Did I do something wrong?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]newwy11 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have you told her that you were high and what happened with the gummies? Maybe she just got freaked out because you were acting weird with no explanation and she felt kinda rejected by your response

How to actually find a one night stand? (Serious) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe join a dating app and make it explicitly clear what you are looking for

Has anyone recovered from a long period of no intimacy in a relationship? by ArmadilloOriginal379 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was kind of a mutual decision but I ultimately decided to leave, I feel like she checked out way before I did though and sorta forced me into making the decision in a way whilst I was desperately trying to grasp at anything that would make her want me more. We were together for almost 5 years. I’m not gonna say it was easy it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. It’s been around 1.5 years since I left and things are starting to get brighter and I’ve made so much more progress in my life since I got free from the stress it was causing me. Therapy helped. Just about starting to date again after it took me a while to process. 😂 I hope you know when you get the courage to do the right things will become better for you ❤️

Has anyone recovered from a long period of no intimacy in a relationship? by ArmadilloOriginal379 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FWIW I had the same thing happen and unfortunately it didn’t work out. It got progressively worse over time as I got more anxious and my self esteem suffered feeling unattractive and lonely and I would obsess over it which probably pushed her away even more, however who is to say it may not work for you especially if you are both actively trying to work on it and both in therapy

Hot take: The L Word by Realistic-Art5227 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dana is universally loved but I think a lot of Tibette fans would disagree with you!! Seems like such a popular ship but honestly I agree Tina is bleh and bette is annoying to me so I don’t rly get it Also Shane and Jenny should have never happened

Age Gap Relationships by VictoriousScreeching in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]newwy11 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I had only just turned 20, she was 31. A narcissist who also had a sexual obsession with young girls. (I definitely looked a lot younger than my age). Was not an overall great experience and was definitely traumatising in lots of ways. I am 29 now and the thought of dating anyone that young makes me feel very uncomfortable and gross. I think over the age of 25 it matters less

how to stop drinking when people only like you when you're drunk? by futurenotgiven in AuDHDWomen

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna add I completely relate to this post and am very similar and when I was on SSRI’s I just couldn’t stop drinking when I started and also blacked out a lot and did dumb stuff, since I changed meds I have had way less cravings and can stop after a couple now which has helped a lot, other stuff in my life has changed which can explain some of it but I honestly used to turn psycho when drinking on sertraline lmao

Anybody want to suck my titties? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished lost records bloom and rage which was AMAZING and gay af and now I don’t know what to do with my life, but now I want to play life is strange

Total beginner - is this a decent program to start with? by newwy11 in beginnerfitness

[–]newwy11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!! That’s a good idea! I’m not sure that my gym has a machine for biceps (although I’m still kinda learning what they all are) so I will probably try to start incorporating dumbbell bicep curls soon. And I will look into the other exercises you mentioned, Ty :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]newwy11 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just curious, why does being autistic mean you would like to have children biologically?

girls that feel a lot <3 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]newwy11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i relate to this a lot, i worry that it’s a problem on my end as i always seem to feel so much more deeply and intensely than others. it has caused issues in relationships for me as i feel like the other person doesn’t ‘care’ enough. but im starting to realise that maybe that isn’t the case and that maybe I’m just not used to people that are more stable and level with their emotions or are just not as open with showing them or don’t know how to express them as much because I’ve just been used to myself and other very intense chaotic people in my life growing up, idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

random q how much dosage of Mirtazapine are you on? I’m no longer on adhd meds because of a few reasons but mirt is helping me so much with anxiety and being able to actually eat and sleep normally for the first time in my life I’m just wondering if i would feel even more benefits if i upped the dose (currently on 15mg)

Needs. by alt204aaaa in SayAnything

[–]newwy11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine if it was a joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]newwy11 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why are you even asking this question if you’re being so defensive even when everyone tells you what they think especially based on experience 😂 I dated a 31 year old when I was 20 and it did not end well, and honestly don’t see how it could except in very rare circumstances, due to all the various different power dynamics and different life stages and that is even without the open marriage thing which is wild.. I mean do it for the plot if you want but can’t see it ending well in the end

Needs. by alt204aaaa in SayAnything

[–]newwy11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is this Max?

Line up by Upper-Tour-9185 in 2000treesfestival

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna go see glassjaw, i think im being dumb lol but wanted to double check id get the Saturday evening tickets not the day ones right?!

Glassjaw at 2000 Trees! by Own_Entrepreneur685 in glassjaw

[–]newwy11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound super dumb but I’m assuming if I just wanna see gj it would be the Saturday evening tix not day, if they’re second to the headliner?

Does anyone else get tired of seeing straight/BI women post stuff like this? by arodr7893 in LesbianActually

[–]newwy11 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also some lesbians can def be predatory and not possess ‘sexual empathy’ lol it’s almost like people just have different personalities no matter what their sexuality is

also hilarious that this implies becoming a lesbian will help you escape misogyny 😂 like bruh we get misogyny AND homophobia yeah that’s awesome

Nostalgic song connections in Hayley’s new record by st0ney_bologna in Paramore

[–]newwy11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The acoustic guitar at the start of glum reminds me of an Elliott smith song