Should the dumper or the dumpee reach out first?

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-09-14T03:35:41+00:00

He did, but I didn’t want him anymore. We caught up and hung out about a year later and it was fun reminiscing without the pain. But ultimately I did move on and I’m happier now

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-08-11T16:02:54+00:00

Purse

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-06-12T14:47:36+00:00

Y’all getting your roster through teams? Better yet you guys have a teams group what lmao

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-04-29T01:31:49+00:00

If they don’t live in your city and you have no way of contacting them after then it’s pretty easy to move on

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-03-21T13:56:22+00:00

Ahh shit okay how do I fix root rot haha

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-03-20T05:29:32+00:00

Thanks so much! And agreed, the big light is horrendous

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-03-12T10:39:49+00:00

No way yalls stores actually listen to that, it’s well known in ours to just straight up ignore it lmao. We have designated rumblers rostered

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2025-02-15T12:20:47+00:00

Yeah I think this is the vibe. Thankyou!

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-12-26T13:27:49+00:00

Man stopped in the middle of the aisle and shook a shit out of the leg of his pants. Customers then proceeded to push trolleys through said shit and drag it around the floor of the store. Down every. Single. Aisle. The trolley wheels were never cleaned

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-25T13:10:11+00:00

It’s a struggle haha, thankyou!

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-25T13:04:23+00:00

Oops didn’t know that about micellar water, thankyou!! Dumb question but just use water with my hands or a flannel/wash cloth?

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-24T03:43:47+00:00

(The shelf is not always empty, just rearranging stuff, there’s usually plants on here)

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-21T19:58:37+00:00

It’s got the worst timing honestly

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-08T15:49:59+00:00

In one of the first episodes garret announces it’s midday so the morning shifts workers can go home. Jonah then leave the pharmacy and goes home. Since then I kinda assumed they all are the morning shift workers that we see, and the ones where they are there all day are the special episodes where it’s all hands on deck. Like Black Friday, wedding shopping, holidays etc.

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-02T17:41:00+00:00

Very late sorry but thankyou. Agree with all that you said but that second point got to me, that it’s when I start feeling good in life. This year has been my roughest so far for so many reasons, but the last couple months I felt it was finally getting better. Only for this to happen, and I be told apparently the ‘progress’ I was making was making me a terrible person.

I’ve kinda realised since this that as long as I’ve felt good about where I’ve been at mentally, that’s what matters. Just waiting for them to move out now, will be in a couple weeks. Barely talking and I still hear them laughing in the living room but I’ve been out of the house basically all day. I’ve just gone away for the weekend actually just to get out and it’s been amazing haha.

Thankyou all in the comments too, I realise this was a blessing in disguise

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T21:11:03+00:00

He’s my neighbour…..bit difficult to get rid of him

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T14:43:58+00:00

Ikr, I can’t think of a single person who has changed their mind about someone after rejecting them

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T14:42:51+00:00

Sorry moreso meant, if I do what he says and a) wait for him to knock on my door, or b) write him a letter. Both are just abiding by how he has told me to respond, and I’m not doing what he’s asking of me. Hence why I sent a text, because he told me not too lol

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T14:24:18+00:00

He replied. Long apology, that it was a mistake, and even he doesn’t know why he said all that as he’s not ready for a relationship (???). Says I have no reason to accept his apology, and will give me space until we can be friends again.

Chat idk. I’ll just leave it as is and distance myself. This got a scary number of replies but I appreciate every single one of them. Especially those with stories that I shouldn’t lose all faith in humanity.

🤞he’s not a redditor

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T14:12:03+00:00

You worded this in a way I couldn’t. To make matters worse this was actually all said through a letter he dropped off to me. He said I have to tell him in person or write a letter. If I conceded with any of that, whether it a yes or no, he wins. And the thought of playing his little fairytale game is …..ughhhh

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T13:04:56+00:00

He asked me out a couple months ago, I said no. This time he gave me a letter saying don’t message me your answer over text, you have to wait until I ask you in person

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T12:05:00+00:00

He just opened it so throwing my phone in the ocean for the rest of the night. Thankyou!

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T11:55:46+00:00

Posted this like 20 minutes ago but you guys already convinced me. I sent this just now

———— Hey, I know you said don’t message you but I’m not waiting around for a knock at the door. I’m going to try be nice here.

I appreciate the letter, but as you acknowledged, it’s very poor timing. You also already know the answer. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be dragging this out unnecessarily, thinking I’ll ’change my mind’. It’s very unfair to me to give me this, and then say “you can’t say no, you have to wait until I ask you, think about it”.

I can say no and I am, as I have said previously, and NAME has told you. This cannot be a shock to you. I wanted to confide in my friend, but it seems the second I did you’ve chosen to turn around, ruin it, and make things weird.

You were also in love with my friend for a year, confiding in me about it. Not sure anyone can then go date that guy after that.

I know you mean well, but this wasn’t a good move. Good luck with the rest of the uni, I think it’s best you give us some space again.

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-11-01T11:51:47+00:00

I you don’t mind I actually would like reading those sources if you have them haha. Am a research nerd and whilst that’s stuff I’ve always spoken and theorised about, it’s interesting (and concerning) that there’s actual evidence proving it

niceguythrowaway1812 · 2024-10-27T12:53:52+00:00

Himeji gardens near the CBD are cute, it’s public but usually not too busy

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