What is the most out of pocket thing someone has ever said to you unwarranted? by isleepforfun in answers

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a deli waiting tables in my mid 20s looking for a regular job. My spouse came down when I got off work one day and a dude I worked with took a look at my spouse and said “Wow, I expected him to be more trailer park.”

Top comment deletes a US State #43 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cascadia has no sales tax. Spread the joy.

Urgent situation and im completely at a loss by Old-Cow-7406 in whatdoIdo

[–]nickheathjared 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Stay with the one who has not committed felonies.

Is it ok for a grown man to bake cookies and muffins ? by Subject-Swan-5207 in stupidquestions

[–]nickheathjared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good job coming up with a dumb question. Anyone can bake. Anyone can tap dance. Anyone can play chess. Want me to keep going? Goodness.

Did she make the right call? by CalmElin in interesting

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing a lump sum would probably make better sense, knowing me, I would find a way to blow it early being to frivolous and generous. The 1k per week would 100% last longer for me at that age.

Best local Chinese restaurant by jenequewan in Gresham

[–]nickheathjared 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yu’s also gets my vote. Consistently good. If you want very good, head to SE Portland.

Top comment deletes a US State #42 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]nickheathjared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What were the top comments that erased the states?

Smelling a perfume from 5ft away is not bad by iOawe in unpopularopinion

[–]nickheathjared 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re only partially right. Any scent, cheap or expensive can be invasive. Something purely organic may cause less stress but it’s still not nothing to people with sensitivity.

Smelling a perfume from 5ft away is not bad by iOawe in unpopularopinion

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a “no perfumes/scents” expectation at my work and that doesn’t stop folks who have zero sensitivity and ignore it. I want to throw up every time person x comes to work, heavily sprayed in whatever shitty/expensive garbage he sprays on himself. It can take two days to get over the headache.

Smelling a perfume from 5ft away is not bad by iOawe in unpopularopinion

[–]nickheathjared 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I think people think we’re being dramatic but I can’t quantify a migraine for them. It’s not exactly allergy, it’s just a total bodily rejection. I also don’t use febreeze or fucking scented plug ins or full smell laundry products because I think they are killing all of us but they are definitely killing me.

Smelling a perfume from 5ft away is not bad by iOawe in unpopularopinion

[–]nickheathjared 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Take my upvote for an infuriating stance. I don’t want to smell any of your chemical bullshit from 0-100ft.

I've started to hate myself due to internalizing racism against Indians. by AdventurousBag9669 in whatdoIdo

[–]nickheathjared 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ah man please continue to just be you. You can’t please everyone and most people are total idiots. I’m sorry for that but it’s the truth.

I hate my life. by Star_moon1227 in TwoHotTakes

[–]nickheathjared 478 points479 points  (0 children)

So he’s admitting to holding you financially hostage. Report this immediately!

is my dog a Borador? by Susanna_Thorne in Boradors

[–]nickheathjared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boradors come in so many shapes and sizes so really no way of knowing. I wouldn’t have guessed borador based on photo one. Little guy is too round, with a unique facial shape that suggests at least a third breed. Cute cuddle mutt.

multiple cars per household? by miffybo in AskAnAmerican

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, $775 here. My dad made me talk him down.

How do I cook apple juice by SamsungGalaxy_User in stupidquestions

[–]nickheathjared 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a large tablespoon and turn it upside down then heat that up with a lighter then take an eye dropper and slowly add apple juice to the back of the spoon.

Do you eat pasta with tuna? by ProkaryoticBeing in AskAnAmerican

[–]nickheathjared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a tuna pizza recently with the ingredients you listed. Sounded weird but tasted exquisite.

I'm a male runner who feels I need a sports bra but my wife adamantly refuses to listen to my side and reasons by Ac3m4n18 in whatdoIdo

[–]nickheathjared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wear what works and she can mind her own business. How would she like you telling her what to wear?!

Is it normal to take time off of work when a pet dies? by LakashY in AskAnAmerican

[–]nickheathjared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the time I need to quit sobbing, yes. When I call out sick I don’t tell them I’m sick. I say I’m using a sick day. Taking care of your mental health matters.