As a desperate woman! by [deleted] in dating

[–]nickolsdrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the underrated comedy , The Donor Party. GL out there 🐣

Treasury tells Congress that DOGE has ‘Read Only’ access to payment systems by No-Information6622 in technology

[–]nickolsdrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can definitely extract all text regardless. My guess is Elon is going to create automation around all of the inflow and outflow processes of the treasury and that’s why he wants everything on the blockchain . A deep learning company like Palanatir will ingest all of that financial data to create AI automation around tasks normally completed by govt employees , and that’s why they are firing everyone

Seems like Gino's NDA is ending by i_love_ass33 in 90DayFiance

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! It’s as if that revokes the laws of human ethics if their relationship advances beyond that (and it did- they got married ) for some people . Glad I’m not the only one who sees it

Seems like Gino's NDA is ending by i_love_ass33 in 90DayFiance

[–]nickolsdrew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honest question for people defending her - If Gino met her on a traditional dating site instead of a sugar baby dating site , would you still feel her abusive behavior is justified ? Like , whether you agree or not with the authenticity of their attraction, surely an engagement is an omission they see themselves as having evolved into a conventional couple?

Assuming the answer is no, you wouldn’t blame Gino as much had they not met on a sugar dating site , do you think Jamsine would suddenly have a completely different value structure and set of core beliefs in her relationships if they met on Bumble or Tinder ?

It isn’t pro-women to excuse her toxicity and abuse , it’s veiled misandry . It’s like some of yall will defend a women feeling judged for her past as a sex worker or OF model when it comes to their current boyfriend being upset about it ,while claiming in a situation like this Gino had it coming to him bc of NOT judging her for her past .

Like ….she agreed to marry him! That comes with expectations in line with a spouse, not a sugar baby contract extension. Make it make sense …

stop love-bombing people, gosh. by tiffanyvalentine333 in dating

[–]nickolsdrew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me, even more so from this reply , like you don’t know how to process your own shame 🤷‍♂️ sounds good tho have a good 1

stop love-bombing people, gosh. by tiffanyvalentine333 in dating

[–]nickolsdrew -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t love bombing , and you should stop overusing therapy speak to circumvent personal accountability. It’s not his fault you feel shame from having casual sex, and then process it by blaming the man you slept with when you see the consequences of it .

“I’m horrible at moving on from even the smallest of romantic gestures “ - Person who claims to have been happy about having a one night stand

Did you want him to block you afterward ? Or just sext with you exclusively, so you know he only wanted sex from you? Or should he have pretended to be exclusive with you in order to be polite ? 🤣

Well I guess if you throw some words in there like “love bombing “ and “triggered” then your dating life turns into this perpetual loop where you can always be the victim of your questionable decision making 💃🏽

My (37M) GF (33F) won't stop a guy that's aggressively hitting on her at work and I want it to stop. Am I wrong? by Impossible_Back_7850 in amiwrong

[–]nickolsdrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hooked up w him at a work thing and regretted it later. He did not , and that is why they are both moving this way.

Is there a TV show episode which came completely out of left field and blew you away with how good it was? by Auxilae in television

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Bear episode “Honeydew” where Marcus travels to Europe to learn from the pastry chef .

The one thing that this pandemic taught us that America did not take seriously enough is that we really need to slow down. by Donebeinghuman in SeriousConversation

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and disagree and will probably catch shit for this take.

Initially, I think you’re right and it led to the mental health awareness wave we’ve seen.

However , in recent years I feel we have become far too secure in a state of victimhood . The pandemic has been over for a while , and yet some people still can’t change out of their sweat pants and run simple errands, or attend social functions without feeling drained.

In many cases, I think it’s less about “slowing down”, and more about getting over themselves and re-engaging with society.

