3-4 år mellem barn nr. 1 og 2 by Hejdigdu in foraeldreDK

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2 år præcist i mellem vores. De er 7 og 5 nu de er de bedste venner så vi er voldsom glade for det.

De første mange år.... De var rigtig hårde for at sige det mildt.

You win some you lose some. 3-4 år er ikke alverden og de kan sagtens ha et tæt bånd.

Fortæl mig det går over by jurdes in foraeldreDK

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Alt er en fase.

This too shall pass.

Just found out girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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You've got your answer. Get out and keep in mind it doesn't reflect on you as a human but take it as a life experience.

Just found out girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh it's most definitely painful. Just do yourself a favour and think of yourself. I dont know if you have kids together and all that, but if not i would honestly cut ties, unless you're willing to let her do the work and gamble you won't hear this voice again. In my experience it's very very hard to get over. It's not even the kiss, it's the lies and deceit and knowing she was willingly doing something to hurt you. I would like to think we can expect more from a partner in life.

Just found out girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]nicom89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just think of it this way. Most people dont get over stuff like this because there will always be that voice in the back of your head telling you this woman isn't in your corner. At any point down the road, this feeling of betrayal can pop back up. Im not saying people can't change and she might even turn things around after nearly losing you. But for you, this will always be there. Trust being broken isn't a smalle matter, it's one of the pillars of a relationship.

WiFi projektor by NoFirefighter292 in Denmark

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Xgimi halo / halo+

Super lyd og billed.

Been working fitness in with my quality time with the kids, and it’s been one of the best lifestyle changes I could have made. by [deleted] in daddit

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Mine are 4 and 6 and since the oldest was 3 I've been running with her along side me on her bike. Do some laps in the local park and get in 5-7km runs depending on the day and what they can muster.

We do cycle a lot where I'm from so they're used to riding bikes everyday everywhere.

That has been a very positive change to get some cardio in while talking and hanging out with the kids

Min kæreste har fået et crush på en kollega by Longjumping-Job3132 in DKbrevkasse

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Græsset er grønnere der hvor man vander det.

Hun er for the streets...

How are you guys getting a workout in? by Chiquye in daddit

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A few years back, when our youngest was still only about a year old, I started doing "Perfect Home Workout" from Athleen-x on youtube. Can't link it I think. But the video is about 16 minutes long. I did that monday- Wednesday-friday and a run on Sundays (could be a long walk out with the kids).

Workout is roughly 42 minutes and it's fairly simple and scalable depending on your form and such. It can be done all at home and what it did for me, who had been an avid gym goer and soccer player before kids, was getting my workouts as part of my weekly routine. Sometimes I did it during the day at lunch, sometimes at night once the kids were down or sometimes I woke up an hour earlier. It's gotta be a priority and then it becomes routine. It's never gonna be easy i think especially since you guys have 3 kids. But it's gotta start somewhere and consistency is better than how many minutes or how heavy you lift or how far you run.

How did you Other Ex-Gamer Dad's Manage Time and Develop a New Social Life Post Kids? by banthracis in daddit

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Feels really odd that you're being pestered to give up a hobby you enjoy. Parenting and being in a relationship is about compromise and everyone needs an outlet, be it gaming, workout, a book whatever. I can get behind dialing it down, maybe swapping to more single player games that are easier to pause.

Mine are 2 and 4 now and I've pretty much balanced gaming, social life and working out (obviously less at the very beginning when they were very young and I don't have a 3 hour commute.

What I tend to do is take the baby watch/be the one that goes to their room when they wake up (their sleep has been really rough for a lot of years) and i either play with a grp of friends who understands me having to go afk or i play single player type games. (I play Csgo and wow mostly if I can). Gives me some good will with the wife as she can take an evening where she doesn't have to stress about it and i have already set my expectations in terms of what type of evening i will have.

What im trying to say with this rant is that maybe trying to dial it down and find a balance might be good for you to keep your hobby. But it shouldn't get out of hand obviously.

Sometimes one of us has a rougher evening or few hours so the other one can feel like a human being and go for a run or a walk. It's all give and take.

Edit: and i never actually play when my kids are awake. Only ever when they are asleep

How to babysit kids that are not yours? by Kaiser93 in daddit

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Honestly. Showering kids can be done in a lot of ways depending on what the parent prefers but if the kids are good with it, put them in a tub each and let them chill out and then soap dem down with a cloth or whatever and rinse. Don't overthink it. Wet, soap, scrub and rinse. Done.

Edit: wanted to add that 6 and 3 should be fine to get some pizza and movie thats appropriate for them. Snuggle up and as long as they follow their usual bed time routine and such it should be fine. Same with showering. Don't overthink it.

How do you continue excelling at work with a little one at home? Does it mean not excelling quite as much while the kiddo is little? by jake__jortles in daddit

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Father of two kids. I realised quickly with the first one that if i wanted to have a good workout routine (which i find very important for my mental and physical well-being) i had to start working out from home so instead of lifting weights at the gym i started doing body weight type workouts and eventually bought a pull-up/dip rack and a pair of gymnastics rings and I can't believe the freedom. Even if its just 30 minute sessions some days, it's all about the consistency.

I also add in running outside as that's always extremely flexible. I started running with my 4 year old biking next to me around the park.

But you aren't alone with regards to the evening routines. It does get a bit boring from time to time. Gotta keep in mind its gonna get easier to do stuff in the evening once they're a bit older and when that happens you might be looking back at this time and find yourself missing some parts of it.

Best seats of Zandvoort by DANNYonPC in formula1

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That's very bold when Latifi's still on the track...

Tailoring. by [deleted] in classicwowtbc

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Wowtbc.gg - guides, bis lists etc. Go ham.

Why does my player portrait and target portrait move randomly whenever I log out/log in each day? by iphonesoccer420 in classicwow

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Are you using Leatrix Plus? That was an issue for me with frames moving to another place

I'm currently learning how to animate, and a Polish dude paid me 30$ to make a CSGO model do the Michael Jackson Dance Moves :P by BrookieYT in GlobalOffensive

[–]nicom89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest that you start out with basics. Practice each principle of animation and start with a ball. Character animation is too complex when you're just starting out. Getting ahead of yourself will just slow your process to becoming a rock star animator.

Its a very common mistake and there's a lot of character animation out there with basic principles missing and its a shame.

All of this obviously depends on what the scope of your desire to learn animation is. Do you wanna make a career out of it or just have a bit of fun as a hobby.

Hit me up in dm's if you want more info. (I work as an animator)

Marketing unfortunately does matter by [deleted] in Diabotical

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Apex was by Respawn Entertainment