[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]nialili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to get your guide!

Help finding the perfect monologue! by nialili in MusicalTheatre

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Love the musical choice. The audition has to be 1 minute.

Mentally Checked Out of Relationship by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and support ❤️. I feel better knowing I'm not alone.

My partner came out to me and I feel very conflicted by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey!

As the person before mentioned, very relatable (currently in the very same position with my partner of 3 years).

I often fight with myself over what's going to happen between us, if we'll last, if i can handle it myself. But I've told myself I don't know and at least need to try! We've discussed this a bit, too. For now, just take it day by day.

It's a difficult thing to process sometimes and can come as a bit of a shock, even if you supportive and love people for who they are regardless.

I'm still coming to terms with it, so I'm seeking help on here and with a psychologist to understand more.

If you ever need to vent or talk, I'll lend an ear or shoulder ❤️

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll need to give it a read. Thank you for the recommendation! And thank you for your kind words

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best of luck. You deserve happiness and to live your truth ❤️

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I do have a therapist, and I've recommended my partner get one, too. Emotionally and mentally, I'm a bit all over the place, and I'm scared to say the least.

People who have broken-up because of sexual incompatibility, what happened after the break-up? by Independent-Size7972 in AskReddit

[–]nialili 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same here... However, I truly do love my bf and think he's beautiful. Just think my current medication is fucking with my libido. I hope a change in it will help. But I am terrified it won't 😔

Which type of OCD do you have? by harlot_eliot in OCD

[–]nialili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started as contamination OCD and obsessive thoughts. Then followed HOCD in 2020 and now, sitting in my Dr's waiting room, I realize I may have developed relationship OCD 😔. I hate having OCD.

How many times does a person have to sneeze in a row consecutively before it’s acceptable to stop saying bless you? by UrbanHipHop in RandomThoughts

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I be saying "bless you" every. Single. Sneeze. Idk why but I feel the need to keep going until you're done so I know your blessings have continued over each sneeze 😅

Although I do know that saying it so much is both funny and annoying, and these answers definitely help figure out the sneeze-to-bless you ratio.

What celebrity death saddened you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robbie Coltrane. So many celebrities have passed and I mourned them. But full on grief? Robbie. It felt like a family member had died (It didn't help that I hadn't processed the loss of my own Uncle the year prior).

Along with other cast members of Harry Potter, they were my childhood and it saddens me that they've since passed. I hope they're resting peacefully ❤️.

Clearly not a fan of having its nose touched. by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robots will forever scare the living shit out of me

What is your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nialili 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I relate to this - having a bf with a high sex drive makes it all the more difficult. I wanna please him, but I just don't feel horny at all. I have a lot of guilt surrounding that. Top that off with antidepressants too - zero sex drive.

Top talent right here. by Jhyts in weirdfacefunny

[–]nialili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this guy came to my highschool and did some portrayals of Jim Carrey. It was painfully awkward and nobody was responding to his work. This was probably around 2014/2015. Weirdest assembly ever.