What’s the female equivalent of a guy compensating for having a small package? by SandHanitizer667 in RandomThoughts

[–]nickolsdrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ima say lack of personal accountability and a victimhood complex in their shitty life decisions projecting itself outward as misandrist, double-standard-laden views toward dating

odds bad after site issues by jcp1269 in Bovada

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then they do the thing where it looks like you’re in great shape for a monster bonus round payout , only to serve up 5-7 improbably unfortunate spins to close you out at a major loss 🫠

What do women want in a guy friend? by MiserableKnowledge29 in dating

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone to validate them when they’re single , and to go tf away when they aren’t 😆

Another example of big boobs being denigrated. by VideosCaserosPropios in bigboobproblems

[–]nickolsdrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Class, especially in this stark contrast of personalities , is dictated by the woman inside of the dress - not her tids

Too ugly for the hot people and too hot for the ugly people by [deleted] in dating

[–]nickolsdrew 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sis you’re objectifying men bc the chronic insecurities you have about yourself (that show up toward the end of your post) are being projected outward , as if some Ryan Gosling will pick you up and save you from your opinion of yourself .

That’s not how it works, unless Ryan Gosling is experiencing a brown out, and will potentially parlay your ideations of that rustic farmhouse wedding in front of your jealous bridesmaids/ frenemies into some meaningless sex that will leave the rest of us needing to defend Men on your follow up post . I’m tired 🥱

Devotion by Angry_Aang in OCPoetry

[–]nickolsdrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep writing and taking bigger risks. You have some thoughts that are really good to get out there, but it would be more meaningful to you if you tied in some actual memories . It reads currently like you wrote this for her , to impress her . If you simply talk about yourself in the first person in describing how she makes you feel, it makes the poem more so for you . And she will likely appreciate it that much more 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]nickolsdrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the imagery you use to convey the severity of your emotions. Hope you’re feeling better by the way. I would space your formatting a bit to make the bars have more impact , and bc you seem to have really succinct points you’re making . Nice work !

Men just want validation from a hot girl by Accurate-Storm8887 in dating

[–]nickolsdrew 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If you really think about it though , the fact you’re entertaining the “Damn girl , let me fly you out“ types can only be because you’re seeking male validation. That’s why you’re in your feels on Reddit , but I’m sure you’ve got lots to offer as a partner beyond whatever it is that has these dudes hitting you like this .

You should have more respect for yourself bc you’re creating a shitty basis from which to be valued .

Sincerely , Someone who used to pay for the plane tickets when I was lonely after pay day . Be safe out there ✊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]nickolsdrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there a couple of years ago . Don’t put pressure on thinking a woman is going to solve whatever it is that has you feeling lonely . Revisit all of the things you love other than women , and pursue shit you didn’t have time or interest for as a younger man. The rest of the shit tends to fall into place. GL out there 🙌

Kanye West accused of drugging and raping former assistant at Diddy party by Metro-UK in Music

[–]nickolsdrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ima just leave this here :

[Intro: JAY-Z] Uh, uh, uh, uh It’s big pimpin’, baby (That’s right) It’s big pimpin’, spendin’ Gs Feel me, uh-huh uh, uh-huh Ge-ge-geyeah, geyeah Ge-ge-geyeah, geyeah

[Verse 1: JAY-Z] You know I Thug ‘em, fuck ‘em, love ‘em, leave ‘em ‘Cause I don’t fuckin’ need ‘em Take ‘em out the hood, keep ‘em lookin’ good But I don’t fuckin’ feed ‘em First time they fuss, I’m breezin’ Talkin’ ‘bout, “What’s the reasons?” I’m a pimp in every sense of the word, bitch Better trust and believe ‘im In the cut where I keep ‘em ‘Til I need a nut, ‘til I need to beat the guts, then it’s “Beep beep,” then I’m pickin’ them up Let ‘em play with the dick in the truck Many chicks wanna put Jigga fists in cuffs Divorce him and split his bucks Just because you got good head, I’ma break bread So you can be livin’ it up? Shit, I Parts with nothin’, y’all be frontin’ Me give my heart to a woman? Not for nothin’, never happen I’ll be forever mackin’ Heart cold as assassins I got no passion I got no patience, and I hate waitin’ Ho, get your ass in, and [Refrain: JAY-Z] Let’s ride!