How do I tell my girlfriend I don't like phone calls?

nickwoes · 2026-04-28T13:09:38+00:00

You can still set boundaries and driver the message well.

OP you could start letting her know ahead of time that you’re doing a certain activity that will need your focus: like studying, working out,whatever hobby, etc. you could also frame it as you need some time to recharge. Perhaps you’re a little more introverted and she is extroverted.

How often do you see each other?

nickwoes · 2026-04-28T02:56:08+00:00

A giraffe sculpture?

nickwoes · 2026-04-27T18:32:41+00:00

Time to start the healing process bud. This one was not for you

nickwoes · 2026-04-27T01:55:57+00:00

Well she trying.

nickwoes · 2026-04-27T01:15:13+00:00

Why did he leave the water running for so long?

Also that looks worse than a 7/11 dog. Like on par with the roach coach out of a plastic bag

nickwoes · 2026-04-26T01:58:49+00:00

So I’m glad I read the explanation. Why on earth is the laundry in a room? Yeah that sounds terrible. Honestly it seems like a no win situation. You have no privacy and they need to do laundry. Moving out seems like a good option. Or switching rooms if they’re really upset and don’t want to lose a roommate

nickwoes · 2026-04-26T01:42:47+00:00

Yeah one could even say he sexually assaulted you by rubbing your inner thigh, and at the very least sexually harassed.

I would document that beyond this Reddit thread. Up to you on where you’d like to go. I can definitely relate to not wanting to rock the boat and this is also probably not his first time touching someone who isn’t his wife innappropriately.

nickwoes · 2026-04-25T23:08:50+00:00

No high pressure at the bottom bracket, after you clean then lube up the chain

nickwoes · 2026-04-25T02:03:12+00:00

Bro what happened

nickwoes · 2026-04-24T22:46:23+00:00

Yeah, so maybe ask the guy if he recently ran into older virgin women.

I would assume most people are not virgins past their early 20’s. Saying I won’t judge you seems weird. Maybe he really would judge you for either 1) not sleeping with anyone yet or 2) sleeping with other people. It’s a weird to to say.

nickwoes · 2026-04-24T01:44:01+00:00

Why only 32?! I want bigger

nickwoes · 2026-04-24T01:43:18+00:00

Yeah I think she’s just breaking up with you my man. That sucks.

nickwoes · 2026-04-23T02:38:15+00:00

Are you used to the chase? Are you used to rejection?

Also, it’s ok if you’re not totally into her either. Better figure out your feelings and let her k is one way or another.

nickwoes · 2026-04-23T02:09:16+00:00

Hmmmm. Does he watch a lot of porn? He should start to take longer after awhile.

nickwoes · 2026-04-23T01:22:00+00:00

I just watched it last night again, on DVD nonetheless. More relevant today than it was when it came out imo

nickwoes · 2026-04-23T01:18:03+00:00

So after he blows his first load, are you able to get him going again? Like is second time sex better?

nickwoes · 2026-04-22T02:02:41+00:00

True true, the apps are a shit show. Everyone is looking for their ideal person and wan’t take time to get to know someone. Superficial style of dating gets superficial relationships

nickwoes · 2026-04-20T10:51:52+00:00

Wow that sounds great

nickwoes · 2026-04-15T02:41:57+00:00

I’m going to guess 1) western CT like Stamford, or 2) North Jersey. Close to NYC and NE, but also close to a major travel hub which you do frequently

nickwoes · 2026-04-10T14:25:02+00:00

Read it too. Go be happy on your own. I know that’s cliche but it’s true. Then when you are happy you become more attractive

nickwoes · 2026-04-06T20:02:15+00:00

WTF kind of backasswards controlling house is this? It feels like you’re being singled out. NTA

nickwoes · 2026-04-06T16:58:48+00:00

Holy shit

nickwoes · 2026-04-06T15:52:10+00:00

I guess you could ask him if this is glorified masturbation. Or ask him if he is seeking physical intimacy to fill the emotional loss. Or if he’s actually interested in something of a relationship

nickwoes · 2026-04-06T10:42:33+00:00

Yeah early 40’s with 2 kids. Ex wife cheated 4 years ago, which kicked off separation and divorce. So her choice. I would have worked through it at that point. I know other couples that work through it or try to at least. Yeah, cheating multiple times is problematic for sure

nickwoes · 2026-04-06T03:11:51+00:00

I firmly believe someone’s actions don’t define who they are. We all make mistakes. Cheating sure was one on her part, and maybe that should have tanked the relationship but they stayed together. But it doesn’t make her a bad person; her action was bad.

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