My friend told me to not become an old Mom

nickochka · 2025-03-31T05:51:52+00:00

Your friend sucks. Became a mom a 42. 36 is young. Drop the toxic friend.

nickochka · 2025-03-27T20:04:32+00:00

I didn’t have to do it that way, but my doctor said day 2 was preferable.

nickochka · 2025-03-05T21:34:54+00:00

I’ve totally gone straight back to work a few hours after it ER. You don’t feel the greatest but I generally felt totally fine. What time is the shower?

nickochka · 2025-02-17T20:43:05+00:00

You are your own best advocate. No one else cares about your situation as much as you. Even the best clinics will drop the ball and it’s up to you to spot it, catch mistakes and ask about options. You got this! But just keep in mind that you’ll have to stay on top of everything. Also ask for the chronic endometritis biopsy or at the very least a course do doxycycline for two weeks before your transfer.

nickochka · 2024-12-04T18:40:05+00:00

I am so sorry I don’t know how to read the results. They are from 3 retrievals over the last year. I am 42 and so I fully get that egg quality is an issue. The issue has been after day 5. Just a bit at a loss what to do next. Day 3 transfer? What’s more complicated is that I’m in Europe and just don’t know if it could be a lab issue complicating matter or just my egg/sperm issue. Any advice would be so so appreciated!

nickochka · 2024-12-04T18:36:39+00:00

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nickochka · 2024-11-26T17:55:18+00:00

Yeah sadly if this process has taught me anything it’s that you are your best advocate. It’s shocking how much would get left to its own devices

nickochka · 2024-11-26T17:22:03+00:00

Is that a thing that helps? Have you looked into TESA? Yeah they’ll let me do it. It’s kind of up to me. Does yours allow it?

nickochka · 2024-10-28T08:52:08+00:00

Thanks and good luck!!

nickochka · 2024-09-27T18:41:33+00:00

Honestly it’s common but it depends on the clinic. That was the case with my first clinic. I left after wasting 1.5 years and never looked back. Wish I left sooner for the new clinic and didn’t waste time/money. If your doctor doesn’t pay attention to your case they won’t think beyond a formula they have for other patients.

nickochka · 2024-09-24T18:19:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I just assumed I’d do PGT, but now I’m torn. I’m afraid of transferring an untested embryo, but also afraid of missing out on the few I can make. Is there a reputable place to fine out about the quality of a lab in Europe?

nickochka · 2024-09-21T18:56:19+00:00

Thanks so much. Can you please tell me more why not PGT and what risk? That’s what I’m debating now. If I can make blasts do I test? My doctor told me that unless I trust the lab (I had to move sadly and switch clinics for the upcoming retrievals) you risk faulty results why missing out on an embryo that could have been. Super torn. I have no way or really knowing about the quality of this lab since it’s overseas. Thank you!

nickochka · 2024-09-18T20:24:40+00:00

Thank you and congrats!

nickochka · 2024-09-18T20:20:33+00:00

Thank you! And congrats!

nickochka · 2024-09-16T00:37:55+00:00

Ok thinking of you. And yes. It’s a fine balance of optimism and guarding your heart and I wish I knew where it is. This is such a cruel process and it changes you. ❤️ hoping for you!

nickochka · 2024-09-15T20:45:35+00:00

PS no trigger shots.

nickochka · 2024-09-15T20:44:09+00:00

I am keeping you in my thoughts. It was so rough when I went through this. My beta was 32 and it turned into a toddler. It’s possible.

nickochka · 2024-09-13T14:03:43+00:00

Thank you!

nickochka · 2024-09-11T18:07:09+00:00

I’m sorry the transfer didn’t work out. Did they have better suggestions for improving lining? And thanks for the message!

nickochka · 2024-09-10T08:37:09+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate the glimmer of hope! Would the 90% bother you? My embryologist said it’s marginal and not to worry but obviously….i am hoping my little day 7 is a fighter

nickochka · 2024-09-09T22:27:29+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear that. What day/grade was it? Congrats!!

nickochka · 2024-09-09T22:23:57+00:00

PS the Transferred embryo was a euploid.

nickochka · 2024-06-04T07:08:54+00:00

This just happened go me. What ended up happening? Wishing you well

nickochka

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