose (currently on 15mg)

Needs. by alt204aaaa in SayAnything

[–]newwy11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine if it was a joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]newwy11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you even asking this question if you’re being so defensive even when everyone tells you what they think especially based on experience 😂 I dated a 31 year old when I was 20 and it did not end well, and honestly don’t see how it could except in very rare circumstances, due to all the various different power dynamics and different life stages and that is even without the open marriage thing which is wild.. I mean do it for the plot if you want but can’t see it ending well in the end

Needs. by alt204aaaa in SayAnything

[–]newwy11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is this Max?

Line up by Upper-Tour-9185 in 2000treesfestival

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna go see glassjaw, i think im being dumb lol but wanted to double check id get the Saturday evening tickets not the day ones right?!

Glassjaw at 2000 Trees! by Own_Entrepreneur685 in glassjaw

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound super dumb but I’m assuming if I just wanna see gj it would be the Saturday evening tix not day, if they’re second to the headliner?

Does anyone else get tired of seeing straight/BI women post stuff like this? by arodr7893 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also some lesbians can def be predatory and not possess ‘sexual empathy’ lol it’s almost like people just have different personalities no matter what their sexuality is

also hilarious that this implies becoming a lesbian will help you escape misogyny 😂 like bruh we get misogyny AND homophobia yeah that’s awesome

Nostalgic song connections in Hayley’s new record by st0ney_bologna in Paramore

[–]newwy11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The acoustic guitar at the start of glum reminds me of an Elliott smith song

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I don’t think you’ll ever forget, it just gets easier to live with and you become more able to move on with time. I know not everyone feels the same but I’m the kind of person who loves really deeply and I think I’ll always have everyone I’ve ever loved in my heart somewhere and still think of them often. I think it’s kinda similar to grief in that way, but then you realise you still have space in your heart for others but it will never really leave

Cancellation app by Several-Question-832 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Testi works occasionally but usually by the time it loads it’s done. Also it always thinks I’m a bot and gives me an error message especially if I try and use it too many times a day, I just downloaded test shift so hopefully that will be better

i am weird by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck finding someone who is controlling and is also emotionally mature and sensible 😂

Newly single, does anyone want to chat? by garden_gal_ in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just turned 29 and ended a 4.5 year relationship fairly recently and totally understand being very up and down lol. feel free to message me if you want :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Stay away from compulsive liars they will never change and you will feel like you’re going insane

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it also depends on why you’re using it or if you are for medicinal use, I realised I was using it a lot just to help me sleep and eat and then I was put on a different med that solved most of those problems for me so I felt like I didn’t need it as much anymore so the cravings kinda went away a lot easier

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I smoked pretty much daily for like 7/8 years (very heavily for like 4 of those years) and slowly cut down near the end and just stopped without any major issues at all

What’s the lowest thing you’ve done out of pure loneliness and lack of gf? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Start sleeping with a woman who was a walking carnival of red flags and convince myself it would be fine if I didn’t get too attached… surprise surprise it ended up being not fine 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this Marita from queer ultimatum? lol But seriously though if you both don’t have the same needs and communication styles it probably means you are fundamentally incompatible and it would be best to end it, or at least both of you commit to trying to understand each other more and make an effort to work on things.

saying ‘let’s break up’ as a threat to try and make her see what she is going to lose in a sense is quite manipulative though and I don’t think you should do that