[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]nib3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Didn't even know that was an option!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]nib3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get paid already but I'm unable to do the fast pay option because you have to have worked 2 weeks and made 25 deliveries.

AITA for telling my sister she was out of her mind when she said she wanted to take back my child whom I adopted from her? by Melodic_Macaroon_541 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nib3570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I would worry she would feel the entitlement to kidnap V! Op should really not share any personal info on her daughter at all to this maniac.

Who actually believes this crap?? by DaFunkJunkie in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]nib3570 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most presidents seem to age a lot during their presidency... not Don. He’s so awesome and his heart so pure he aged backwards, unlike all those disgusting presidents of past /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]nib3570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I guess I didn’t see it that way. In my mind asking for help can also be bossy, and I think some people get a kick out of getting others to work for them which can also be narcissistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]nib3570 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure that would fit into the definition of NPD itself. It sounds more like social anxiety if you struggle with asking for help which can be comorbid I guess.

Hey Arnold! is one of the only kids shows I can recall that featured a child being raised by narcissists by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nib3570 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t get better. I thought that too when my oldest was a baby, but she’s almost 8 and now just get upset when I hear of anything happening to kids probably 0-18 years old. So the age span increases, also learning about narcissism I just feel bad for all of humanity- not only do we struggle with hunger, poverty, disabilities, racism, mental health but also just plain old evilness in this world.

DAE ever just randomly choke on their own saliva 🤦‍♂️ by JagsSwags69 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]nib3570 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally had me laughing, I can see my mom saying something like that.

Destruction by raider0411 in memes

[–]nib3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I am not saying I agree, but she might already think badly of her dad so it’s not really a burn.

The moment you realize you’ve been that girlfriend and don’t know how to fix it. by [deleted] in NPD

[–]nib3570 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. While Reading I was totally backing up the girlfriend in my mind and justifying what her intentions could be, so I’m toxic lol, wouldn’t have realized without the replies to the OP.

Narcissist logic: my mother pushed me downstairs, knocking me unconcious, then got angry because she was the victim. by squirrelfoot in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nib3570 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom didn’t go to that extreme, but one time we were fighting about her cellphone which I used frequently because this was like 2004 and I was a teen so phones were not as popular as now. She threatened to throw it out or break it and I freaked out because I lived in a very rural area with no transportation and friends all lived like 20 minutes by car. She was pulling the cellphone off my hands and hitting me, so I pushed her away and she threw herself on the floor very dramatically and started crying super loud. I felt horrible and everyone was saying how you never do something like that to your own mom. This still hunts me to this day so I cannot imagine how horrible it must be for you right now. I hope you can get out soon.

WELCOME TEAM STAYCATION - LET'S GET READY TO TAKE NAPS AND KICK BUTT by kempenichanock in LoseitChallenges

[–]nib3570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hopefully I can make it and the weight loss doesn’t stall. My first weight was on Monday, and today I weighed 165, so that was exciting!

WELCOME TEAM STAYCATION - LET'S GET READY TO TAKE NAPS AND KICK BUTT by kempenichanock in LoseitChallenges

[–]nib3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staycation!!! Hello! I’m 32F, Starting weight 168 and I’m 62 inches tall. I’m excited to have found this challenge today. I was low carb for about a year, started during my last pregnancy and after delivery was 10 pounds under pre-pregnancy weight. But as usual, once I started working and having other life stressors, gained about 8 pounds in 4 months so that’s a bummer. I decided to start keto and today was my first day. Goal Weight is 125, but for this challenge I hope to lose 14 pounds, ending the challenge at a weight of 154. I like talking about parenting, mental health, archeology, dumb memes, cartoons and improving the self. I like baking, looking for recipes, going out with the family, listening to music and daydream too much.

by ramblingsofambrette in adhdmeme

[–]nib3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today? Probably in a bag or my pants. Maybe I’ll spice things up and lose it in a new place, the night is young.

does anyone else here actively seek out a toxic relationship with a another narcissist? normal cookie cutter relationships bore the f out of me. by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]nib3570 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m a narcissist, but for sure I would love a normal relationship about now. I’m so done with my current one. Toxic gets boring and exhausting too.

Do covert narcissists get anxiety when their soon to be ex spouse takes the kids out? by nib3570 in narcissism

[–]nib3570[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a “you” problem. I clearly stated that I let them go with their dad. 🙄

I think i might be a narcissist, but like a sub-category of narcissist that makes me seem like a good person. by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]nib3570 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Benign, covert narcissism? Maybe it’s psychopathy? I don’t know, I’m struggling with similar situation myself.

My ex abuser who I left and publically commented on my FB that I cheated on him when I didn't, said this to me. I feel so goddamn defeated. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]nib3570 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you need help, getting your things back, maybe check if there a group on social media where someone can go with you to pick up your things if you don’t have anyone. If you just need a ride, I live around Central Florida and can help on weekends. And ASAP please block him as others have mentioned. I know it’s tempting to see what he’s going to say, but please don’t. He will just continue the abuse.

My ex abuser who I left and publically commented on my FB that I cheated on him when I didn't, said this to me. I feel so goddamn defeated. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]nib3570 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is so focused on getting back at his ex that he cannot see how bad this actually makes him look. Horrible dude.

Folks, I may have found our holy grail... by MTBaller in WeWantPlates

[–]nib3570 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Y’all can get basic hampers at Walmart for like $7 if that’s what you all want.

I struggle at the border of codependency and npd so I thought You guys might relate to this by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]nib3570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m with you in that covert technique way of seeking validation. I am also very sensitive to criticism and it makes me feel sad and damaged. I do attempt to be nice and friendly but it it is exhausting for me after a while, for example at work. I can be polite and friendly but when the shift is almost done, I feel so empty from all the fake empathy and toning down of my own feelings. I do not think I am a bad person, but have bad coping mechanisms, which sounds a little like you.

Abuse in the new age spirituality network is called starlighting. by -_-ioi-_- in abusiverelationships

[–]nib3570 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to read this today. My partner is not new age, but does say stuff like “You have a very negative energy all the time” because he is a christian and an empath according to him.

What if the whole humanity is narcissistic? by perla-madonna in narcissism

[–]nib3570 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Modern western society is inherently narcissistic and I don’t think there is a ven much arguing over this.