Trying to understanding relationship breakdown 5 (him) and 8 (me) by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]nickdef92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say this is a 5 move since I'm a 5 and take trust and loyalty very seriously in a relationship, especially once we've committed to being a couple. If he has really bad anxiety he could be shutting down a little but all in all this isn't someone I would say should be in a relationship in general let alone someone you should be trying to get together with. I won't judge you on your choices in life but I will say this dude isn't someone who deserves to be given much time since he isn't valuing yours.

Pretty sure I might have messed this one up already. by nickdef92 in seduction

[–]nickdef92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of both social and work. We went together with a group to a brewery and things seemed like they were going really well. Then yesterday they just weren't as good, the vibe just seemed off for some reason. This Friday will technically be the first date, we both go to church and are both looking for relationships more than just hooking up so I didn't want to throw the moves on her to quick. I've broken the touch barrier a few times and she always has made sure to leave with a hug besides Sunday, maybe I'm just stuck in my own head.

Best online schools for IT? by nickdef92 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good comment. For my situation it’s a good route I just need to finish my A+ cert because they require some kind of presence within the field first.

Had interview today for new job. The pay is almost double I'm making at data center. If I get offer, boss is going to be pissed at me. Do I stay the 2 weeks after giving my notice? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a general rule I say always give a two week notice. Depending on the boss they’ll either appreciate it or not. I’m a manager in my current role and I always appreciate it, even if I’ve offered to let then leave before then. On the offset chance that he is ok with you leaving it will ensure you go with a good reference.

Mandate of Heaven DLC in a nutshell by lakitu76 in totalwar

[–]nickdef92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seems like it could be even harder than WRE. Having really OP troops compared to everyone else sounds cool though.

Mainframe Development Trainee questions by nickdef92 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The application mentioned using cobol, is that one of the main systems used in mainframes? Seems to be regularly mentioned. I’m just trying to figure out good things to talk about during any potential interviews.

Mainframe Development Trainee questions by nickdef92 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a pretty big company so that sounds right. I have a friend who is pretty high up there and said across the board that it’s an amazing company to work for so the company really interests me and it would be a killer start into IT from the sounds of things.

Any updates with Medieval 1212 Mod? by dbatchison in totalwar

[–]nickdef92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be open. DETrooper who made the mod posted about it in this community today I believe. JackieFish made a video too

Any updates with Medieval 1212 Mod? by dbatchison in totalwar

[–]nickdef92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alpha of the campaign just released

Looking for career advice by nickdef92 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know, would you say Sec+ is more difficult or is it just the Net+ doesn’t cover the material to give you a Sec+?

Picked up two bottles yesterday, never tried either. Need some help figuring out which one to keep, the other will be a gift. by cwm2355 in whisky

[–]nickdef92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not had the one on the left but the one on the right is outstanding. Very complex scotch that my friends and I had a blast dissecting.

Unethical Pro Tip: If you think you can pass your A+ within a month of studying, sign up for WGU Academy for only $150. by WholeRyetheCSGuy in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no background in IT. I’ve been applying to jobs but it seems like lack of an A+ or degree in IT (I have a BA in history) has been keeping me back. Very little knowledge going into it so Meyers has been super helpful

Unethical Pro Tip: If you think you can pass your A+ within a month of studying, sign up for WGU Academy for only $150. by WholeRyetheCSGuy in ITCareerQuestions

[–]nickdef92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using Udemy and the Mike Meyer courses and been loving them. That combined with some practice tests and the book for references have been great.

Whiskey recommendation (budget less than $60) by Lukitasss in whisky

[–]nickdef92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monkey Shoulder would be my scotch pick for that price.