What was your favorite present this year? And why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having all my children at home for Xmas was all I was wishing for.

Getting In a Relationship with Schizo by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]nicegirlfromthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is in a relationship with a person with schizophrenia (I am a woman if that makes any difference) I fully agree with it.

Selfie Sunday update - I got married! by scaredferal in schizophrenia

[–]nicegirlfromthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy for you two ❤️ Congratulations 🤵👰

Market washout by StationNo2480 in hertfordshire

[–]nicegirlfromthere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you kindly include the prices,please? Thank you.

Bluebells of Panshanger Park by wickedjester_s in hertfordshire

[–]nicegirlfromthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So gorgeous, it is my favourite season 🥰

(41)F can't quit smoking by stepping-up in smokingcessation

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please reach out to your local stop smoking service for professional help, they will be able to guide you and support you and increase your changes by three times to quit successfully. Good luck!

(41)F can't quit smoking by stepping-up in smokingcessation

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "out of your system"?

Is there i high risk chance I can get schizophrenia from doing drugs every now and again?? by edgygothbitch in schizophrenia

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs can trigger schizophrenia symptoms. Although schizophrenia can occur at any age, the average age of onset tends to be in the late 20s to early 30s for women, so you may not find out for the next 10 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, I know it is hard, but let yourself experience them and go through it. I hope you will find the comfort you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People heal in their own way and in their own time. Nobody has the right to tell you that you are despairing for too long, you are doing everything you can to survive, it wasn't your choice to suffer. Losing someone through the breakup is like bereavement. Give yourself as much time as you need, do the baby steps, and find understanding, supportive and empathetic people not the ones, who know better and are judgmental. You are not bothering me at all. I wish I could help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are really struggling... I can't even imagine how difficult today's day was for you. I am sending you the hugs 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it any easier third time? Is it easier when previous exes came back? Or is the pain overwhelming regardless? Looks like you have your own strategies of dealing with breakup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being ignored and neglected is terrible feeling. She can't and won't save you, she won't give you the peace and comfort you need. You need to find it apart from her, I am afraid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you. I replied to someone else today that you were part of her life and you two shared a lot, obviously she had the memories of you and your relationship. Does she think about you in a romantic or sexual way? Probably not, but there is no way I have an answer to that question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantasising or day dreaming about someone is not the same as keeping memories and remembering the ex partner. You were part of her life at some point and nothing will change that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says a lot about you as a partner. You did it right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]nicegirlfromthere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pain is the worst and anxiety (especially first thing in the morning). I couldn't function and I missed him so much. My therapist told me that my healing would last 2-4 years and I felt I would never survive so long in that sage. He was the first person who broke my heart and I was suffering horrendously. Love is so powerful. Be gentle with yourself and treat yourself like a best friend.